Not surprising, OP. 99% of the women out there have ZERO moral compass.
They are all on multiple dating sites (whether they have a bf or not), try to date as many guys as possible at once, cheat on the guys they're "exclusive" with, and crave attention like a heroin addict needs a fix. As
@Glassguy said, you just (very sadly) cannot take them seriously no matter what bulls*hit they tell you.
I keep a couple legit dating sites active mainly for professional women who want to be athletic with me, but otherwise I do SDM and SA and have s*ex with many women much younger than me. And I tell them upfront and in my profile I don't pay $ for their time or intimacy. 90% don't care and f*uck me anyway. Most of them have boyfriends. I crumple them up like a McDonald's wrapper, toss them, and go shopping again. It's what they want.
I would actually prefer to have one good, hot, sensible woman but they just don't exist anymore. You can blame dating apps, #metoo, feminism that's gone way off the rails, and social media--all have driven a huge wedge in anything remotely resembling a healthy, committed, monogamous, relationship. All this "empowerment" and "Go girl!" rah rah BS and yet most women I know are on anti-psychotic meds, in counseling, in bad relationships, and for the most part quite unhappy with their lives.
They have absolutely f*ucked themselves, and I
s-l-o-w c-l-a-p. But, I'm sure it will all work out, right. lol