Challenge or stay away?

[TJenkins11]

I've started talking to this girl on Tinder and now we've moved to Snapchat and Texting. Shes Spanish and technically illegal here. She says she wants marriage before sex even though she has already dated an American man and was having sex with him.

She says he was a drug abuser and bad person and she didnt want to end up stuck with a guy like that again. So she decided she would wait until marriage with the next guy.

I've been talking with her for a week or so before meeting. I travel for a living and I'm waiting until I working closer to her area before I initiate this meeting. That meeting is coming this Sunday. How do I approach this meeting? Do I even entertain this meeting. Should I just simply say it wont work because it could be a waste of time?

Shes very attractive and a hard worker who seems to have good legitimate values. I definitely want to try to spin this plate further and fvck her. I'd just like some more experienced advice here before I proceed.

All replies appreciated!

 

[Robert28]

If she’s telling you the type of guys in her past that means that’s what she’s attracted to! I’m not saying run out and become a drug addict but just be prepared that she will see you as a nice guy even if you aren’t.

 

[sosousage]

If woman makes u wait more than 3 dates then its over

 

[Robert28]

If woman makes u wait more than 3 dates then its over

I’ve learned this the hard way several times.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I’ve learned this the hard way several times.

What was the lesson?

 

[Robert28]

What was the lesson?

To not waste anymore time after the 3rd date because you are a dead man walking then. If you haven’t gotten to at least 3rd base by the 3rd date it’s over. I’ve neber slept with a girl that made me wait after 3 dates. Ever.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

To not waste anymore time after the 3rd date because you are a dead man walking then. If you haven’t gotten to at least 3rd base by the 3rd date it’s over. I’ve neber slept with a girl that made me wait after 3 dates. Ever.

Well my first wife back when i was 19 was a confirmed and actual virgin. I had to wait one year. During that entire time we expressed effection other ways.

But for hoez in the GAME. The dating game, the social game, popularity, etc the 3 dates rule is very valid.

 

[Robert28]

Well my first wife back when i was 19 was a confirmed and actual virgin. I had to wait one year. During that entire time we expressed effection other ways.

But for hoez in the GAME. The dating game, the social game, popularity, etc the 3 dates rule is very valid.

Well it varies with specific situations like yours. I had a single mom make me wait a whole month and she had 2 kids with 2 different dudes. (I know I know). But I never got with her and as hard as I tried to get her to come to my house she never would. I should have bailed after the 3rd date but didn’t. She had me fooled with the “I like that we are taking things slow” line.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well it varies with specific situations like yours. I had a single mom make me wait a whole month and she had 2 kids with 2 different dudes. (I know I know). But I never got with her and as hard as I tried to get her to come to my house she never would. I should have bailed after the 3rd date but didn’t. She had me fooled with the “I like that we are taking things slow” line.

One of the famous string alongs.
"Maybe next time"
"My feelings are changing but give it time"
"I dont want to rush anything"

 

[Robert28]

One of the famous string alongs.
"Maybe next time"
"My feelings are changing but give it time"
"I dont want to rush anything"

What’s funny is she never used any of those. Her line was “I see myself with you for a long time and I want to build something with you that isn’t just based on sex.” I fell for it hook line and sinker. It also got me sent packing in 4 weeks too, never saw it coming but now that I think about it I missed some red flags the last week.

 

[Dr.Suave]

To not waste anymore time after the 3rd date because you are a dead man walking then. If you haven’t gotten to at least 3rd base by the 3rd date it’s over. I’ve neber slept with a girl that made me wait after 3 dates. Ever.

One girl made me wait like three months and now she can´t get enough of my d1ck. But I know this is an exception. I wouldn´t recommend waiting to anyone except when the girl is a virgin (but virgins are getting more and more scarce).

 

[Dr.Suave]

I've started talking to this girl on Tinder and now we've moved to Snapchat and Texting. Shes Spanish and technically illegal here. She says she wants marriage before sex even though she has already dated an American man and was having sex with him.

