I really wish I never tried online dating you guys

[longtail]

I know a guy who is both rich and incel. He owns multiple houses and a couple of luxury cars. He is single. I don't think he's ever been married or even had a girlfriend. Lifelong incel it seems. He's 50+.

I ran into the guy because he was constantly gate crashing social events for young adults. He was a creepy, slimy backstabber. He would always try to "steal" the girls who talked to me by offering free drinks and dinner and basically buying their time. Below average looking and I had several girls telling me that he made their skin crawl. Very weird guy.

He was totally oblivious and kept trying to "befriend" me after trying to stab me in the back. He was hard (impossible) to get rid of because these were open invite events listed on facebook. The thing is, the more you tried to help him, the more aggressive he was in trying to screw me over.

I completely ignore him now. Some people develop a sense of entitlement and lash out at the people who are doing everything in their power to help that person.

Whatever the letter of the forum guidelines are, the spirit of the rules is being violated.

 

[Serenity]

I think it's worth a try. You never know what you can/cannot pull off unless you try.

This one is true.

if you take the shots and you feel like you don't look good or you feel like they are not representative of you, then don't post them. But you might be pleasantly surprised that you look good in them.

Do you know just how bad men in general are at judging photos of themselves? We just can't trust our own judgement easily on this in the same way you women can. Haven't looked deeply into it, but I think it boils down to fundamental differences in thought process. The struggle is real!

No boundaries. Push the envelope a little

This one is also true, still can't counter the argument against the middle quote though...

 

[sazc]

This one is true.


Do you know just how bad men in general are at judging photos of themselves? We just can't trust our own judgement easily on this in the same way you women can. Haven't looked deeply into it, but I think it boils down to fundamental differences in thought process. The struggle is real!


This one is also true, still can't counter the argument against the middle quote though...

I hear you

 

[Ranger]

Your aim is pretty small Dave. You are concerned with all kinds of fist stage stuff. Is your goal to get emails?
That’s pretty small thinking. If it’s all about the pictures than why do you keep saying it? Are you trying to convince us or yourself?
If your not a 9/10, will talking about it make you a 9/10?

Why not go through the profiles of women that you really want to kiss. No matter how hot they look, if you don’t feel the compulsion to want to kiss them, then move along. Some women really are more kissable than others.
So for now on your goal isn’t to get messages but to get women to kiss you back. Concentrate on that.

 

[Spaz]

I think you need to work within your mindset, within your comfort zone, within your frame.

sometimes people find that there are moments where they feel like they can be bold and push the envelope. Sometimes people are resigned to accept the Fate that they feel has been put at their feet.

you have to decide which frame is more comfortable for yourself. You seem to be very uncomfortable with pushing the envelope, which is why you should pull back and remain in that safe zone.

Men is not supposed to be in their comfort zone or safe zone.

That is not a man's nature but rather a woman's nature to be in one.

R u trying to recruit men into being incels?

 

[Spaz]

If Dave can send me 10 of his best photos to work with, I will help him set up an ad in his area and do all of the work myself.

I won’t make any promises but I will see if I can set him up on a date.

All he has to do is show up.

Dave how is it that Amante is able to make this offer NOW and yet you need 2 months to come up with the photos?

Seems u trying to be ungrateful and at the same time insulting.

Accept the offer and give him your photos post haste.

 

[Mesoherny]

there are 3 men in this thread alone who are easily top 10% of general public who get nothing on dating sites. The 6'4 jacked guy is probably top 5% of general public


It's not just me who thinks women on dating sites are completely ridiculous

Time to ask your 9+ 10 friends who post on here that get excited responses from the best looking women online by just saying hi to let you use their pictures.

You seem to be more concerned with complaint attention seeking and not actually implementing your own solution you already claim to know works. Start. Using your 9+ 10 friends pictures.

No 2 month wait..besides if you need to wait two months for your own pictures then you are finger pointing at dating apps being the problem when its you. You purposefully used pictures you knew you'd still require two months of self work and then blamed the dating app and everyone else.

No excuses. Use your friends pictures that posts here and see how the replies come in.