PUA outs himself on Instagram and women lose their ****.

[El Payaso]

The reactions to a dude revealing some PUA tactics is hilarious. There are actually women wanting to call the cops on him for attracting women.

http://instagr.am/p/B2pHvpkHagr/

 

[Hal9000]

This guy just made alot of other men's lives miserable.

 

[AttackFormation]

If what he did wasnt based on manipulation and the targets' low selfesteem, there would be no need to hide what hes doing like you guys are saying and this wouldnt be a problem. Men who women really desire and respect have no reason to be anything less than upfront and unapologetic, and indeed them being so makes them more respected.

Not judging, if it works for him thats great and all behavior is technically manipulation. Just saying whats the overall mindset and place to aspire to.

 

[MountainSlide]

Real men do this exact same **** without thinking of it Hahahaha. This guys autism caused him to break it down like an algorithm. The post made me laugh though. I’ve juiced some girls egos so crazy. Then got annoyed with their clinginess. Stoped complimenting me. They chased me forever demanding that I juice their ego some more. Entertaining ****.

 

[zekko]

The negs and backhanded compliments have been very overexposed in the mainstream, from what I've seen. It's a very transparent tactic, women are onto it. Unless I can find a very subtle and non-obvious way of doing it, I'd be embarrassed to use them. It's like telling them "I'm insecure and have to resort to cheap tricks to get laid".

 

[Medina]

"If it angers a feminist, you can guarantee it's 100% true"

- Medina

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

First rule of fight club...

I'd say this is a HUGE understated problem in seduction, and you can see plenty examples here.

Traditionally (like evolutionary, instinctive based) guy needs real status to get laid.

Not fake bling status, but real, men follow you status.

That is the deep drivers of female attraction.

But in modern times, particularly due to feminism, which allows girls to slooze around without negative consequences, they can be "tricked' into short term attraction by using game.

This means lower tier dudes who never have much social status can learn PUA tricks to get laid.

Which is exactly what this guy did.

So he's getting laid, but he STILL craves social status, the admiration and validation of other men.

So he brags to other men about how easy it is to get laid (using short term tricks) in order to HOPEFULLY get the attention from MEN that he really wants.

The reason they are so quick to anger is they feel TRICKED by a BETA, which is essentially the WORST THING that can happen to any woman.

The modern PUA is very much like modern tech dudes (Elon Musk, that WeWork con artist, etc.) and VC's (and to large extent real estate goofs) who make tons of cash, but are not in the same class as old school empire builders.

it's very easy to FAKE your way into pvssy and money in modern society without having genuine, instinctive, subconsciously generated and projected STATUS.

 

[backseatjuan]

Why do you all ASSUME he is good?

 

[Desdinova]

I've been with women who have heard about PUAs and have even tried to discuss the subject with me about how smart women wouldn't fall for such tactics. Women don't realize that a good PUA comes in under their radar and the woman doesn't even realize it's happening to her.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I'd say this is a HUGE understated problem in seduction, and you can see plenty examples here.

Traditionally (like evolutionary, instinctive based) guy needs real status to get laid.

Not fake bling status, but real, men follow you status.

That is the deep drivers of female attraction.

But in modern times, particularly due to feminism, which allows girls to slooze around without negative consequences, they can be "tricked' into short term attraction by using game.

This means lower tier dudes who never have much social status can learn PUA tricks to get laid.

Which is exactly what this guy did.

So he's getting laid, but he STILL craves social status, the admiration and validation of other men.

So he brags to other men about how easy it is to get laid (using short term tricks) in order to HOPEFULLY get the attention from MEN that he really wants.

The reason they are so quick to anger is they feel TRICKED by a BETA, which is essentially the WORST THING that can happen to any woman.

The modern PUA is very much like modern tech dudes (Elon Musk, that WeWork con artist, etc.) and VC's (and to large extent real estate goofs) who make tons of cash, but are not in the same class as old school empire builders.

it's very easy to FAKE your way into pvssy and money in modern society without having genuine, instinctive, subconsciously generated and projected STATUS.

Its hilarious. The automatic response by women is victimhood. Zero ****s given. Women divorce rape, cuck, crater smv, be skiing down cawk mountain and seek a white dress as best yrs are done.

