Did your wife/ex-wife change after kids?

[sazc]

Oh please. Lol.

So you’re not going to read the article or study anything? Another nice try.

“Anyone who has never doubted their sanity at different points in their life, truly is insane.”

So how many psychotropics are you on? You’re seeing a whole team of shrinks aren’t you?

Lol, neh. No drugs, no shrinks, never had a need.

 

[Ranger]

Lol it's "stockholm syndrome"

These types of things are exactly why you and your rhetoric have ZERO credibility with me. You spout and spout and spout as if you are some sort of expert in everything, and then turn around and dribble on about conspiracy theory, and are waiting for the government to declare martial law, while you spell typical words incorrectly and then try to ask me about "stockhold syndrome" simultaneously claiming that you are an engineer.

Sh1t doesnt add up about you.

Have I studied people? Yes. I am a conspiracy theorist? No. Do I think you are some type of special snowflake? Hell yes.

Stay on your acreage, please

I like how you used the FBI’s tactic (1963). “If you call them a conspiracy theorist you can nullify their argument.” Lol
You jumped on that like a mutt on a bone. I even gave you a name and also an article.

Of course I knew you weren’t after any proof.
You are very dangerous to these men. Especially the newer ones.

 

[sazc]

I like how you used the FBI’s tactic (1963). “If you call them a conspiracy theorist you can nullify their argument.” Lol
You jumped on that like a mutt on a bone. I even gave you a name and also an article.

Of course I knew you weren’t after any proof.
You are very dangerous to these men. Especially the newer ones.

Lol uhhh huh...I'm a covert agent you wierdo

Seriously, this guy is completely nuts

 

[Ranger]

Lol uhhh huh...I'm a covert agent you wierdo

Seriously, this guy is completely nuts

No. You’re a skilled leftist/feminist. To the bone.
A pure enemy to these men.

 

[sazc]

No. You’re a skilled leftist/feminist. To the bone.
A pure enemy to these men.

No, I'm not, I don't even know what it means to be a be a "skilled leftist feminist" and it's weird that you feel like you need to portray me as some sort of "conspiracy perpetrator" in order to sell your agenda.

I don't care what you, or anyone else, on this site, does in terms of women. Why would I? I don't have to deal with any of you on an interpersonal level. Go forth and have fun.

You sound completely nuts in general tho

 

[Ranger]

No, I'm not, I don't even know what it means to be a be a "skilled leftist feminist" and it's weird that you feel like you need to portray me as some sort of "conspiracy perpetrator" in order to sell your agenda.

I don't care what you, or anyone else, on this site, does in terms of women. Why would I? I don't have to deal with any of you on an interpersonal level. Go forth and have fun.

You sound completely nuts in general tho

Lol you’re playing dumb again. How quaint. I do like it when you explain yourself though.

 

[sazc]

Lol you’re playing dumb again. How quaint. I do like it when you explain yourself though.

Dude this exchange is so weak

 

[GT40]

Hes gonna need a part time job. Splitting bills with a well paid gf is smart too. Yeah we get hit. We can educate our sons.

Yes the only issue is most of us think he's closet Gay. They have 2 daughters but didn't have sex the last 8 years of the freaking marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I remember numerous times a group of us would be out for wings and beers. A 8-10 HB would walk in and he didn't even glance WTF?
I have thought this about him for years. Finally the wife moved out in April 2018. She's friends with my wife as well so I get the inside stuff he doesn't tell.

That marriage was done 10 years ago. It's a shame she took this long to make it happen

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Look, most of what you're talking about is a cop out. Kids, at least from a "I need you ever single moment" perspective, ends after about 2-3 years. From that point, it's usually regular bed times, routine, you should have most of every evening to connect as a couple. Yes, there's more and more to do during the day but the evenings should be free for the couple to do things together.

My wife always hits me with, let's setup weekly or biweekly date nights. You know what date night means to me at this point? Take me out, spend money on me, we get home, "Boy, I'm tired, I want to go to bed". So all I get used for on those nights is funds for a night out. I pay to take my roommate out for an evening on the town. How can a date night not include sex? How??!!?? How would you not think that your husband, who's taking time out of his finances and his evening, might want to have sex with his wife after a night where we are supposed to be re-connecting/connecting? And if I bring it up, it immediately devolves into a fight.

I spend most evenings by myself. She scampers upstairs with the kids to put them to bed, falls asleep and I spend the evening playing video games, working out, doing stuff for work or working around the house. I'm usually too f*cked off to sleep because I'm p*ssed off that she literally ignored me the entire evening so I usually need to do something to burn off the p*ssed off energy.

I mention this because everyone on here, including you, knows what women are like. Just like many other guys, my kids are now weaponized against me. If I Don't like what she's doing? Tough, because she control the kids. You have to be pretty screwed up to not get at least primary custody as the female. That gives you control over finances, the kids and with those two things under her control, she knows she's in the driver's seat of the relationship. Imagine knowing that you can torpedo the person you're with at any time for literally any reason. It's ludicrous to think that this type of control doesn't go to someone's head. Do you really think the queen or any other member of the royal family are great people? Hell no, they've been pampered and treated like a god from day one. That kind of control messes with anyone's mind, especially females.

