Damaged Broken Woman Really Are The Best..

[sazc]

Do you guys have a time frame of ejecting from a damaged woman?

For example once we recognise the signs that she is seriously damaged goods.

01. Immediatly plan an exit stratedgy & dump

02. Stick around for a little longer and keep smashing that sweet puzzy, but have a date in mind to dump her azz.

I have come to the conclusion, that MOST hot woman are damaged these days.. Does that mean you should avoid hotties for the rest of your life. Nope

I suppose it depends on how severly damaged she is.

Make an early assesment of how messed up the chick is, then form decision from there on.

Personaly i think it is a waste of good azz to immediatly dump.

I would much prefer to set a deadline, a time frame to get rid of her.

Spending too long of a time with a damaged woman is a very risky prospect, as she will love bomb the shyte out of you, and you could easily catch FEELS.

I would say the exit strategy has to do with the type of guy you are.
you @soulforge need to 'plan an exit strategy and dump' b/c you tend to get attached.
A person who can stay detatched can probably stick around for a while being more emotionally aloof.

This is an interesting thread. I read over and over how the 'rules' if the game are, if she doesnt put out on date 1, #nextset, yet the women who do put out, the ones whom are more likely to be exciting and come on strong thus giving the illusion of having high IL, are doing this for self serving reasons. The quickly high IL to him so that he will want them. In a sense it's a manipulation tactic to boost the her ego. In the end she's crazy or loses IL and he is left confused, hurt, angry, but does it all over again when the next chick puts out and love bombs quickly.

 

[soulforge]

I would say the exit strategy has to do with the type of guy you are.
you @soulforge need to 'plan an exit strategy and dump' b/c you tend to get attached.
A person who can stay detatched can probably stick around for a while being more emotionally aloof.

This is an interesting thread. I read over and over how the 'rules' if the game are, if she doesnt put out on date 1, #nextset, yet the women who do put out, the ones whom are more likely to be exciting and come on strong thus giving the illusion of having high IL, are doing this for self serving reasons. The quickly high IL to him so that he will want them. In a sense it's a manipulation tactic to boost the her ego. In the end she's crazy or loses IL and he is left confused, hurt, angry, but does it all over again when the next chick puts out and love bombs quickly.

This is when picking up on the red flags is key.. She starts love bombing very early on, alarm bells should be ringing.

Red flags and love bombing combined? You know you are dealing with a crazy or a broken woman.

 

[dude99]

Do you guys have a time frame of ejecting from a damaged woman?

For example once we recognise the signs that she is seriously damaged goods.

01. Immediatly plan an exit stratedgy & dump

02. Stick around for a little longer and keep smashing that sweet puzzy, but have a date in mind to dump her azz.

I have come to the conclusion, that MOST hot woman are damaged these days.. Does that mean you should avoid hotties for the rest of your life. Nope

I suppose it depends on how severly damaged she is.

Make an early assesment of how messed up the chick is, then form decision from there on.

Personaly i think it is a waste of good azz to immediatly dump.

I would much prefer to set a deadline, a time frame to get rid of her.

Spending too long of a time with a damaged woman is a very risky prospect, as she will love bomb the shyte out of you, and you could easily catch FEELS.

The first sign of bad behaviour. Never reward bad behaviour with any of your time, money or energy.

 

[sazc]

This is when picking up on the red flags is key.. She starts love bombing very early on, alarm bells should be ringing.

Red flags and love bombing combined? You know you are dealing with a crazy or a broken woman.

Yep. sex quickly, love bombing quickly, and hearing/seeing red flags - all should cause you to cool the relationship off. Trouble is that men are motivated by sex and have a really hard time justifying dismissing a lady who is putting out when bad things haven't happened yet.

They see a train in the distance and a car on the track and start saying "I see the potential of a train wreck but maybe it wont happen. What they fail to allow themselves to comprehend is that, it's not normal in a relationship to see the potential of a train wreck. If you see the potential of a train wreck you should get out asap.

 

[soulforge]

Yep. sex quickly, love bombing quickly, and hearing/seeing red flags - all should cause you to cool the relationship off. Trouble is that men are motivated by sex and have a really hard time justifying dismissing a lady who is putting out when bad things haven't happened yet.

