My gf wants a $900 gift for her birthday. I make good money but I’m not rich by any means and I’m only in my 20’s.
I told myself this year it’s time to get ahead and no more spending on women. She’s never used me for anything in the year we have dated so I can’t say she’s a gold digger.
I live in La so that is difficult...the women here are spoiled and she is used to dating rich guys with more money than me. She’s inviting me to a club Saturday with all her hot friends so I’ll get free bottle service and everything which is a plus I guess.
I personally would much rather get her tickets to Paris or bora bora with me at least she’s with me for that. I would rather spend my hard earned money on that than some stupid gift.
What do I do here?
I told myself this year it’s time to get ahead and no more spending on women. She’s never used me for anything in the year we have dated so I can’t say she’s a gold digger.
I live in La so that is difficult...the women here are spoiled and she is used to dating rich guys with more money than me. She’s inviting me to a club Saturday with all her hot friends so I’ll get free bottle service and everything which is a plus I guess.
I personally would much rather get her tickets to Paris or bora bora with me at least she’s with me for that. I would rather spend my hard earned money on that than some stupid gift.
What do I do here?