Women wanting sex rather than me go down on them.

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@lizardking82 is 100% correct. Perhaps it is you that doesn't understand female anatomy?
You just made a NAWALT post. And now he's 100%? Amazing what you can deduce from two sentences.

HE is only living with sex, not complaining. Does that mean the woman feels the same way and finger/oral is just an "extra" or "optional"? Maybe, as you said, she can only get the big O from oral? What about then?

If you use fingers during penetration, great, that's a good thing. I am a firm believer in pleasing women in the bedroom. I believe any way in which you can accomplish this is ideal for a man, as long as you have the right frame and are in control. Listen to the cues from your woman in the bedroom. Do what you want to her and her body language and moans will tell you very quickly if you are doing it right. There is no "one method" and saying so is a completely male thing to do, considering all we really care about is the act of penetration.
 

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You just made a NAWALT post. And now he's 100%? Amazing what you can deduce from two sentences.

HE is only living with sex, not complaining. Does that mean the woman feels the same way and finger/oral is just an "extra" or "optional"? Maybe, as you said, she can only get the big O from oral? What about then?

If you use fingers during penetration, great, that's a good thing. I am a firm believer in pleasing women in the bedroom. I believe any way in which you can accomplish this is ideal for a man, as long as you have the right frame and are in control. Listen to the cues from your woman in the bedroom. Do what you want to her and her body language and moans will tell you very quickly if you are doing it right. There is no "one method" and saying so is a completely male thing to do, considering all we really care about is the act of penetration.
You obviously do NOT understand the female anatomy...

If she can get the big O from oral, that suggests that she is inclined to orgasm via cl1toral stimulation. His comment on using your fingers, to achieve the same, absolutely applies, in many different ways, in many different positions.

get it now?
 

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You obviously do NOT understand the female anatomy...

If she can get the big O from oral, that suggests that she is inclined to orgasm via ****oral stimulation. His comment on using your fingers, to achieve the same, absolutely applies, in many different ways, in many different positions.

get it now?
I know what the **** is thanks for the anatomy lesson. Off you go now
 

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You just made a NAWALT post. And now he's 100%? Amazing what you can deduce from two sentences.

HE is only living with sex, not complaining. Does that mean the woman feels the same way and finger/oral is just an "extra" or "optional"? Maybe, as you said, she can only get the big O from oral? What about then?

If you use fingers during penetration, great, that's a good thing. I am a firm believer in pleasing women in the bedroom. I believe any way in which you can accomplish this is ideal for a man, as long as you have the right frame and are in control. Listen to the cues from your woman in the bedroom. Do what you want to her and her body language and moans will tell you very quickly if you are doing it right. There is no "one method" and saying so is a completely male thing to do, considering all we really care about is the act of penetration.
LOL, you didn't get me right. I said I can live off sex alone. When I have sex with the girls that I do, 99% of the time, I don't feel like going down on them. I feel like playing with their **** and ***** with my fingers, teasing them and they are usually so wet just when we start kissing so that I don't need to play much and 1-2 orgasms happen without sex even happening.

Regarding BJ, I will tell you one thing: my ex got very good at giving me BJs. She did it just like I liked it and I didn't even have to instruct her, she sucked on it tight and accompanied that with a tight jerking off with one of her hands, lots of spit and it felt like 70% *****. In the 2 years together, she made me *** mouth only 3-4 times because most of the times, I would interrupt her BJs cause I wanted to bang and she wanted to bang. I enjoyed the BJ, but it never felt as good as sex. One of the girls I have on rotation right now begs to BJ me, but most of the time I don't feel the need for it as much LOL

I am not primarily concerned if the woman hits orgasm or not. I believe and I can feel they are being satisfied by the overall experience with me and I don't need to worry about technicalities like "should I eat her out or should I rub her with fingers to make her ***" and I don't have the mentality of "omg, if she didn't orgasm, I must be bad in bed". I can tell when a woman is being satisfied by other cues, maybe you should get better at that.
 

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LOL, you didn't get me right. I said I can live off sex alone. When I have sex with the girls that I do, 99% of the time, I don't feel like going down on them. I feel like playing with their **** and ***** with my fingers, teasing them and they are usually so wet just when we start kissing so that I don't need to play much and 1-2 orgasms happen without sex even happening.