The reality is that, when are adept to evolving but are utter followers. They would be in the kitchen making sandwiches if not for the malleable culture. Girl power is the norm. In either event, the reaction of women is victimhood on tren.


Men need to be disregarding water works and the victimhood. It absolutely means nothing.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I've been with women who have heard about PUAs and have even tried to discuss the subject with me about how smart women wouldn't fall for such tactics. Women don't realize that a good PUA comes in under their radar and the woman doesn't even realize it's happening to her.

Its because of the wackkk jobs and con men in the industry which has been watered down. Furthermore, women are disgusting and having abortions. The barrier for entree is next to nothing. The fallback plan is marriage. The article about male eligibility for marriage is misandry. It caters to the narrative of victimhood and girl power (ability to unleash the dogs of the state to extract male resources).

Imagine, a legit article on the matter.The ssample size being from women on top form SMV 18-23, women men actually want lololol. Not busted 30+ just off the carousel with SMV decay and retard eggs + 100k in student loans from a degree in lesbianism dance therapy and a minor in left handed puppetry. How about a article that states the 80% of divorce initiated by women? The abundance of women who think marriage is a pie eating contest. The reality being, a man is better off a bachelor and slinging ****kkk.

Women play the victim card because it works. Its outrage due to female stupidity. Feminism convinced women that sloots gonna sloot is empowering. As if her teens and twenties will grow back lololol.

Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.

 

[zekko]

I agree that it's been very overexposed to the point of being cliche. I remember vaguely an episode of Big Bang Theory where one of the characters was learning these techniques. This was a number of years ago, and I remember thinking that that's the PUA equivalent of your shoe shine boy giving you a stock tip.

Still, even if women are onto it, they're self-deceiving enough to go along with it most of the time. A lot of these are just forms of teasing, and if you tease flirtatiously and a girl likes it, it's not like she's going to say "you're just doing this to get me to validate myself to you." I don't think it's the methods they dislike so much as hearing them explained to them or anyone.

A lot of the time they might know what you're doing, but if they like you they'll respond to you anyway. If they don't like you, then they might get angry that you're using these well known "tricks" on them.

For me, the issue is I would feel too cheesy saying a lot of these lines. Like I said, if it's done very subtly, it's fine. If you are subtle enough, a cold approach won't even look like a cold approach, although subtle isn't always the best approach either.

 

[BURT MCQUEEN]

The reactions to a dude revealing some PUA tactics is hilarious. There are actually women wanting to call the cops on him for attracting women.

http://instagr.am/p/B2pHvpkHagr/

I don't remeber who said this but, pick-up artists are like kids with dynamite

 

[AJ84]

I don’t think what he wrote should be removed because the point of humansofny is to post about human experiences and how people feel.

That’s how this guy feels.

And honestly many many women already know about these kinds of games. For every article or forum post about how to game women, there’s double that on how to avoid being played by men. This isn’t anything new. The women who are reacting like that are just ticked off that what they already know about game and being played has been posted on a mainstream platform and they want to make a big point of reacting to it.

But, like I said, many if not most women are already aware of this and there are countless blogs and subreddits where women write about how to look for red flags and dump guys who treat them bad.

It’s not like it’s some secret. PUA/red pill sites are not hidden on the dark web, it’s out there for everyone to read and lots of women do.

Like I said before some of it is imo good advice but to be honest about 80% of what is advised is what woman are warned to avoid on basically every mainstream dating or relationship site. Just go to any subreddit relationship site and see what women are advised to do when they post dating/ relationship issues.

 

[zekko]

Like I said before some of it is imo good advice but to be honest about 80% of what is advised is what woman are warned to avoid on basically every mainstream dating or relationship site.

Just because a guy wants to be good with women, that doesn't make him a bad person. But I suppose what women are really wanting to avoid is being used for sex, manipulated, and pumped and dumped. But if a girl is just out for a one night stand herself, she probably doesn't care, and a lot of guys are specifically seeking those kind of women. Most guys would like to meet a decent women for a relationship, I suspect - maybe not most of the guys here.

