LOL, you didn't get me right. I said I can live off sex alone. When I have sex with the girls that I do, 99% of the time, I don't feel like going down on them. I feel like playing with their **** and ***** with my fingers, teasing them and they are usually so wet just when we start kissing so that I don't need to play much and 1-2 orgasms happen without sex even happening.
Regarding BJ, I will tell you one thing: my ex got very good at giving me BJs. She did it just like I liked it and I didn't even have to instruct her, she sucked on it tight and accompanied that with a tight jerking off with one of her hands, lots of spit and it felt like 70% *****. In the 2 years together, she made me *** mouth only 3-4 times because most of the times, I would interrupt her BJs cause I wanted to bang and she wanted to bang. I enjoyed the BJ, but it never felt as good as sex. One of the girls I have on rotation right now begs to BJ me, but most of the time I don't feel the need for it as much LOL
I am not primarily concerned if the woman hits orgasm or not. I believe and I can feel they are being satisfied by the overall experience with me and I don't need to worry about technicalities like "should I eat her out or should I rub her with fingers to make her ***" and I don't have the mentality of "omg, if she didn't orgasm, I must be bad in bed". I can tell when a woman is being satisfied by other cues, maybe you should get better at that.