She seems to always want me to pick her up. Is this bad?

[Tilex]

I bought the condoms that @R.U.G. suggested and they feel amazing, but she's afraid they will break. I do not think Jewish ladies believe in abortion either. So I am stuck with these crappy condoms. I wanted to use my crown ones, but she said they irritated her love sponge.

Which condoms did RUG suggest?

 

[RickTheToad]

Which condoms did RUG suggest?

I bookmarked his links, but I picked up the ones listed below. I had to check a few times if the condom fell off or not. Worth the premium. The Okamotos, by far are the thinnest I've ever tried.

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/best-condoms-to-use.251536/#post-2567195

 

[RickTheToad]

FYI - The lambskin condom came off in her and I had to fish it out. The Trojan bareskin broke in the middle of sex. A bit concerned, but I wasn't even close to climaxing and I hadn't ejacted since Sunday. She's not worried apparently. Everyone pray for me.

 

[HankHill]

Plan B at the pharmacy ($50 ish?) if you're really concerned...although if she's not concerned it's tough to say 'let's see you swallow this huge pill while I watch just be make sure'

 

[mrgoodstuff]

FYI - The lambskin condom came off in her and I had to fish it out. The Trojan bareskin broke in the middle of sex. A bit concerned, but I wasn't even close to climaxing and I hadn't ejacted since Sunday. She's not worried apparently. Everyone pray for me.

Howd the lambskin and the trojan bare skins fare against the Japanese condom? You weren't having breakage issues with them.

 

[HankHill]

Howd the lambskin and the trojan bare skins fare against the Japanese condom? You weren't having breakage issues with them.

Rick gets the pole award LMAO!

 

[RickTheToad]

Plan B at the pharmacy ($50 ish?) if you're really concerned...although if she's not concerned it's tough to say 'let's see you swallow this huge pill while I watch just be make sure'

She's a religious lady. She won't take an aspirin; you think she'd take a big blue pill? LOL. She's 41, so at least I have that going for me. I didn't *** and pulled out immediately. I am concerned, but I had a scare a two times with a 27 year old a year back and it resulted into nothing. Her "app" claims she is fertile on the 6th, but assuming her last period was two weeks ago from today, that would be now. No white stuff on my penis, which usually happens when a lady is ovulating. I checked some OBGYN sites and the docs say it's 1% - 2% chance at her age, even less with pre ejac.

So, not sure.

Howd the lambskin and the trojan bare skins fare against the Japanese condom? You weren't having breakage issues with them.

I then switched to the Japanese condom and it stayed on all night. Lambskin felt the most real though. Too scared to use them again. The bottom doesn't stay tight.

 

[RickTheToad]

Tried one more time for the plan b, she said no, then she'd think about it. Silent treatment since I yesterday. She doesn't feel pregnant and she's had sex with others in a relationship (yea, she added the in a relationship notation) and never got pregnant. She then says do you always act like this after sex? I said no. Never had a condom break. The weird thing was she was incredibly wet, so I have no idea on how the condom broke.

Seriously going to look into freezing my sperm and a vasectomy. Too much to leave in the wind. I just worry that the doc will screw up the vasectomy. I also hear it hurts like a biatch.

 

[darksprezzatura]

It's a sh!t test, don't do it

 

[Fzatf]

Tried one more time for the plan b, she said no, then she'd think about it. Silent treatment since I yesterday. She doesn't feel pregnant and she's had sex with others in a relationship (yea, she added the in a relationship notation) and never got pregnant. She then says do you always act like this after sex? I said no. Never had a condom break. The weird thing was she was incredibly wet, so I have no idea on how the condom broke.

Seriously going to look into freezing my sperm and a vasectomy. Too much to leave in the wind. I just worry that the doc will screw up the vasectomy. I also hear it hurts like a biatch.

Did you cvm in her before you pulled out with the broken condom? If not isn't plan b unnecessary? I know 1 drop of precum is enough to get a girl pregnant, but it's not highly likely without actually blowing into the girl.

 

[RickTheToad]

It's a sh!t test, don't do it

She doesn't want the vasectomy, I do. However, I'm not doing anything. However, to avoid in the future, I will consider it for my own well being. I do not like another person being in control of my sperm. If it was a joint decision, no problem. As you can see, she's so confident that she's not pregnant, that she's willing to roll the dice. Even when you do everything right, something like this can happen. I haven't really slept in days. A few hours here and there.

Did you cvm in her before you pulled out with the broken condom? If not isn't plan b unnecessary? I know 1 drop of precum is enough to get a girl pregnant, but it's not highly likely without actually blowing into the girl.

No, I pulled right out, but I'd rather be safe than sorry. I know it's pretty low, but she was apparently fertile, but watery. I hadn't ejaculated since two days or so before. It is a shame, as I did like the lady, but she made a unilateral decision for the both of us. Her reasoning is that she's not worried, but you are. Seems opposite. With a lot of lols. She then said I wish I could make you relax about this, but I do not want to put the plan-b pill in my body. I just said think about it and she said okay, good night. Which, in her language is screw off. This is why I cannot trust ladies.

I assume, she expects me to reach out again... I wouldn't hold my breath on that.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You are acting like you never blew your wad in a woman before. Come on man, rely on either the condom, withdrawl, or mathematics (pregnancy is highly unlikely with one single act of sex)

 

[RickTheToad]

You are acting like you never blew your wad in a woman before. Come on man, rely on either the condom, withdrawl, or mathematics (pregnancy is highly unlikely with one single act of sex)

Funny, she texted something similar. And no, I've never gone in raw nor have a condom break. So I guess my bad if I am a bit concerned.

 

[EyeBRollin]

For the OP, I'd treat this as a yellow flag. The thing with picking her up, you have to make sure that because you have the keys you are taking her wherever you want. She loses the right to make suggestions unless she's the official girlfriend. It's easy to become a taxi / orbiter figure in this arrangement.

 

[RickTheToad]

For the OP, I'd treat this as a yellow flag. The thing with picking her up, you have to make sure that because you have the keys you are taking her wherever you want. She loses the right to make suggestions unless she's the official girlfriend. It's easy to become a taxi / orbiter figure in this arrangement.

True, but after picking her up, she came over on her own the two nights this week. I did pick the places to go as well. She didn't like the pizza though. The second night is when the condom broke and then we had this issue. She seemed very pissed that I asked her to take plan-b, so not sure if I'll be seeing her again.