No Sex Because Herpes?

[RickTheToad]

@Machine10033 this is documented https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3228318/

@ everyone else. One of my boyfriends, when I was younger, had HSV. He told me WAY after we started being intimate. He was cautious with the situation and never gave it to me. My ex husband has it as well. He was on antivirals and never had an outbreak. He never gave it to me.

IMO, this inst something that needs to eliminate potential partners BUT I would say the partner needs to get on antivirals and be on them for a year, with no outbreaks, before I wold go condomless.


does she have a transplant scar?

If ladies in general were more cautious, the STD epidemic would not be as bad as it is now. And yes, it is mostly the ladies fault for being promiscuous. Everyone knows ladies are the gatekeepers to sex.

 

[RickTheToad]

Most women are a fvcking 1 without herpes because they're pieces of 5hit in other ways.

Herpes from a kidney transplant? That's bull5hit. Genital herpes lives in the spine, not in the kidneys. She got it from being a wh0re and it was probably sitting dormant in her body for a few years. I'd pass on this chick.

Correct. Herpes like most HPV strains are skin to skin and not transmitted through bodily fluids. Besides, it's federal regulation to scan the blood for all infectious diseases on transplants since the mid-80s when Arthur Ashe caught HIV via a blood transfusion.

Kidney transplant!?? That’s an awesome story. I am no doctor but don’t think you get herpes from a transplant. Girls are manipulative and spin the truth to make them the victims 99 percent of the time! I had a 10 book a hotel for us.... leading up to that night she talked about all her wild sex stories... she loved 3 somes with other girls. I was thinking w my other head. We get to the hotel and she is is dolled out in lingerie. Said she doesn’t want me to use a rubber.... I find this odd. Then I lead in with hey just so you know I’m clean. I’ve been to the doctor and tested multiple times. She says yeah I think I am as well????? I said have you been tested? Ummm yeah when I had my baby 5 years ago I think they tested me. Something didn’t feel right so I up and left. This girl went ape ****.... callled me screaming and crying on the phone. I slept well that night knowing I avoided catching something and ultimately dealing with a bpd.

Amazing how lady logic works these days, eh.

 

[The Duke]

On a little side note......I stopped giving people points for being honest. Being honest is not something a person should get credit for. Honesty should be in ones core foundation, not a reward. Raise your standards. Set the bar higher.

 

[AJ84]

Herpes can be spread through skin to skin contact. It takes two people to have that kind of contact. Men pass on herpes too. Women don’t go around shooting herpes from their vaginas onto to unsuspecting innocent men. It takes two people to prevent an STI. Condoms don’t protect you from herpes, only no sexual contact protects you. As unromantic as it is you have to take a good look at any body part you plan to put your hands, genitals or mouth on.
It’s good that she told you. It doesn’t mean she’s a *****, it only takes one time to get it, but she was careless (not sure if I believe the transplant story). Despite how nice she is, Herpes is basically a chronic condition that will affect your sex life because you have to plan around flare ups etc and babies infected with it in urtero end up with birth defects.
So it’s a big deal. It doesn’t mean the person is a bad person, but it’s not a light decision to make.
Understandable if you pass on it.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Does it bring any conseguence to fertility and new borns?

 

[sazc]

Does it bring any conseguence to fertility and new borns?

babies born during an outbreak need to be delivered via cesarean, otherwise the virus can cause blindness as well as infection. typically the moms to be will be placed on anti virals thru the pregnancy and delivery. HSV infections in newborns can be deadly, their bodies just cant handle it.

 

[sazc]

Herpes can be spread through skin to skin contact. It takes two people to have that kind of contact. Men pass on herpes too. Women don’t go around shooting herpes from their vaginas onto to unsuspecting innocent men. It takes two people to prevent an STI. Condoms don’t protect you from herpes, only no sexual contact protects you. As unromantic as it is you have to take a good look at any body part you plan to put your hands, genitals or mouth on.
It’s good that she told you. It doesn’t mean she’s a *****, it only takes one time to get it, but she was careless (not sure if I believe the transplant story). Despite how nice she is, Herpes is basically a chronic condition that will affect your sex life because you have to plan around flare ups etc and babies infected with it in urtero end up with birth defects.
So it’s a big deal. It doesn’t mean the person is a bad person, but it’s not a light decision to make.
Understandable if you pass on it.

why bother trying to balance what they post? women will always be the root cause on this site

 

[Who Dares Win]

babies born during an outbreak need to be delivered via cesarean, otherwise the virus can cause blindness as well as infection. typically the moms to be will be placed on anti virals thru the pregnancy and delivery. HSV infections in newborns can be deadly, their bodies just cant handle it.

What about fertility, does it produce problems to fertilized and to breed?