She says he was a drug abuser and bad person and she didnt want to end up stuck with a guy like that again. So she decided she would wait until marriage with the next guy.

I've been talking with her for a week or so before meeting. I travel for a living and I'm waiting until I working closer to her area before I initiate this meeting. That meeting is coming this Sunday. How do I approach this meeting? Do I even entertain this meeting. Should I just simply say it wont work because it could be a waste of time?

Shes very attractive and a hard worker who seems to have good legitimate values. I definitely want to try to spin this plate further and fvck her. I'd just like some more experienced advice here before I proceed.

All replies appreciated!

Marry her or drop her. Get a prenup.

 

[Glassguy]

I've started talking to this girl on Tinder and now we've moved to Snapchat and Texting. Shes Spanish and technically illegal here. She says she wants marriage before sex even though she has already dated an American man and was having sex with him.

She says he was a drug abuser and bad person and she didnt want to end up stuck with a guy like that again. So she decided she would wait until marriage with the next guy.

I've been talking with her for a week or so before meeting. I travel for a living and I'm waiting until I working closer to her area before I initiate this meeting. That meeting is coming this Sunday. How do I approach this meeting? Do I even entertain this meeting. Should I just simply say it wont work because it could be a waste of time?

Shes very attractive and a hard worker who seems to have good legitimate values. I definitely want to try to spin this plate further and fvck her. I'd just like some more experienced advice here before I proceed.

All replies appreciated!

Give her one date. Escalate. If she wont even let you make moves then believe what she told you and ditch her.

 

[TJenkins11]

Yeah this was my plan going in. If she doesnt seem like shes going to give me any wiggle room so to speak of on a potential sexual advance then I'll quit wasting time. I guess I was wanting to be lazy and not meet at all if you guys thought it was most likely pointless to try.

If wasnt for meeting on Tinder then I might of given up already but since Tinder is widely considered the main hookup site then I thought why else is she on this?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What’s funny is she never used any of those. Her line was “I see myself with you for a long time and I want to build something with you that isn’t just based on sex.” I fell for it hook line and sinker. It also got me sent packing in 4 weeks too, never saw it coming but now that I think about it I missed some red flags the last week.

In 2019 the 3 date rule is a safe bet. It verifies enough interest for sex. The rest can be worked out later.

 

[17 shots]

does she have kids

 

[TJenkins11]

No kids and shes 27 the same age as me.

 

[Trump]

Shes Spanish and technically illegal here. She says she wants marriage before sex even though she has already dated an American man and was having sex with him. She says he was a drug abuser and bad person and she didnt want to end up stuck with a guy like that again.

But it’s ok to be vunerable with him, take off your clothes with him, and allow him to stick his tongue down your throat whenever he wants?

Guy: “Honey, get in bed, I am going to have sex with you soon.”
Girl: “Really? You would give me the gift of your sex before marriage? When would I get the gift of your sex?
Guy: “After I snort this 5g of cocaine.”
Girl: “I’m so lucky!”

You got a keeper bro.

Shes very attractive and a hard worker who seems to have good legitimate values.

Her values are legtimate Sunday - Thursday. On Fridays she has good sex with men who stuck needles in their arms. On Saturdays she enters countries illegally and stays in them until she doesn’t get caught.

Then on Sundays the values kick in, back to church.

I definitely want to try to spin this plate further and fvck her. I'd just like some more experienced advice here before I proceed.

All replies appreciated!

I would stay away from girls who have slept with drug users and dealers.

I would also stay away from girls that can be picked up by ICE anytime of the day.

Imagine if ICE picks her up while you are having sex with her? They will arrest you too and throw away the key.

These young hot good looking girls have power!

 

[bob2007]

To not waste anymore time after the 3rd date because you are a dead man walking then. If you haven’t gotten to at least 3rd base by the 3rd date it’s over. I’ve neber slept with a girl that made me wait after 3 dates. Ever.

So do u kiss on the first date and make a move on the same night?

 

[Robert28]

So do u kiss on the first date and make a move on the same night?

Depends on how I’m reading the girl leading up to it.