I don't condone infidelity. But infidelity presupposes marriage. If you got a girlfriend, guess what: you ain't married! If you're not married, she can't be unfaithful to you. That's reality. Women are looking for the highest value guy they can find. This is how hypergamy happens. I'll give just a couple of examples.
"Chad" is watching a game and casually chats up a table of 3 gals and 1 guy nearby. The other guy is there with his date/girlfriend. Chad chats with the two 'single' girls. The other guy is watching intently and begins to pout even though chad is not even talking to his apparent girlfriend/date. The other guy gives girlfriend/companion a long, dramatic kiss. Then, instead of walking past chad, the other guy ducks under the table to get to the exit! Dude is seriously scared.
Chad's about to jet, he asks how to get in contact with them again. They don't offer. Chad leaves; however, the "girlfriend" gives up the hookup saying the girls will be at a certain club that weekend. 50/50 chance and chad guesses right. He sees all the girls there just a few nights later. Chad hooks up with two of them, including the "girlfriend." This includes grinding and makeouts but chad makes out with four girls that night. Girls get pissed.
A second example. Chad goes out with the girl he is currently seeing Her girlfriend is there. This girlfriend has been in a long term relationship for several years. But, she says she is bored, hates staying at home all the time, etc. Chad and the 2 girls get to the club and girl 1 disappears even though chad has been following her closely. So, chad starts dancing with girl 2. Chad and girl2 start to grind and then make out. Girl 1 shows up, pouts. Chad makes out and grinds with girl 1 now. Girl 2's boyfriend shows up later that night. Chad and girl 2 chat amiably with boyfriend guy. No mention of earlier hookup. It was just fun on the dance floor. Chad goes home with girl 1 to his place and he offers to let her sleep over since she's tired. They sleep, wake up and have sex.
Chad sees girl 1 regularly, but many other girls are waiting...
"Chad" is watching a game and casually chats up a table of 3 gals and 1 guy nearby. The other guy is there with his date/girlfriend. Chad chats with the two 'single' girls. The other guy is watching intently and begins to pout even though chad is not even talking to his apparent girlfriend/date. The other guy gives girlfriend/companion a long, dramatic kiss. Then, instead of walking past chad, the other guy ducks under the table to get to the exit! Dude is seriously scared.
Chad's about to jet, he asks how to get in contact with them again. They don't offer. Chad leaves; however, the "girlfriend" gives up the hookup saying the girls will be at a certain club that weekend. 50/50 chance and chad guesses right. He sees all the girls there just a few nights later. Chad hooks up with two of them, including the "girlfriend." This includes grinding and makeouts but chad makes out with four girls that night. Girls get pissed.
A second example. Chad goes out with the girl he is currently seeing Her girlfriend is there. This girlfriend has been in a long term relationship for several years. But, she says she is bored, hates staying at home all the time, etc. Chad and the 2 girls get to the club and girl 1 disappears even though chad has been following her closely. So, chad starts dancing with girl 2. Chad and girl2 start to grind and then make out. Girl 1 shows up, pouts. Chad makes out and grinds with girl 1 now. Girl 2's boyfriend shows up later that night. Chad and girl 2 chat amiably with boyfriend guy. No mention of earlier hookup. It was just fun on the dance floor. Chad goes home with girl 1 to his place and he offers to let her sleep over since she's tired. They sleep, wake up and have sex.
Chad sees girl 1 regularly, but many other girls are waiting...
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