They see a train in the distance and a car on the track and start saying "I see the potential of a train wreck but maybe it wont happen. What they fail to allow themselves to comprehend is that, it's not normal in a relationship to see the potential of a train wreck. If you see the potential of a train wreck you should get out asap.

I like This anology.. Your gut instinct tells you, bad shyte is coming furthur down the road with This shyte.

We are suckers for a good sex.. All the warning signs go out of the window.

All we can see is her sweet azz taking a pounding, and all is well in the world lol

6 months later.. BDP thread created on SS lol

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Yep. sex quickly, love bombing quickly, and hearing/seeing red flags - all should cause you to cool the relationship off. Trouble is that men are motivated by sex and have a really hard time justifying dismissing a lady who is putting out when bad things haven't happened yet.

They see a train in the distance and a car on the track and start saying "I see the potential of a train wreck but maybe it wont happen. What they fail to allow themselves to comprehend is that, it's not normal in a relationship to see the potential of a train wreck. If you see the potential of a train wreck you should get out asap.

I saw the makings of a train wreck but told myself that I didn't care, that I would just smash. Love bombing, amazing sex, and constant crying about random stuff(seeking my comfort) eventually took its toll and I did some things conditionally, caught some feels and resentment. Those feels turned her off and we're split but now I'm constantly fighting the urge to talk her into a hate fuuck lol.

Why does it feel like a normal healthy relationship would be boring?

 

[soulforge]

I saw the makings of a train wreck but told myself that I didn't care, that I would just smash. Love bombing, amazing sex, and constant crying about random stuff(seeking my comfort) eventually took its toll and I did some things conditionally, caught some feels and resentment. Those feels turned her off and we're split but now I'm constantly fighting the urge to talk her into a hate fuuck lol.

Why does it feel like a normal healthy relationship would be boring?

This is the perfect example.. You THOUGHT you could keep on banging with no FEELS..

You thought you could handle the situation.. But attractive woman and kinky sex is very powerfull..

Its only a matter of time you will catch FEELS.

This is why you should have an exit stratedgy in place and a strict time limit to drop her, when you realise how broken or damaged she is.

She cant indefiniatly bang these woman, without paying a price.

How long was you seeing This chick for?

Luckily I got rid of mine, within 4 months.

 

[soulforge]

The first sign of bad behaviour. Never reward bad behaviour with any of your time, money or energy.

Its not even about bad behaviour Mate.

For example the most recent sloot I ejected, pretty much behaved good around me, for the 4 months of seeing her.

Its the red flags you that are the deal breaker for me.

01.Nude Dancing in the past
02.Involvement with porn in the past
03.Cocaine use

I don't need to keep her around, for another 6 months till the bad behaviour starts..

Sometimes its best to get rid, when you sense and feel a train wreck is awaiting you furthur down the line.

That is what your gut instinct is all about.

 

[stovepipe]

Something valuable I learned studying psychology that really made me understand why Cluster B's are so dangerous. Is that addiction can be treated & healed. But conditioning is far more dangerous as it embeds so deep in the brain that fully healing from it is almost impossible.

Conditioning that creates trauma bonding to the abuser is why women keep going back time after time. Even if the abuser leaves them it's that conditioning through loving bombing, putting them on a pedestal, lies, manipulation, gas-lighting and abuse that makes them only want them. These women cannot break the bond even at the cost of their own family or children. I've seen this happen a few times in my life with women I personally knew and never truly understood why the women stay.

Fast forward years later I'm seeing the same thing happen to men now. While it's not physical abuse towards the man from these cluster b women, its their manipulation tactics that cause the mind extreme confusion which in turn slowly makes them become addicted to the push n pull emotional abuse. Another by product is you become addicted to the emotional abuse without even knowing why. The constant breaking up and make up sex becomes as addicting as heroin. These women use sex as their #1 weapon to trap the men in their web of chaos.