 

[Bible_Belt]

The blood test for herpes was independently reviewed and found to be wrong a staggering 60% of the time. It is worse than worthless. The only test that works is a swap test, but there must be an active sore. If there is no sore to swap, there is no way to know for sure if you have it or not.

 

[sazc]

What about fertility, does it produce problems to fertilized and to breed?

Your sperm in your eggs are genetically composed prior to your birth. I'm not sure there's anything that can change that genetic layout.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I was referring to this

One 2011 study found that men with HPV-infected semen can experience infertility. If HPV-infected sperm fertilizes an egg, it may increase the risk of early miscarriage. A 2014 study also found that HPV-infected sperm could contribute to male and couple infertility.

In addition, a 2015 study concluded that HPV had a negative effect on sperm motility.

However, more research on the effects of HPV in men is necessary to determine whether these are consistent findings.

 

[AJ84]

why bother trying to balance what they post? women will always be the root cause on this site

You’re right lol.

 

[sazc]

I was referring to this

One 2011 study found that men with HPV-infected semen can experience infertility. If HPV-infected sperm fertilizes an egg, it may increase the risk of early miscarriage. A 2014 study also found that HPV-infected sperm could contribute to male and couple infertility.

In addition, a 2015 study concluded that HPV had a negative effect on sperm motility.

However, more research on the effects of HPV in men is necessary to determine whether these are consistent findings.

Wow. Get your guardasil shot! And vaccinate your kids!

 

[FMCSMT]

@Machine10033 this is documented https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3228318/

@ everyone else. One of my boyfriends, when I was younger, had HSV. He told me WAY after we started being intimate. He was cautious with the situation and never gave it to me. My ex husband has it as well. He was on antivirals and never had an outbreak. He never gave it to me.

IMO, this inst something that needs to eliminate potential partners BUT I would say the partner needs to get on antivirals and be on them for a year, with no outbreaks, before I wold go condomless.


does she have a transplant scar?

She has 2 scars from both transplants.

 

[FMCSMT]

So, the girl doesn’t act super interested anymore. I’m not sure what the deal is, maybe just not into me which is no big deal. Last night I got 2 hour lecture from my closest friend about this and he just had another friend go through a similar situation (herpes disclosed beforehand, no transplant story) and the guy went through with it because she was hot and he liked her.

He said that he was going to advise the same to me as he did to his work friend - self preservation above all else, do not sacrifice my health for any pvssy. He said she only talks to me because I have made myself available to her given her circumstances. The point that stuck the most was that he said I was extremely limiting my sexual market value by exposing myself to that for future women. He said girls with herpes are still getting laid, but do you think a guy would?

I agreed that I need to cut it off with her but he suggested maybe offer to be friends but who are we kidding? He doesn’t believe platonic exists, I tend to agree unless it’s strictly professional but he says even then it’s not platonic.

I texted her nicely that I need to talk. She responded that if I don’t want to date her anymore then just tell her. I just told her I want to talk. She is what I would consider one of the better girls and if she didn’t have this issue I would certain continue on.

If you have any other thoughts let me know but I think it’s oretty clear that if I were to pursue then my sexual future is effed.

My good friend also says that may be a part of her motive to lock me in and the bail later leaving me with this little gift to share.

Sometimes I hate this dating life but I am grateful for you all here and friends that I have who are also in here. Thank you.

 

[Spaz]

So, the girl doesn’t act super interested anymore. I’m not sure what the deal is, maybe just not into me which is no big deal. Last night I got 2 hour lecture from my closest friend about this and he just had another friend go through a similar situation (herpes disclosed beforehand, no transplant story) and the guy went through with it because she was hot and he liked her.

He said that he was going to advise the same to me as he did to his work friend - self preservation above all else, do not sacrifice my health for any pvssy. He said she only talks to me because I have made myself available to her given her circumstances. The point that stuck the most was that he said I was extremely limiting my sexual market value by exposing myself to that for future women. He said girls with herpes are still getting laid, but do you think a guy would?

I agreed that I need to cut it off with her but he suggested maybe offer to be friends but who are we kidding? He doesn’t believe platonic exists, I tend to agree unless it’s strictly professional but he says even then it’s not platonic.

I texted her nicely that I need to talk. She responded that if I don’t want to date her anymore then just tell her. I just told her I want to talk. She is what I would consider one of the better girls and if she didn’t have this issue I would certain continue on.

If you have any other thoughts let me know but I think it’s oretty clear that if I were to pursue then my sexual future is effed.

My good friend also says that may be a part of her motive to lock me in and the bail later leaving me with this little gift to share.

Sometimes I hate this dating life but I am grateful for you all here and friends that I have who are also in here. Thank you.

Correct mindset.

Don't fvcking chg it and ignore whatever mothetfvcker that says otherwise - all of them r lying through their teeth.