Classic example of the comfortable western woman
In the old world you'd be clinging to a man for survival
Now with ex hubby's money, unlimited freedom and a safe western infrastructure you're like a kid at Christmas
Just remember -"Freedom without discipline, is degeneracy"
Do you have any idea how you'd be treated outside the western world?
When the chips are down, women like you will revert straight back
I can see there’s no real conversation here to be had. Making assumptions and comparing apples to oranges.
Since i am pretty sure you two won’t look it up and don’t know what i mean:
Fallacy of relative privation (also known as "appeal to worse problems" or "not as bad as") – dismissing an argument or complaint due to the existence of more important problems in the world, regardless of whether those problems bear relevance to the initial argument.
Both of you act more like a female than a lot of females in the way you discuss. Am surprised as i thought the forum was better.
I wasn’t asking “what to do”. i was asking for opinions of whether it’s healthy or not. Obviously i am going to do what i prefer so saying “just do it” is not relevant advice or opinion. That was the point of my question. And you know, discussion.
Back on track though, yes, they should move along if i don’t provide them what they want. I have done it for them many times because they do hold on and out. I have found that men in poly or open relationships at least have a somewhat similar philosophy but they are hard to come by.
