escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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Sh0t that sucks. I'm also guessing you dont wanna move to a bigger city.The county to my north and south doesn't even have a lot. Same ones online everyday.
Sh0t that sucks. I'm also guessing you dont wanna move to a bigger city.The county to my north and south doesn't even have a lot. Same ones online everyday.
You thinking about BDP?Wait, so her before profile listed "professor" as her profession, but she changed her profile recently and now she's a YOGA TEACHER? and she volunteers at an animal shelter now?
That doesn't strike you as ODD in a red flag kinda way?
Did you ask her why professor before and now yoga teacher?
You seem to be caught up on her being attractive instead of being cautious that she's a bot or simply a liar?
BPD? No just generally a scammerYou thinking about BDP?
Ha, I agree but if you saw the other threads on here about divorced women constantly taking expensive trips. Are there any normal women on OLD, especially older ones that are not obsessed with money or travel?Traveling is good for you. Go outside once in a while.
I think it's pretty normal for women to like traveling. They value their expeerienccces!Ha, I agree but if you saw the other threads on here about divorced women constantly taking expensive trips. Are there any normal women on OLD, especially older ones that are not obsessed with money or travel?
Liking traveling is one thing, but blowing your money and maxing credit cards out is another. With many of them working typical jobs how can they afford it? As another poster said alimony. I'm not someone's personal bank to blow money on like that, especially if we're not engaged or married.I think it's pretty normal for women to like traveling. They value their expeerienccces!
Many of the women that can't afford to do it on their own dime, would like to meet a man that can.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
That is why I quit it a couple of years ago. The thing hits your ego too because of the 'lowered SMV effect" that you may be tempted to deal with these types of woman to feel validated and then you start courting trouble because they tend to have even more issues that they are not telling you but find out later after you have invested more time with them and they are comfortable sharing that with you. The red-flags are usually just the tip of the iceberg and it gets worst as your ship sails closer to it.This OLD is really a dumpster fire scraping the bottom of the barrel it seems. Is there anyone decent on there without divorce, baggage, kids or doesn't gold dig who wants to go out on a simple date and have a relationship?
Yet, these women probe you about finances, personal life, money even before the first date. Questions I consider too intrusive before even a face to face meeting and even after a first date. It gets me they're pretty blunt on their profiles about demanding luxury as well. Then if you ask them this same stuff they weave and dodge.That is why I quit it a couple of years ago. The thing hits your ego too because of the 'lowered SMV effect" that you may be tempted to deal with these types of woman to feel validated and then you start courting trouble because they tend to have even more issues that they are not telling you but find out later after you have invested more time with them and they are comfortable sharing that with you. The red-flags are usually just the tip of the iceberg and it gets worst as your ship sails closer to it.
bingo x1000That is why I quit it a couple of years ago. The thing hits your ego too because of the 'lowered SMV effect" that you may be tempted to deal with these types of woman to feel validated and then you start courting trouble because they tend to have even more issues that they are not telling you but find out later after you have invested more time with them and they are comfortable sharing that with you. The red-flags are usually just the tip of the iceberg and it gets worst as your ship sails closer to it.
I agree. At least down here, the women under 30 don't seem as bad, less baggage and overall less demanding when it comes to income but problem is not a lot of them use OLD because they still got friends from college and HS in their circles.bingo x1000
i agree
OLD is a sea of mostly crap.
Trying to predict why a woman does something is just wasteful mental head space. She could be bored, etc. The main thing you should be worried about is yourself. If she kept viewing me but not msg’ing me... I wouldn’t have sent another reply. She either wants to meet up or not.I agree. At least down here, the women under 30 don't seem as bad, less baggage and overall less demanding when it comes to income but problem is not a lot of them use OLD because they still got friends from college and HS in their circles.
Oh and I just messaged that teacher again. She viewed my profile like 4 times since she last read my message when she was at school. I just messaged her and asked for her number and was straight up about it and she gave it to me. I told her I'd text her later.
Do some of these women do this on purpose on OLD? Like they will view you multiple times, trying to send a hint and then wait for you to finally ask for a number? I've got this a few times now and it works actually when you ask them.
Anyway she lives only about 15 miles from me. Actually someone close to me for a change.
Eventually I'll probably move to the Tampa area. A lot younger up there. Actually even up there it's still a bit older though. Still the west coast. Miami or Orlando would be better. Miami I don't know any Spanish though.Firstly, lets address where you live. That is the main reason you're not having success online. Would you move to a more populated area?
You have a lot to learn. Like one poster wrote, you seem more concerned with trying to impress women than sticking to your FRAME. You are the prize. Only bring a woman into your life that will improve YOUR life. It's all about you, not HER. You need to get your inner game sorted. Watch david de angelos Inner game program, that will help. I'm glad you have found this site, it will help you.
Well, that super hot HB9 remember thought I was a farce when I told her it was a fleamarket and the tone of the date changed. She taught at a very expensive rich private school which I'm sure pays almost 100k a year, yet complained about money on the date a lot and such.Trying to predict why a woman does something is just wasteful mental head space. She could be bored, etc. The main thing you should be worried about is yourself. If she kept viewing me but not msg’ing me... I wouldn’t have sent another reply. She either wants to meet up or not.
You have to beat it into your mind that you’re the prize. Not these women. You run a flea market? Running a business is still running a business. Some guys never do that. As long as you like doing it... who cares what women think of it. You’re making enough money to support yourself I’m guessing. That’s all that matters.