Harry Wilmington
Master Don Juan
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Hey all:
Soooo... lemme start off by saying: some people are going to read the title and automatically think: "what a waste of time! Why would anyone want to get their ex-girlfriend back?!?"
And believe me, I agree.
In fact, since I've started giving relationship advice, the one thing I haven't helped guys learn is how to win back an ex-girlfriend.
Why?
One, the statistics: most couples who break up and get back together don't end up working out.
Two, I'm a probability guy, and I only want to teach men things that's sure to help them be in successful relationships.
And three, because if a girl has dumped you, chances are there are habits you have or things you like to do that aren't going to go away just because you get back together... which means she's probably going to dump you again for those same habits like she did before.
Now, all of these are logical reasons not to help guys win back their ex-girlfriends. And yet...
Whenever I send out a survey to men about what they'd like to learn from me, the number one thing I get time and time again is:
"Harry - how can I win back my ex-girlfriend?"
Well... after quite a few years of guys requesting this topic from me, I decided to go ahead and help you all out.
So, what changed my stance?
As much as I would like to avoid the topic, the reality is that, in my years of dating, I've had several instances where either I got dumped or did the dumping of women I was dating, only to reconcile with them later on.
The amount of time between reconciliation varied from weeks with some, to years with others. And, as the statistics have shown, some of the girls I got back with ended up going kaput...
...and yet, there were others I got back with that either worked out very well, or would have gone the distance were it not for certain life choices I made (i.e moving to different states to pursue various dreams I had, or them having to move back home to take care of family stuff, etc.)
I also began to realize that sometimes, in order for a relationship to grow, two people have to spend time apart from each other to better themselves or grow a bit more. That whole thing about dating someone who's the "right person at the wrong time" has definitely proven to be true on more than one occasion.
As a result, I have, perhaps accidentally, developed the various skills necessary to have a girl welcome me back into her life with open arms. And, since I have this skill set and people are asking me for it, who am I to deny them of my knowledge?
And so, if you have a girl in your life that has dumped you, or that you've gone through a mutual break up with and are dying to figure out how to win her back so that she'll love you and stick around...
Click on the link in my signature for more info. I'm teaching this skill set TODAY, and I'll be taking questions and answers from you if you attend.
That's all for now!
Soooo... lemme start off by saying: some people are going to read the title and automatically think: "what a waste of time! Why would anyone want to get their ex-girlfriend back?!?"
And believe me, I agree.
In fact, since I've started giving relationship advice, the one thing I haven't helped guys learn is how to win back an ex-girlfriend.
Why?
One, the statistics: most couples who break up and get back together don't end up working out.
Two, I'm a probability guy, and I only want to teach men things that's sure to help them be in successful relationships.
And three, because if a girl has dumped you, chances are there are habits you have or things you like to do that aren't going to go away just because you get back together... which means she's probably going to dump you again for those same habits like she did before.
Now, all of these are logical reasons not to help guys win back their ex-girlfriends. And yet...
Whenever I send out a survey to men about what they'd like to learn from me, the number one thing I get time and time again is:
"Harry - how can I win back my ex-girlfriend?"
Well... after quite a few years of guys requesting this topic from me, I decided to go ahead and help you all out.
So, what changed my stance?
As much as I would like to avoid the topic, the reality is that, in my years of dating, I've had several instances where either I got dumped or did the dumping of women I was dating, only to reconcile with them later on.
The amount of time between reconciliation varied from weeks with some, to years with others. And, as the statistics have shown, some of the girls I got back with ended up going kaput...
...and yet, there were others I got back with that either worked out very well, or would have gone the distance were it not for certain life choices I made (i.e moving to different states to pursue various dreams I had, or them having to move back home to take care of family stuff, etc.)
I also began to realize that sometimes, in order for a relationship to grow, two people have to spend time apart from each other to better themselves or grow a bit more. That whole thing about dating someone who's the "right person at the wrong time" has definitely proven to be true on more than one occasion.
As a result, I have, perhaps accidentally, developed the various skills necessary to have a girl welcome me back into her life with open arms. And, since I have this skill set and people are asking me for it, who am I to deny them of my knowledge?
And so, if you have a girl in your life that has dumped you, or that you've gone through a mutual break up with and are dying to figure out how to win her back so that she'll love you and stick around...
Click on the link in my signature for more info. I'm teaching this skill set TODAY, and I'll be taking questions and answers from you if you attend.
That's all for now!