All those tactics embed so deep into the brain. When a Cluster B women dumps you like a bag of trash, or you dump her, you still yearn for her no matter how much you try to fight it. Yes, the sex was good, but what most fail to realize is all her conditioning towards you in the beginning are what created that amazing sex, not the sex itself. You get little dopamine rushes from all her bad behavior, but one doesn't even realize it. Slowly creating the trap through mind control. Thus you become addicted to her like a drug, you think about her, you want to reach out, you want the sex again, you want what you had in the beginning. Even if you're strong enough to never go back, she's embedded so deep in your mind that you will have flashbacks of her. Sometimes you even think you could go back and be in control of her. No matter what, she has left a permanent place embed deep in your brain.

Same reason why social media is very dangerous as it uses conditioning & addiction to slowly trap you so you become dependent on it for validation & dopamine feedback loops. Facebook & Instagram use psychopathy in their programming in similar ways as Cluster B's. Ex engineers of both platforms even regret creating this type programming as they admitted it destroys humanity. Since the launch of Facebook teen suicide is up 30%. Look at the all men across the globe killing themselves over these types of damaged women. I had a couple members here pm me telling me they're suicidal of a BPD or Narc relationship and need help. One guy even called me with a knife to his wrist crying.

This type of conditioning & mind control flat out makes people kill themselves, causes PTSD, extreme depression, confusion, ect. Being there is so many single moms out there these days it will only create a huge off spring of Cluster B women. One reason being no father in the picture or limited exposure to a male figure during their childhood. Men are becoming more feminine than ever. Between social media & Cluster B individuals on the rise, there is going to be a big spike in suicide & mental illness in the coming years.


Sorry not sorry for the long rant

 

[redskinsfan92]

Careful, a friend of mine had a crazy girl try to attack him with a knife. He immediately ended it and forced her out.

 

[guru1000]

Respect is all.

If one simply adheres to these words, then women problems become nonexistent. It's no coincidence that women with the most red flags will attempt to disrespect you the quickest and most often, as if they cannot respect themselves, then how can they respect you?

Even women who respect themselves without proper male role models might attempt to disrespect you as they were not guided properly in how to behave or respond to strong male guidance, and so they revolt (internally) under the guise of self-respect, when it is really their fear of being vulnerable manifesting.

Either way, to whichever women, accept ONLY respectful behavior and dismiss otherwise, and all your relations with women will flow harmoniously.

 

[dude99]

Its not even about bad behaviour Mate.

For example the most recent sloot I ejected, pretty much behaved good around me, for the 4 months of seeing her.

Its the red flags you that are the deal breaker for me.

01.Nude Dancing in the past
02.Involvement with porn in the past
03.Cocaine use

I don't need to keep her around, for another 6 months till the bad behaviour starts..

Sometimes its best to get rid, when you sense and feel a train wreck is awaiting you furthur down the line.

That is what your gut instinct is all about.

Well yeah when you list those 3, there would be no need to eject. It would be an automatic next with those red flags.

Ignoring red flags in the beginning will cost you plenty down the road.

 

[sazc]

I saw the makings of a train wreck but told myself that I didn't care, that I would just smash. Love bombing, amazing sex, and constant crying about random stuff(seeking my comfort) eventually took its toll and I did some things conditionally, caught some feels and resentment. Those feels turned her off and we're split but now I'm constantly fighting the urge to talk her into a hate fuuck lol.

Why does it feel like a normal healthy relationship would be boring?

because a normal healthy relationship doesn't bring the drama, the emotional push pull, the feelings, the highs and lows, that relationships with broken people bring.

With broken people you get ugly drama but the payoff of makeup everything - the reinforcement of "YES, I want you" that's called 'worth validation' we ll crave worth validation. when you're dealing with normal ppl there's also worth validation going on, but it's not done after catastrophic lows, it's done with consistency, because normal people are consistent, flat, reliable, etc

 

[sazc]

Something valuable I learned studying psychology that really made me understand why Cluster B's are so dangerous. Is that addiction can be treated & healed. But conditioning is far more dangerous as it embeds so deep in the brain that fully healing from it is almost impossible.