Regarding BJ, I will tell you one thing: my ex got very good at giving me BJs. She did it just like I liked it and I didn't even have to instruct her, she sucked on it tight and accompanied that with a tight jerking off with one of her hands, lots of spit and it felt like 70% *****. In the 2 years together, she made me *** mouth only 3-4 times because most of the times, I would interrupt her BJs cause I wanted to bang and she wanted to bang. I enjoyed the BJ, but it never felt as good as sex. One of the girls I have on rotation right now begs to BJ me, but most of the time I don't feel the need for it as much LOL

I am not primarily concerned if the woman hits orgasm or not. I believe and I can feel they are being satisfied by the overall experience with me and I don't need to worry about technicalities like "should I eat her out or should I rub her with fingers to make her ***" and I don't have the mentality of "omg, if she didn't orgasm, I must be bad in bed". I can tell when a woman is being satisfied by other cues, maybe you should get better at that.
I don’t disagree with the majority of what you say. Check my posts earlier in thread. I think I even mention the “experience” of sex for women being as or sometimes even more important than orgasm. If you can combine both then that’s ideal.

I don’t mind going down on girls if i have high enough sexual attraction toward them and they are clean.

And you are right, if your mentality is “I NEED to go down on a girl and get her off” that is the wrong, supplicating mindset. Most men have this mindset because of insecurity...they feel like less of a man if the woman doesn’t orgasm.

Last, I haven’t *** from a bj in probably 2 full years. Unless she is willing to sit there for 30 minutes I’m always escalating for sex lol.
 

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OMFG. Dude. There are plenty of women who thought their life purpose was being a masterbation device for a highly self involved Alpha who it would never occur to him that sex was about both of their pleasure. So these females complaining about having to SELF PLEASURE after hes done his deed. Using their hands, a dildo or another guy or woman. Many of the males are physical specimens or mental Alphas. But shes getting tired of his bullshyt. A whole untapped market of woman who truly desire to get off during sex. You cant believe all the dating coaches say. What hooks these women is they get attract to dudes image. Yes they want to please their man for a while. But they get tired of not getting pleased. The hook is in their HOPE that one day He will please her. It goes on till she gets tired. But females are complaining en mass.
Sorry man. This is so wrong on so many levels that I don't even know where to begin.

Let me tell you boys one simple fact, women are highly turned on by an aggressive man who is a shietload more manly then some lovey dovey sweet talking male (who makes licking pvssy an art form?).

I don't need to do much to get a woman to squirt like there's no tomorrow.

Their imagination does all the job and it's my aggressiveness that drives it.
 

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Ok..

Fine.. let me tell you what my brother tells me. I’m in Russia, my brother is local mafia boss, tho he is not my brother, no bs here. Real talk.

Don’t lick pvssy Alex, you gotta take them and fvck them. He is refering to capt save a ho misic video, although he never seen it, look it up on youtube.

Back in 2014 I had a wonderful affair with an 18 year old girl, she was hb10 man. It was a summer thingy, I did fvck up because I went full throttle afc on her. I did eat her cvnt she din’t like it. She didn’t like it because she was a summer fling and she saw in me, at least at first, a highly valuable member of a highly powerful society.

Licking cvnt man is reserved for highly valuable women. Such as your wife material girl, and only if she was really good. Yes it should be spontaneous. It might smell because of mt last statement.

The most proper thing is not to care about it.

p.s you can’t even imagine how much sh1t I got for eating cvnt.
 

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Wait, what?! You're not all the same single minded machine? Well.... It's a damn good thing women are!

I don't understand this whole idea of a woman seeing you as subserviant/non dominant if you go down on her. Matter of fact, if you can give her the big O that way (any way really), I can only assume she will have stars in her eyes and be more inclined to see you as a true/complete MAN.

That said, NAWALT really needs to be applied here if you are going to save YOUR sanity. Not all women like downtown. Some women prefer downtown. Not all women can O from downtown. Some women can only O from downtown. Some women can O regardless of who it is. Some women can't O at all. Some women see downtown as subserviant. Some women see downtown as incredibly giving.

Unless you suck in bed, none of any of this really has to do with you on a personal level, it's sh1t that was formed way before you got 'there'

Work with what you got but don't take it super personally - unless you want to drive yourself MAD. People can, and will, suck.
Some women get off on the guys status so he doesnt have to please her in bed. She just wants to oblige him
Sorry man. This is so wrong on so many levels that I don't even know where to begin.

Let me tell you boys one simple fact, women are highly turned on by an aggressive man who is a shietload more manly then some lovey dovey sweet talking male (who makes licking pvssy an art form?).

