Going back to work with a woman I dated whose rejection devastated me?

[mrgoodstuff]

i disagree fundamentally with your sentiment.... how alpha is it to fear a woman? need sex in order to "protect" yourself from said woman? curbing your career because said woman tried to taylor swift you? not very. thats what a beta would do. an alpha would just not give a **** point blank, try to piss her off so she wants to **** you again, more or less just ignoring her existence. who gives a **** about a b!tch? i say go get the gd job, know yourself, solidify your presence, lock in your identity, work out, do anything but let her win, and the only way she can win is if you give a sh!t about her pu$$y and or getting closer to her pu$$y...you win very simply if you go about your business without caring about her and who's balls deep in her tushy....

all women are sluts. all sluts like anal.... WWJD? not pull out dats wut

If you havent healed from someone you cared about, they can hurt you again. The fact she would put this in his face in the first place is a recipe for disaster. Pick another job. Its not hard. We should be doing our best to keep our environment clean of things that devalue us.

 

[peanutbuttablunts]

If you havent healed from someone you cared about, they can hurt you again. The fact she would put this in his face in the first place is a recipe for disaster. Pick another job. Its not hard. We should be doing our best to keep our environment clean of things that devalue us.

fair enough. career and money is important though. like putting women aside. if hes being honest and this is going to be a great job for him, and hes not just taking it so he can admire-pedestal the woman, i think he should put his priorities in check. so what if some ***** is slutting around and boasting about it, thats on her. be the bigger person and focus on your own ****. look at her as who she is not who you feel she is, realize shes basic, just like the rest, see her in a bad light.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

fair enough. career and money is important though. like putting women aside. if hes being honest and this is going to be a great job for him, and hes not just taking it so he can admire-pedestal the woman, i think he should put his priorities in check. so what if some ***** is slutting around and boasting about it, thats on her. be the bigger person and focus on your own ****. look at her as who she is not who you feel she is, realize shes basic, just like the rest, see her in a bad light.

Tens of thousands of companies out there pick another location or the same job in another company. The damage is too fresh and she can influence his peers

 

[BondJamesBond424]

DO NOT mess with women you work with!

I learned that the hard way.

 

[Spaz]

If a man is still affected by his past he can either choose to run away to lick his wounds (hopefully be healed by time/distance) or to face it head on (ideally with IDGAF frame)

Seems like OP is choosing to go head on but in the wrong frame of mind.

 

[BondJamesBond424]

I'm curious as to how this turns out. Hope OP keeps us updated.

 

[ghcortez]

Just found out my replacement was a guy from the new place. Holy ****. There is now zero chance I ever go there. This is one time sleuthing saved my ass.