AJ, it seems to me most "game" that is taught seems to be ways to send a message to a girl that he doesn't really like her that much, or find her that attractive or valuable. I bet 90% of PUA tactics are related to that idea in some way or another. Obviously it's not appealing to be overeager, or desperate. But as a female, do you think most women are looking for guys who "aren't that into them"? I'd be curious to hear your thoughts.

 

[AJ84]

Just because a guy wants to be good with women, that doesn't make him a bad person. But I suppose what women are really wanting to avoid is being used for sex, manipulated, and pumped and dumped. But if a girl is just out for a one night stand herself, she probably doesn't care, and a lot of guys are specifically seeking those kind of women. Most guys would like to meet a decent women for a relationship, I suspect - maybe not most of the guys here.

AJ, it seems to me most "game" that is taught seems to be ways to send a message to a girl that he doesn't really like her that much, or find her that attractive or valuable. I bet 90% of PUA tactics are related to that idea in some way or another. Obviously it's not appealing to be overeager, or desperate. But as a female, do you think most women are looking for guys who "aren't that into them"? I'd be curious to hear your thoughts.

I don’t think most women are looking for men who aren’t into them. I honestly don’t know any woman in my social sphere who is drawn to a man who sees her as not that attractive or little value. I don’t know who that works on, but it must work on some women I guess?


I think that many men and woman want people who are into them, attracted, see value and are willing to invest, but some of those men and women want that even if they themselves don’t want to invest. The woman who wants the male orbiter, the man who wants the plate - each will complain when that orbitor or plate doesn’t show some kind of loyalty or connection to them when they don’t have any intention of reciprocating it anyway.

I think for men who don’t want to invest there are women out there who are like minded, but it’s rare for both to let the ego go and say, ok, let’s hook up and do our thing but no expectation from either side of any exclusivity or investment. Men who want the FWB but doesn’t want her to be FWB with other guys and women who want the FWB doesn’t want him with other girls either.

There are exceptions of course but generally speaking, it seems that some men and women want the girlfriend/ boyfriend experience in situations where they actually provide zero incentive for someone to be their girlfriend or boyfriend. Like taking but not giving, but expecting the other person to continue to give and not seeing the hypocrisy in that.

Then there are people who are genuinely looking for a relationship with a decent person who isn’t going to rip their heart out and eat it lol. I am someone who prefers relationships and I see that a few men here are the same. I’m not against casual dating but I do think it’s strange when casual daters expect stuff that really only works in committed relationships.

 

[AJ84]

This is just my opinion, but generally I think women are worse at applying what they've learned than are men. I think it's because they prefer the roller coaster, and having something to chat about with their girl friends. It tapers off with age, but they're much more drawn in by mixed signals and mystery than by Mr. Nice Guy. Whereas most guys look for the path of least resistance through whatever "game" they are employing.

I don’t agree that women are worse at applying what they learn but they aren’t better at it then men. I think both genders apply blinders and ignore red flags. I’ve done it, I’ve seen it done. And I see it being done right on this site.

There are countless threads here on men who walk into situations that they know are going to blow up and they post about what to do anyway. Quotes like, “I know I came off as beta, but...” so they know, but they did it anyway. Then someone will reply, “Dude you have been on this site for three years have you learned nothing??”

For women it’s like telling her, “he’s using you, then pointing out all the red flags that confirm that, then listen to her hamster away each point, only to be crying about it weeks later when reality slaps her in the face.

As for the drama and roller coaster, I also think that young men can be dramatic and into the roller coaster. I’m thinking back to my college days.

I think the whole drama thing is common for young people transitioning into adulthood where they are out of their parents homes and have to learn to regulate stuff on their own.

 

[evan12]

I think PUA teaching is something that can be considered unwritten rules , everyone do them (even women ) but nobody talk about them ,

 

[Robert28]

Women don’t want to be used for sex just like men don’t want to be used just for money or what they can do for a woman.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Most women are complete trash. This guy is getting his foot into “game” which is good and girls are just mad that people are catching on. People don’t like hearing the truth but it is what it is

Its this way for a reason. Man needs to be punished for being stupid and taking them lightly.