What do to when you want to hit on her during your first meet?

[amaterasu]

Hi Dj’s,

Got another chick younger than me on tinder.

Everything is good and we are ready to meet this coming weekend.

I am not really an expert on trying to make moves to hit on a chick.

What are some of the alpha moves that I should consider to try when we meet?

 

[Pogejr]

Consider that she’s also probably pretty nervous about meeting someone from tinder so just be cool. Have a good time and give off a vibe that you’re not really trying to impress her.

A while back, I went on a date with a girl I met on tinder while I was in Paris for work. Asked her to show me around and we went to a cool bar/brewery with a lot of people and things to do like ping pong. I don’t speak any French so I couldn’t really work the room like I usually do so instead I focused on having fun. Figured she’s at least somewhat interested in me, that’s why she showed up. Beat her in pong a couple times, banter, kino (not like trying to kiss her, just breaking the touch barrier in a natural way), and ended the date with a nice little kiss. I had another date lined up the next day with a different girl but I canceled and spent the day (my last in the city) with her. She gave me a proper tour of Paris and we ended the night back at her place.

My goal was to have a fun time, and I did. Read the DJ Bible for the basics and just get out there and get some experience.


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You asked for moves so I’ll be specific. There’s a section in the DJ Bible about KINO and I realized it was what I was missing in my game. Not just the act but the overall concept and what it means. You KINO a girl to show your interest as a sexual male. Once that touch barrier has been broken, mentally you go into a different category of guys (as long as it’s not creepy). Nothing you say can convey this better than touch. Now, the question is how do you avoid being creepy with KINO? 1. experience. 2. start light, like a high five or something. Don’t shake a girl’s hand like you would a dude. Hug or high-five.

Specific moves... right! So for first contact, I recommend a hug when they first show up but depending on culture this may not be best. Placing your hand on her back is also a good way to say hi and break the touch barrier and don’t be afraid to rest it on the small of her back, but again don’t be creepy and leave it there for like 10 seconds or slide your hand down to her ass.

Slap on the thigh when she says something funny.

“What’s that on your shirt” and hit her nose with your finger (like you used to do when you were a kid).

RISKY but clutch if she’s really feeling you: “You’ve got something on your shirt/in your hair” and pull a bit of lint off her. Don’t know why but every girl I’ve done this to has LOVED me!

Good luck out there brother!

 

[amaterasu]

Consider that she’s also probably pretty nervous about meeting someone from tinder so just be cool. Have a good time and give off a vibe that you’re not really trying to impress her.

A while back, I went on a date with a girl I met on tinder while I was in Paris for work. Asked her to show me around and we went to a cool bar/brewery with a lot of people and things to do like ping pong. I don’t speak any French so I couldn’t really work the room like I usually do so instead I focused on having fun. Figured she’s at least somewhat interested in me, that’s why she showed up. Beat her in pong a couple times, banter, kino (not like trying to kiss her, just breaking the touch barrier in a natural way), and ended the date with a nice little kiss. I had another date lined up the next day with a different girl but I canceled and spent the day (my last in the city) with her. She gave me a proper tour of Paris and we ended the night back at her place.

My goal was to have a fun time, and I did. Read the DJ Bible for the basics and just get out there and get some experience.


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You asked for moves so I’ll be specific. There’s a section in the DJ Bible about KINO and I realized it was what I was missing in my game. Not just the act but the overall concept and what it means. You KINO a girl to show your interest as a sexual male. Once that touch barrier has been broken, mentally you go into a different category of guys (as long as it’s not creepy). Nothing you say can convey this better than touch. Now, the question is how do you avoid being creepy with KINO? 1. experience. 2. start light, like a high five or something. Don’t shake a girl’s hand like you would a dude. Hug or high-five.

Specific moves... right! So for first contact, I recommend a hug when they first show up but depending on culture this may not be best. Placing your hand on her back is also a good way to say hi and break the touch barrier and don’t be afraid to rest it on the small of her back, but again don’t be creepy and leave it there for like 10 seconds or slide your hand down to her ass.

Slap on the thigh when she says something funny.

“What’s that on your shirt” and hit her nose with your finger (like you used to do when you were a kid).

RISKY but clutch if she’s really feeling you: “You’ve got something on your shirt/in your hair” and pull a bit of lint off her. Don’t know why but every girl I’ve done this to has LOVED me!

Good luck out there brother!

Brother,

Thank you so much for this tip.

If you advice to let it go and have some fun first, then I can do that!

Thank you for the dj bible recommendation too. I will surely check it out

I may be able to do the Kino naturally but not intentional.

