Would you be put off?

[captain55]

My ex gf of a year ago found out just a week ago I tried to bang her best friend when we broke up. She calls me up cursing me out, and says the women I date are “fake bitches”. To be an ******* I send her a pic of my new chick with natural e tits in a bra and say does this look fake to you? Lol

My ex being the spiteful bpd she is, screenshots the text and puts it on her ig story. Two days later my new girl asks me “was your ex girlfriends name Jenny”
I’m like “yeah why”
“My friend followed her on ig and said she posted a picture of me in a bra etcetc”

Her face was not in the photo. Apparently the girl recognized the room of my current chick (what are the odds right?) umbelievabke

Anyways, my piece of **** ex basics ruined my new relationship because she said she feels “betrayed and was humiliated”

I said look it’s not like I banged some chick. I sent Her a faceless pic of you that I had no idea she would throw up on social media and it wasn’t like your face was in it. Not like I sent the picture to some guy or one of my boys women see each other naked all the time”

I get it what I did wasn’t the wisest move but Jesus fellas I’m starting to think this was a blessing. If a girl can’t get over something this minuscule how would she be if we ever got into a real argument?

 

[Serenity]

I wouldn't be too happy if my girlfriend sent a pic of me like that to anyone without my consent, it's just not an acceptable thing to do. You'd be better off with a witty reply without pictures like "you're one of them" or no reply at all.

 

[sosousage]

My ex gf of a year ago found out just a week ago I tried to bang her best friend when we broke up. She calls me up cursing me out, and says the women I date are “fake bitches”. To be an ******* I send her a pic of my new chick with natural e tits in a bra and say does this look fake to you? Lol

My ex being the spiteful bpd she is, screenshots the text and puts it on her ig story. Two days later my new girl asks me “was your ex girlfriends name Jenny”
I’m like “yeah why”
“My friend followed her on ig and said she posted a picture of me in a bra etcetc”

Her face was not in the photo. Apparently the girl recognized the room of my current chick (what are the odds right?) umbelievabke

Anyways, my piece of **** ex basics ruined my new relationship because she said she feels “betrayed and was humiliated”

I said look it’s not like I banged some chick. I sent Her a faceless pic of you that I had no idea she would throw up on social media and it wasn’t like your face was in it. Not like I sent the picture to some guy or one of my boys women see each other naked all the time”

I get it what I did wasn’t the wisest move but Jesus fellas I’m starting to think this was a blessing. If a girl can’t get over something this minuscule how would she be if we ever got into a real argument?

you wanted to prove something to a retard and got burnt. nothing new.

 

[TBG]

Yeah I'd be put off if my girlfriend was sending photos of me to her ex to get a reaction out of them. Shows a lack of maturity.

 

[captain55]

Yeah I'd be put off if my girlfriend was sending photos of me to her ex to get a reaction out of them. Shows a lack of maturity.

You sound like an insecure *****. If someone said to my chick the guys she dated are soft and she sent a shirtless picture of me out of spite I would literally not give a ****. What would bother me is her talking **** about me. Holy crap some femjnine sensitive men in here

 

[captain55]

you wanted to prove something to a retard and got burnt. nothing new.

And I apologized for it. But this chick and I are still new in the relationship and she has shown me a couple of times she doesn’t have the ability to talk things out. Things far smaller than this.

Ps the day she found out about this she was totally cool. She said “I am here for you I just want to know your all about me.” I apologized and assured her i only cared about her and we moved on.

Six hours later she totally flips and changes her mind. That unstableness kind of turned me off. If it was a nude picture I would understand but it was a harmless bikini pic. Maybe she’s just too sensntive for me. One day she’s obsessed with me to the point of me being uncomfortable, two days later she doesn’t think “it’s right”

I know for fact 9 out of 10 women would get over this in a day. I’ve done way worse and gotten away with it.

She wants a relationship with me and I told her straight up “I have too much to lose to invest my time money and effort into a girl who’s not going to show me some stability.”