I don't need to do much to get a woman to squirt like there's no tomorrow.

Their imagination does all the job and it's my aggressiveness that drives it.
Youre misunderstanding me. Im going to take the puzzy and fvck it like i own it. But shes also going to get used to cvmming hard with me. IDGAF if its not manly to fvck her like a champ and eat her like a champ too. Thats how it goes down on my watch.
 

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Sorry man. This is so wrong on so many levels that I don't even know where to begin.

Let me tell you boys one simple fact, women are highly turned on by an aggressive man who is a shietload more manly then some lovey dovey sweet talking male (who makes licking pvssy an art form?).

I don't need to do much to get a woman to squirt like there's no tomorrow.

Their imagination does all the job and it's my aggressiveness that drives it.
And your in Asia? I said here in the states i hear women complaining all the time about having to self pleasure with fingers or a dildo after her bf or husband got his.
 

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And your in Asia? I said here in the states i hear women complaining all the time about having to self pleasure with fingers or a dildo after her bf or husband got his.
You must seriously think that women has different biology in different countries.

Seems like the feminine imperative has done wonders with you western boys.
 

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And your in Asia? I said here in the states i hear women complaining all the time about having to self pleasure with fingers or a dildo after her bf or husband got his.
While some guys will use nofap or noporn to increase their pleasure during real sex, we rarely see women apply similar reasoning.

Maybe giving up sex toys will make it easier for her to kum with her partner.
 

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While some guys will use nofap or noporn to increase their pleasure during real sex, we rarely see women apply similar reasoning.

Maybe giving up sex toys will make it easier for her to kum with her partner.
It's true, sex toys decrease sensitivity. As a woman you need to be cognisant of that so that you don't make it difficult for the both of you, when you're with your man
 

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While some guys will use nofap or noporn to increase their pleasure during real sex, we rarely see women apply similar reasoning.

Maybe giving up sex toys will make it easier for her to kum with her partner.
Wrong.

It's not the sex toy's.

It's the lack to evoke the right emotions in a woman that's hindering her to have massive orgasms.

You can evoke it through pleasure or pain or even a combination of both but it must be coupled with the right kind of aggressiveness.
 

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While some guys will use nofap or noporn to increase their pleasure during real sex, we rarely see women apply similar reasoning.

Maybe giving up sex toys will make it easier for her to kum with her partner.
Many just wont *** unless their eaten. And no we shouldnt eat one night stands or "pass arounds". But if its your woman or wife or primary sex partner she deserves some pleasure.
 

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Many just wont *** unless their eaten. And no we shouldnt eat one night stands or "pass arounds". But if its your woman or wife or primary sex partner she deserves some pleasure.
Do this the next time when you are with your girlfriend - play act like it's force sex, tear off her panties etc, fvck her hard, don't fvcking care if she enjoys it or not, just enjoy yourself.

Perhaps give her a good hard rough doggy and even slap her ass hard.

And after its all done, cvm at her face.

And when she asks why you were so rough, simply reply; I just couldnt control myself, you were just too sexy or something similar.

Now don't start to panic or fret. Observe that she'll have that smile on her face despite her protestations.

Go test it out and say thank you to me later on.
 

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Do this the next time when you are with your girlfriend - play act like it's force sex, tear off her panties etc, fvck her hard, don't fvcking care if she enjoys it or not, just enjoy yourself.

Perhaps give her a good hard rough doggy and even slap her ass hard.

And after its all done, cvm at her face.

And when she asks why you were so rough, simply reply; I just couldnt control myself, you were just too sexy or something similar.

Now don't start to panic or fret. Observe that she'll have that smile on her face despite her protestations.

Go test it out and say thank you to me later on.
ive been taking whats mines for years. So i have a way i do things.
 

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ive been taking whats mines for years. So i have a way i do things.
You know with feminism women will say "dont do this dont do that".... If they have too many "dont do thises" all it means is shes no good for me.
ive been taking whats mines for years. So i have a way i do things.
If it aint mines i dont want it.
 
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While some guys will use nofap or noporn to increase their pleasure during real sex, we rarely see women apply similar reasoning.

Maybe giving up sex toys will make it easier for her to kum with her partner.
How do you know women rarely apply similar reasoning around masturbation? Unless there’s some female nofap site I’m not aware of or females typically disclose to your their masturbatory habits lol ;).

I bet there is a female nofap site out there....
 
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