 

[wifehunter]

Sluts are not a challenge.

 

[amaterasu]

Sluts are not a challenge.

She’s not a slut.

 

[backseatjuan]

Not sluts are also not a challenge.

 

[Glassguy]

Be laid back. You made your interest known by inviting her out.
Now you lay the ground work for her not knowing exactly where she stands with you and you dont fall head over hills. Keep her guessing.

Want a woman to submit to you? Keep her on her toes and make it know that she has to earn your attention.

 

[wifehunter]

She’s not a slut.

Really? Prove it!

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

We are all sl^ts. We just restrain ourselves so you don’t judge us (read: we lie about how many we have slept with). Any girl that’s good in bed or sucking has had practice.

 

[wifehunter]

We are all sl^ts. We just restrain ourselves so you don’t judge us (read: we lie about how many we have slept with). Any girl that’s good in bed or sucking has had practice.

Here's my experiences/observances:

99% is STR/slut material - difficulty level: zero

1% is LTR/wife material - difficulty level: only God can help you

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

Here's my experiences/observances:

99% is STR/slut material - difficulty level: zero

1% is LTR/wife material - difficulty level: only God can help you

Hey i am still difficult even though i love sex! My standards are high. I also surprisingly was a good wife! I mean difficult to get into a serious relationship with that is. So, i think we can be both. Men get attached so quickly.

 

[wifehunter]

Hey i am still difficult even though i love sex! My standards are high. I also surprisingly was a good wife! I mean difficult to get into a serious relationship with that is. So, i think we can be both. Men get attached so quickly.

My info is local to my area... where, it's the cool thing to be a slut.

slut central OC, california

I know other places, the situation is different.

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

My info is local to my area... where, it's the cool thing to be a slut.

slut central OC, california

I know other places, the situation is different.

Gotcha. I only this stuff on here, since it’s just us. lol. In real life, I come off reserved and puritanical. I prefer classy by day and sl^t in bed. thats how i like my men too.

 

[wifehunter]

Gotcha. I only this stuff on here, since it’s just us. lol. In real life, I come off reserved and puritanical. I prefer classy by day and sl^t in bed. thats how i like my men too.

Unless proven otherwise, I just assume all women are sluts. That way I'm never disappointed, but surprised... if I do find LTR/wife material.

 

[amaterasu]

Really? Prove it!

Then all of the ladies on tinder are all sluts. Including my 17 year old virgin sister.

Is that what you want to point out?

 

[wifehunter]

Then all of the ladies on tinder are all sluts. Including my 17 year old virgin sister.

Is that what you want to point out?

Your delusions are the issue, not the hoes.

 

[RickTheToad]

Slap on the thigh when she says something funny.

“What’s that on your shirt” and hit her nose with your finger (like you used to do when you were a kid).

RISKY but clutch if she’s really feeling you: “You’ve got something on your shirt/in your hair” and pull a bit of lint off her. Don’t know why but every girl I’ve done this to has LOVED me!

DON'T DO THIS. YOU WILL LOOK LIKE A FVCKIN FOOL.
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@Pogejr is correct on the kino, but incorrect on the nose with your finger, slapping, etc. You want to talk about about things, and lightly lay your hand on her thigh, and say hey, that reminds me, and keep it there while you talk about whatever that reminds you about something (clever/whitty/funny), then remove your hand. If she pushes away or avoids, end the date. If there's no resistance from her, the next thing, is you say something while placing the back of your hand against her arm. No resistance, then proceed.

It's always better to show a video instead of trying to explain it on a forum. Tripp does a good explanation on it, and it's correct as well as gold. Simple. Effective. Easy to introduce. Link below.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Focus on being laid back and enjoying yourself. She'll pick up your vibe so focus on having a good time. Don't worry about getting her to your bed, just have fun in the moment and if she's really receptive of your attention and she's trying to have fun with you then you can literally do anything you want. But the trick is to tease and get them dripping even if they're not crazy receptive yet. You want to tease on the date and be playful, roll with everything. Interested but not to the point that you'll demean yourself, always ready to walk, in a kind c0cky way. She'll be going nuts and ripping your clothes off if you do it well.

This mindset is a very easy way to maintain frame. Basically don't take her seriously in the slightest because you know nothing about her. The art is learning the finesse so you can play off any woman's interest and escalate it.

 

[amaterasu]

Your delusions are the issue, not the hoes.

No I think you’re the issue, I don’t understand what you’re trying to contribute here. Do you want to help, or just troll around?

 

[Trump]

Hey i am still difficult even though i love sex! My standards are high.

What are your standards?