Hi All- Apologies for the post in advance will try and keep as brief as possible but cover what I need to, heads all over the place.
My first post was on here a few months ago surrounding a chick who gave me the “im not ready speech” Truthfully, we have been on and off ever since – the whole thing has been ongoing since February, so we have been seeing each other for quite a while, there was the whole issue of her ex resurfacing and her IL being low etc etc, disrespecting.
She eventually asked me to be exclusive in October (on her birthday funnily enough) I sensed a red flag, as her ex had just gotten into a RS, but brushed it off and thought if she wants to make the commitment then we will give it a try, I gave it a go as best as possible, I could sense her IL was constantly up and down and last week she explained whilst she loved me, she doesn’t think she “will ever be IN love with me”
She said its not fair and that whilst she doesn’t want to break up with me, she feels me and her will never really work out, I explained that was fine, do not worry about it, lets not waste each others time anymore and wished her the best. That was that, implemented NC.
She sent me a text a week later saying she hoped I was ok etc etc, I ignored the questions and point blank asked for a meet, she was very enthusiastic, we met up and she was remorseful explaining shouldn’t have ended it how she did blah blah blah.
Long story short – this is the F*cked bit, a mutual friend I know from our workplace, since the break up, his ex has been really good with me, friendly, flirty, asking for dates etc, she is a HB 9.5 (unbelievable seriously), they have been broken up for around a year after being together for a couple of months – no exaggeration, I got blasted with the boys on Saturday and ended up taking her back, the rest is history.
She is very eager to continue meeting etc, this would ultimately destroy the friendship I have with my pal, he is very “Bro Code’esque” and truthfully I do feel slightly guilty.
My ex – who has had me like a yo-yo, has caught wind of the situation, I'm not sure whether anyone saw us together whilst out etc, but she has also said she saw us liking each other pics on Instagram etc and knows we was together.
Well last night I got a text from my said friend “So what’s going on with you and S*****”
MY EX HAS ONLY GONE AND TOLD HIM!!! Apparently she gave him a lift home from work yesterday and spilled all about how she knows me and this girl got together etc etc, I was absolutely raging.
Called her and asked if she had spoken to him – the response was “Haha yeah, I’ve had a conversation with him” – I cut off and that was that. I have never been so angry in my life, my friend has told me to never speak to him again and blocked me, not even a chance for an explanation.
What do I do man??? My head is so screwed.
My first post was on here a few months ago surrounding a chick who gave me the “im not ready speech” Truthfully, we have been on and off ever since – the whole thing has been ongoing since February, so we have been seeing each other for quite a while, there was the whole issue of her ex resurfacing and her IL being low etc etc, disrespecting.
She eventually asked me to be exclusive in October (on her birthday funnily enough) I sensed a red flag, as her ex had just gotten into a RS, but brushed it off and thought if she wants to make the commitment then we will give it a try, I gave it a go as best as possible, I could sense her IL was constantly up and down and last week she explained whilst she loved me, she doesn’t think she “will ever be IN love with me”
She said its not fair and that whilst she doesn’t want to break up with me, she feels me and her will never really work out, I explained that was fine, do not worry about it, lets not waste each others time anymore and wished her the best. That was that, implemented NC.
She sent me a text a week later saying she hoped I was ok etc etc, I ignored the questions and point blank asked for a meet, she was very enthusiastic, we met up and she was remorseful explaining shouldn’t have ended it how she did blah blah blah.
Long story short – this is the F*cked bit, a mutual friend I know from our workplace, since the break up, his ex has been really good with me, friendly, flirty, asking for dates etc, she is a HB 9.5 (unbelievable seriously), they have been broken up for around a year after being together for a couple of months – no exaggeration, I got blasted with the boys on Saturday and ended up taking her back, the rest is history.
She is very eager to continue meeting etc, this would ultimately destroy the friendship I have with my pal, he is very “Bro Code’esque” and truthfully I do feel slightly guilty.
My ex – who has had me like a yo-yo, has caught wind of the situation, I'm not sure whether anyone saw us together whilst out etc, but she has also said she saw us liking each other pics on Instagram etc and knows we was together.
Well last night I got a text from my said friend “So what’s going on with you and S*****”
MY EX HAS ONLY GONE AND TOLD HIM!!! Apparently she gave him a lift home from work yesterday and spilled all about how she knows me and this girl got together etc etc, I was absolutely raging.
Called her and asked if she had spoken to him – the response was “Haha yeah, I’ve had a conversation with him” – I cut off and that was that. I have never been so angry in my life, my friend has told me to never speak to him again and blocked me, not even a chance for an explanation.
What do I do man??? My head is so screwed.