Conditioning that creates trauma bonding to the abuser is why women keep going back time after time. Even if the abuser leaves them it's that conditioning through loving bombing, putting them on a pedestal, lies, manipulation, gas-lighting and abuse that makes them only want them. These women cannot break the bond even at the cost of their own family or children. I've seen this happen a few times in my life with women I personally knew and never truly understood why the women stays. Fast forward years later I'm seeing the same thing happen to men. While it's not physical abuse towards the man from these cluster b women, its their manipulation tactics that cause the mind extreme confusion which in turn slowly makes them become addicted to the push n pull emotional abuse. These women use sex as their #1 weapon to trap the man in their web of chaos.

All those tactics embed so deep into the brain. When a Cluster B women dumps you like a bag of trash, or you dump her, you still yearn for her no matter how much you try to fight it. Yes, the sex was good, but what most fail to realize is all her conditioning towards you in the beginning are what created that amazing sex, not the sex itself. You get little dopamine rushes from all her bad behavior, but one doesn't even realize it. Slowly creating the trap through mind control. Thus you become addicted to her like a drug, you think about her, you want to reach out, you want the sex again, you want what you had in the beginning. Even if you're strong enough to never go back, she's embedded so deep in your mind that you will have flashbacks of her. Sometimes you even think you could go back and be in control of her. No matter what, she has left a permanent place embed deep in your brain.

Same reason why social media is very dangerous as it uses conditioning & addiction to slowly trap you so you become dependent on it for validation & dopamine feedback loops. Facebook & Instagram use psychopathy in their programming in similar ways as Cluster B's. Ex engineers of both platforms even regret creating this type programming as they admitted it destroys humanity. Since the launch of Facebook teen suicide is up 30%. Look at the all men across the globe killing themselves over these types of damaged women. I had a couple members here pm me telling me they're suicidal of a BPD or Narc relationship and need help. One guy even called me with a knife to his wrist crying.

This type of conditioning & mind control flat out makes people kill themselves, causes PTSD, extreme depression, confusion, ect. Being there is so many single moms out there these days it will only create a huge off spring of Cluster B women. One reason being no father in the picture or limited exposure to a male figure during their childhood. Men are becoming more feminine than ever. Between social media & Cluster B individuals on the rise, there is going to be a big spike in suicide & mental illness in the coming years.


Sorry not sorry for the long rant

read this again!

 

[sangheilios]

I haven't read all of the posts on this threads, but here is my opinion.

Disregarding specifically sexual abuse, I feel that broken women in general are just better off being avoided by decent good men all together. I've noticed that women over the years who dress provocatively or behave in a manner to garner a lot of attention from men generally have a ton of issues, where the roots of these issues lie I have no idea.

However, I think the one common variable I have noticed is that all of these women grew up in unstable home environments, often times with an absent father figure. I think these women learned through their teenage years that in order to get the attention from men, which they didn't get growing up, they resort to doing anything to acquire validation. I've known of women who would flirt with tons of men whenever they could, in some instances to an inappropriate degree. Their lives literally revolved around the amount of attention they could get from men.

I used to hate women like this and felt they did all of this intentionally to mess with guys, but now I honestly just feel sorry for them. THe only thing we can do is learn how to identify these women early on and avoid them all together. Women like this cannot be fixed and instead you should opt to find a more healthy and well adjusted female to bring into your life.

 

[TheGambino]

Would u ignore a woman like that or reply in Some kind of way

 

[soulforge]

Something valuable I learned studying psychology that really made me understand why Cluster B's are so dangerous. Is that addiction can be treated & healed. But conditioning is far more dangerous as it embeds so deep in the brain that fully healing from it is almost impossible.

Conditioning that creates trauma bonding to the abuser is why women keep going back time after time. Even if the abuser leaves them it's that conditioning through loving bombing, putting them on a pedestal, lies, manipulation, gas-lighting and abuse that makes them only want them. These women cannot break the bond even at the cost of their own family or children. I've seen this happen a few times in my life with women I personally knew and never truly understood why the women stay.

Fast forward years later I'm seeing the same thing happen to men now. While it's not physical abuse towards the man from these cluster b women, its their manipulation tactics that cause the mind extreme confusion which in turn slowly makes them become addicted to the push n pull emotional abuse. Another by product is you become addicted to the emotional abuse without even knowing why. The constant breaking up and make up sex becomes as addicting as heroin. These women use sex as their #1 weapon to trap the men in their web of chaos.