I’m not gonna drop tons of money on a girl and spend my weekends with a girl who’s going to
Go from being obsessed with me to breaking up with me every 3 weeks...which is basically what she does

 

[jaymbrs]

You have to spin it around as if it's a compliment to her.

 

[TBG]

You sound like an insecure *****. If someone said to my chick the guys she dated are soft and she sent a shirtless picture of me out of spite I would literally not give a ****. What would bother me is her talking **** about me. Holy crap some femjnine sensitive men in here

What you did showed a lack of maturity. Instead of being the bigger man and walking away you stooped to sending pics to get a reaction to make yourself feel bigger, just like a little immature boy like yourself would do.

 

[lamath]

Man i know how hard sometime it is to be the bigger man. Dont let your emotion and impulsivity dictate your action

Indifference is the best come back

 

[Dr.Suave]

You apologized. She can either accept the apology or GTFO.

 

[captain55]

You have to spin it around as if it's a compliment to her.

Exactly what I did

 

[The Duke]

Anyways, my piece of **** ex basics ruined my new relationship because she said she feels “betrayed and was humiliated”

No, you ruined your relationship because you did something that wasn't very bright. Chalk it up to lesson learned!

 

[captain55]

No, you ruined your relationship because you did something that wasn't very bright. Chalk it up to lesson learned!

You missed the part where I said this girl was overly sensitive with me (before this ever happened) and has yet to show me she can ever talk about a problem. And I hate to Burstyour bubble but I asked multiple women if they would be hurt over this and they said no they would not care and would take it as a compliment as long as the pic was not inappropriate and it wasn’t. They are telling me this chick is immature

 

[TBG]

You missed the part where I said this girl was overly sensitive with me

Just like you are when someone talks about you?

 

[The Duke]

You missed the part where I said this girl was overly sensitive with me (before this ever happened) and has yet to show me she can ever talk about a problem. And I hate to Burstyour bubble but I asked multiple women if they would be hurt over this and they said no they would not care and would take it as a compliment as long as the pic was not inappropriate and it wasn’t. They are telling me this chick is immature

Lesson #1 with women........don't ask them for advice. Women are great actors and skilled in telling you what you want to hear. They don't like to hurt peoples feelings either. They are there to support.

Overly sensitive or not, it wasn't a smart thing to do.

 

[AttackFormation]

I'd like to bring up something that I see no one else has. Something very simple.

Why are you talking with, bringing your new relationship into, and making threads about a mentally disordered ex?

 

[captain55]

I'd like to bring up something that I see no one else has. Something very simple.

Why are you talking with, bringing your new relationship into, and making threads about a mentally disordered ex?

She found out I tried to **** her best friend a year ago and called me out of the blue cursing me out lol

 

[AttackFormation]

She found out I tried to **** her best friend a year ago and called me out of the blue cursing me out lol

So put down the phone. Why do you validate her call for attention? She's a mentally disordered, ex. You brought this on yourself.

 

[captain55]

So put down the phone. Why do you validate her call for attention? She's a mentally disordered, ex. You brought this on yourself.

Yeah she’s a bpd based on what I’ve seen I can draw that conclusion. I feel bad for hurting this girl, even though what I did wasn’t that bad. This chick was quality and I’m willing to go the extra mile to get her back.

 

[Serenity]

You missed the part where I said this girl was overly sensitive with me (before this ever happened) and has yet to show me she can ever talk about a problem.

That's fine, but you gave us an isolated incident and our evaluation of that incident is that you messed up. Past negative behavior doesn't make it okay to do this though.

I don't know if this applies to your specific case, but sometimes when people don't even want to talk about the problem it is because what you did is just plain wrong. I know I don't even bother discussing when I know that the other won't ever agree, they're definitely wrong and there's no way I'll accept it. Might be what she's doing? That you have done several things that in a common sense kind of way is just stupid, but you have, let's say a different perspective on it...

I don't think discussing anything with you is worth the time. This thread proves it, all I see is excuses. 0/10 wouldn't date you.