Why dont i aknowledge females?

[niceguytoalphamale]

I went to a family gathering last night. Where there was lots of females. For some.reason i only said hello and goodbye to the males. I never aknowledged a female there. Its like i didnt even want to notice them unless there was a romantic prospect there etc: whats the underlying cause of this?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I went to a family gathering last night. Where there was lots of females. For some.reason i only said hello and goodbye to the males. I never aknowledged a female there. Its like i didnt even want to notice them unless there was a romantic prospect there etc: whats the underlying cause of this?

Alpha. Your not wasting time on females who arent giving choosing signals.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@mrgoodstuff i thought it was a alpha male trait coming through. And everyone kept fkn touching me lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@mrgoodstuff i thought it was a alpha male trait coming through. And everyone kept fkn touching me lol

The game flips.

 

[Mike32ct]

I don't go to family gatherings anymore.

Female responses: <Ignore> or <eyeroll>

Male responses: "Hey Mike, how's your brother doing?"

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

I don't go to family gatherings anymore.

Female responses: <Ignore> or <eyeroll>

Male responses: "Hey Mike, how's your brother doing?"

@Mike32ct it was really strange. As i didnt say hello or goodbye only to the males.

 

[Mike32ct]

Understood.

Back to your question...

I agree with Mr. Goodstuff, but I will add one other possible angle...

Sometimes, in a twisted sort of way, it is a lot of fun to ignore women and only talk to guys. Can we call it "reverse-attention-whoring?" Or maybe "ignoring-whoring*" lol?

Additionally, with guys, you can (usually) let your guard down and just be yourself. Typically, talking to women is WORK, and talking to guys is easy/chill. Not sure how else to say it.

*Extroverts sometimes attention-*****. Us introverts sometimes ignore-***** lol.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Mike32ct so not aknowleding a female in a room by saying hello and goodbye is alpha? I was talking to them between that. But never said hello or goodbye lol. How is this alpha exactly?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@Mike32ct so not aknowleding a female in a room by saying hello and goodbye is alpha? I was talking to them between that. But never said hello or goodbye lol. How is this alpha exactly?

Cause she wasnt paying you no mind. If she was paying you mind you wouldve acknowledged her.

 

[Focal core]

I went to a family gathering last night. Where there was lots of females. For some.reason i only said hello and goodbye to the males. I never aknowledged a female there. Its like i didnt even want to notice them unless there was a romantic prospect there etc: whats the underlying cause of this?

You're growing up, that's what Alpha males do

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You're growing up, that's what Alpha males do

@Focal core but how is this? One girl even got up from her seat when i was leaving got right in my face and said goodbye then asked if she could give me a hug lol

 

[Mike32ct]

@Mike32ct so not aknowleding a female in a room by saying hello and goodbye is alpha? I was talking to them between that. But never said hello or goodbye lol. How is this alpha exactly?

There are two schools of thought in social situations.

1. Some guys like to "work the room" and basically introduce themselves and talk to everybody, male, female, etc. Acknowledge and talk to as many people as you reasonably can.

2. Be efficient and targeted. Only talk to who you want to talk to. Maybe a female giving you choosing signals or guys that you know are cool.

Either method can be alpha if it fits your personality.

 

[Focal core]

@Focal core but how is this? One girl even got up from her seat when i was leaving got right in my face and said goodbye then asked if she could give me a hug lol

You see Alpha males trait is always desired by women, they're most sought after males in females world, they can sense the trait even unconsciously.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Mike32ct im definetly a reserved type. I did talk to them when i sat down. But i skipped the hello and goodbye. Do it with every female lately lol

 

[Trump]

Its like i didnt even want to notice them unless there was a romantic prospect there etc: whats the underlying cause of this?

You are angry they are not giving you attention, love and respect; similar to a movie star getting paid millions to have sex in screen with the new actress.

So instead of chatting them up, making them relaxed, and getting their number, your attitude is “f-ck these b-tches. If they don’t give me love, I’m going to overcompensate and ignore them all.” There is a part of you that wants to punch them too because you are so angry.

Just go the gym, it’s the answer to everything.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You see Alpha males trait is always desired by women, they're most sought after males in females world, they can sense the trait even unconsciously.

The only thing i didnt like was i gave her the one armed hug and she patted my back lol

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You are angry they are not giving you attention, love and respect; similar to a movie star getting paid millions to have sex in screen with the new actress.

So instead of chatting them up, making them relaxed, and getting their number, your attitude is “f-ck these b-tches. If they don’t give me love, I’m going to overcompensate and ignore them all.” There is a part of you that wants to punch them too because you are so angry.

Just go the gym, it’s the answer to everything.

Huh? Im not angry i was having a great time lol

 

[Mike32ct]

@Mike32ct im definetly a reserved type. I did talk to them when i sat down. But i skipped the hello and goodbye. Do it with every female lately lol

That's fine. I wouldn't worry about that. Again, it's just selectively talking to people on your terms. Anyway, I'll stop here lol.

 

[Focal core]

The only thing i didnt like was i gave her the one armed hug and she patted my back lol

Hahahaha, patted back huh, just smile and be friendly. You just didn't know yet how much attention the real Alpha males get everyday.. They almost have to run or avoid from girls each day.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Focal core so im on my way to becoming a true alpha lol?