All those tactics embed so deep into the brain. When a Cluster B women dumps you like a bag of trash, or you dump her, you still yearn for her no matter how much you try to fight it. Yes, the sex was good, but what most fail to realize is all her conditioning towards you in the beginning are what created that amazing sex, not the sex itself. You get little dopamine rushes from all her bad behavior, but one doesn't even realize it. Slowly creating the trap through mind control. Thus you become addicted to her like a drug, you think about her, you want to reach out, you want the sex again, you want what you had in the beginning. Even if you're strong enough to never go back, she's embedded so deep in your mind that you will have flashbacks of her. Sometimes you even think you could go back and be in control of her. No matter what, she has left a permanent place embed deep in your brain.

Same reason why social media is very dangerous as it uses conditioning & addiction to slowly trap you so you become dependent on it for validation & dopamine feedback loops. Facebook & Instagram use psychopathy in their programming in similar ways as Cluster B's. Ex engineers of both platforms even regret creating this type programming as they admitted it destroys humanity. Since the launch of Facebook teen suicide is up 30%. Look at the all men across the globe killing themselves over these types of damaged women. I had a couple members here pm me telling me they're suicidal of a BPD or Narc relationship and need help. One guy even called me with a knife to his wrist crying.

This type of conditioning & mind control flat out makes people kill themselves, causes PTSD, extreme depression, confusion, ect. Being there is so many single moms out there these days it will only create a huge off spring of Cluster B women. One reason being no father in the picture or limited exposure to a male figure during their childhood. Men are becoming more feminine than ever. Between social media & Cluster B individuals on the rise, there is going to be a big spike in suicide & mental illness in the coming years.


Sorry not sorry for the long rant

Nail on the head..

I can totally vouch for this.

When my two year LTR came to a sudden end recently.. Out of the blue dumping by her, possibile monkey branch.

I was upset for around 3 weeks, after that I stopped giving fuks, and wasn't hardly phased with the breakup.

And now.. 3-4 months with that damaged cluster B chick? After I dumped her, my head was in a fukin spin for weeks.. I mean felt like some addictive fukin drug had entered into my body & soul.. Lol

Only when the fog clears, do you realise what a calamity you just dodged.

Now imagine 2-3 years with one of these sloots... Mate you would be driven close to suicide.. No doubt

 

[Billtx49]

Now imagine 2-3 years with one of these sloots... Mate you would be driven close to suicide.. No doubt

Yes, suicide by a man too long in the Cluster B fog is often mentioned, but what happens just as often is that Fog makes him careless by blocking his usual sane thought processes, for example he drinks excessively over his usual limit once and dies in an auto accident, etc…

 

[stovepipe]

Well yeah when you list those 3, there would be no need to eject. It would be an automatic next with those red flags.

Ignoring red flags in the beginning will cost you plenty down the road.

The kinky sex she's constantly giving you is to manipulate n trick your mind into brushing off those red flags. It's like stepping in a pit of quick sand. Each red flag you ignore, the further you sink. If you don't escape in time you eventually sink to the bottom while losing yourself in the process. When you get to that point some end up losing a piece of themselves. You then end up gong to war with yourself trying to get it back.

Yes, suicide by a man too long in the Cluster B fog is often mentioned, but what happens just as often is that Fog makes him careless by blocking his usual sane thought processes, for example he drinks excessively over his usual limit once and dies in an auto accident, etc…

Well said. That is something that is overlooked and not talked about enough. I've seen a lot of men pick up addictions after being discarded by a Cluster B in order to cope with the pain. The fog causes them to become very careless in those addictions. When you've been through it, studied it, listened to tons of stories, you end up being able to recognize these types like having a radar.

One man in particular that caught my attention was Mack Miller. Ariana Grande is an obvious Cluster B. After she dumped him he went back to his drug addiction to cope with the pain. The fog caused him to get careless with the drugs he was using and it ultimately took his life. I'm not saying I'm right with that assumption, but I've witnessed a lot of the same scenarios.

 

[Billtx49]

Yep, substituting one addiction for another @stovepipe. I knew a guy that missed the hot sex so much after her marriage cheat and dump he carelessly banged a low class skank raw and ended up with HIV…