Guys sacrifice for their familes, they sacrifice for their kids, they sacrifice for their wives. That is usually repaid with scorn, disdain, distance and irritation. I have no problem with my kids and my wife taking priority in many cases. However, for the relationship to continue to flourish, she has to do the same for her spouse. That usually doesn't happen because of the imbalance of power.

No deep dive and constant b*tching my a$$, that's typical female shaming tactics so we don't call out the sisterhood.

Redo the date night idea so you get sex before you leave out.

 

[fanatic22]

Redo the date night idea so you get sex before you leave out.

“I’m hungry”, “it’ll mess up my hair”, “I’ll have to shower after”.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

“I’m hungry”, “it’ll mess up my hair”, “I’ll have to shower after”.

Do it before you shower. Its killing your motivation the way things are going. Does she know other couples who still have sex?

 

[fanatic22]

Do it before you shower. Its killing your motivation the way things are going. Does she know other couples who still have sex?

I'm single now lol but back in the day that's what I would have heard... and what you're saying sounds perfectly logical but women who are in the DGAF stage will say anything to get out of sex. If it's pre-shower she could say she feels too dirty to have sex.

 

[AttackFormation]

I'm single now lol but back in the day that's what I would have heard... and what you're saying sounds perfectly logical but women who are in the DGAF stage will say anything to get out of sex. If it's pre-shower she could say she feels too dirty to have sex.

Hahaha... LMFAO. Oh man, I love these threads. You guys are out here talking about how to game your own fvcking wives into bed because they don't want to have sex, hahaha. I can't get enough of this sh!t. So much for getting married right?!

 

[Ranger]

Hahaha... LMFAO. Oh man, I love these threads. You guys are out here talking about how to game your own fvcking wives into bed because they don't want to have sex, hahaha. I can't get enough of this sh!t. So much for getting married right?!

I have some horror stories. They will have sex once a month as a rule. So my wife hated that all I had to do was touch her and her body would fire up.
It literally pissed her off.
So one day after some really good sex, she started acting like a total b!ich right after. Finally I got tired of it and questioned her about it.

She said that she didn’t want me to think everything was ok and that we were doing good. Lol
Hell I didn’t know anything was wrong to start with.
Good sex = closeness UNLESS it’s the wife...then it’s...
Good-sex = don’t get the wrong idea or that everything is ok.

Some serious manipulation right there brother.

 

[AttackFormation]

I have some horror stories. They will have sex once a month as a rule. So my wife hated that all I had to do was touch her and her body would fire up.
It literally pissed her off.
So one day after some really good sex, she started acting like a total b!ich right after. Finally I got tired of it and questioned her about it.

She said that she didn’t want me to think everything was ok and that we were doing good. Lol
Hell I didn’t know anything was wrong to start with.
Good sex = closeness UNLESS it’s the wife...then it’s...
Good-sex = don’t get the wrong idea or that everything is ok.

Some serious manipulation right there brother.

Why did she get together with you in the first place? Did she ever actually want sex, or was it always something she "fronted"? Or was it that she just didn't want to have sex with you?

Ill say this, im 99% sure none of my GFs would ever try that BS even in a long term marriage, however that is probably the same trait that makes them unsuitable for LTR.

What does this mean specifically?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm single now lol but back in the day that's what I would have heard... and what you're saying sounds perfectly logical but women who are in the DGAF stage will say anything to get out of sex. If it's pre-shower she could say she feels too dirty to have sex.

Fvck that selfish ho. Id say on date nights with an azzhole female bang out your side piece before coming home. She will see it in your vibe

 

[AttackFormation]

Super high sex drive, addicted to sex. Along with that comes being bored easily, so not the best for a stable LTR.

So the choice is between someone who doesn't want to be in a ltr, or someone who doesn't want to have sex, haha. Fvck that.

I'm reading a prostitute's posts on Quora right now, if it's real. She says she's making 1000$+ a night just satisfying the needs of married men whose wives don't want to have sex with them. I refuse that to be my fate.

 

[Spaz]

Women's sex drive falls as they hit the wall and extinct when she hits menopause.

That's why you guys should stop all this older women are quality shiet.

Just get a much younger women and everything will be easier for you in a marriage.

 

[Spaz]

Lol you’re playing dumb again. How quaint. I do like it when you explain yourself though.

I see she zoomed in on a harmless spelling mistake and made it all about you.

The irony is this is how most marriages are with women.

This in turn exposes how women are sublimely unaware of the damage she causes in a marriage.

 

[highSpeed]

I'd like to think there's a middle ground but I have no idea. A lot of these women were in long term relationships (5 years) but they cheated on the BFs and integrated threesomes etc to spice things up on top of it.

Honestly, I don't think there is a middle ground usually. These are common issues and jokes, so many people must experience them, perhaps most. I truly think, especially considering my own experiences with women, that they get lazy once they get married and have kids. Once kids are in the mix, the relationship is no longer their primary focus, in fact it may be several rungs down the ladder. It's highly unlikely that most women will desire sex all that much when there is no punishment for the relationship failing. Besides, once they get married, have kids and are now entitled to the fruits of his labor for the next couple of decades, that's literally almost all of the goals she has for a marriage completed within the first few years of marriage, why would she want to stick around? She can get sex from anywhere, she doesn't need to be concerned with whether or not it works out with her husband.