Isn’t it crazy how you can’t even trust your own girlfriend due to hypergamy?

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I won’t write out paragraphs here, we can leave that for the actual discussion. But long story short, this guy was apprehensive about letting his girlfriend do a beauty pageant run by a club on campus, because he was worried that every guy in said pageant would fvck his girl.

Isn’t that crazy? No loyalty these days. I guess that’s just the nature of hypergamy.
 

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I won’t write out paragraphs here, we can leave that for the actual discussion. But long story short, this guy was apprehensive about letting his girlfriend do a beauty pageant run by a club on campus, because he was worried that every guy in said pageant would fvck his girl.

Isn’t that crazy? No loyalty these days. I guess that’s just the nature of hypergamy.
Thats insecurity
 

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"own girlfriend?"

"own" and "girlfriend" don't always go hand in hand, particularly considering the divorce rate is about 50%, you don't even own your wife.

However, there can be girls who can be and remain faithful to their relationships.
 

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The reality is that it's easy as hell for a woman to find a replacement for the man/men in her life, even more so if she is attractive to very attractive. Just look at any girl's social media and you'll find plenty of men swarming her with attention on there. A guy of equal attractiveness will not have ease of access to other females like that, he will actually have to work for it to some degree unless he is a celebrity or insanely attractive, which is very very rare.

If you have a gf you need to accept that other men are going to be hitting on her, asking her out and wanting to have sex with her. You then need to realize that there is a reason why she chose you over these other guys. Personally though, I don't think many women are all that decent in today's society, monkey branching is just too much the norm.
 

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or of course he should just do the normal kind, a guy normally will never anounce the world or let her show herself around, but the same time you can't control her, so if she really does this beauty peagent thing when he said she shouldn't, he end with her and find a replacement.

insecurity or not you need to follow what you belive, if he don't want his GF shaking her a$$ around several people, just for validation, he shouldn't take that as saying it insegurity or not, he end it and move on, she already failed and is not worth the hassle
 

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The reality is that it's easy as hell for a woman to find a replacement for the man/men in her life, even more so if she is attractive to very attractive.
Which is why you need to be more than a wallet or a set of abs. Game is paramount if you want a chance in hell of mitigating a woman's hypergamy.
 

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I won’t write out paragraphs here, we can leave that for the actual discussion. But long story short, this guy was apprehensive about letting his girlfriend do a beauty pageant run by a club on campus, because he was worried that every guy in said pageant would fvck his girl.

Isn’t that crazy? No loyalty these days. I guess that’s just the nature of hypergamy.
Imagine, if men as a group went nc, stopped working, dating, marriage, cohabitation, and have children until XYZ was met. The end of divorce court, custody, paternity, and the cuckfest. The reality being, zero men in said numbers will checkout due to beta thirst.

The next step is to set specific boundaries. Unless a woman allocated her best years, she is side piece at best.

Guaranteed, she is seeking her options. You should too. The difference being the short window top form SMV has.
 

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or of course he should just do the normal kind, a guy normally will never anounce the world or let her show herself around, but the same time you can't control her, so if she really does this beauty peagent thing when he said she shouldn't, he end with her and find a replacement.

insecurity or not you need to follow what you belive, if he don't want his GF shaking her a$$ around several people, just for validation, he shouldn't take that as saying it insegurity or not, he end it and move on, she already failed and is not worth the hassle
It's lose lose. She does this, he should start going to strip clubs with the boys. It's a reframe. Let me add, was his position based upon security or not? She's doing it to spite him because of her programming in society, girl power etc. It's diff if she dud this her whole life.
 

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I won’t write out paragraphs here, we can leave that for the actual discussion. But long story short, this guy was apprehensive about letting his girlfriend do a beauty pageant run by a club on campus, because he was worried that every guy in said pageant would fvck his girl.

Isn’t that crazy? No loyalty these days. I guess that’s just the nature of hypergamy.
That's just insane insecurity

It's like not letting your girlfriend join a club because there's men who could **** her in it or making her switch jobs because there are men in her office
 

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That's just insane insecurity

It's like not letting your girlfriend join a club because there's men who could **** her in it or making her switch jobs because there are men in her office
Idk bro... this was a frat thing on campus and you know how that goes
 

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It’s not unheard of, happened before
If your girlfriend is the kind of girl who would **** a whole group of random men she just met behind her boyfriends back, then you don't know enough about women to even have a girlfriend. How does one fail at screening so hard? If she's THAT slutty, it would be impossible to hide lol
 

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If your girlfriend is the kind of girl who would **** a whole group of random men she just met behind her boyfriends back, then you don't know enough about women to even have a girlfriend. How does one fail at screening so hard? If she's THAT slutty, it would be impossible to hide lol
oh you know how the excuses pile up, drinks, drugs(someone spiked her drinks), she is already half naked, girls cheering up, its just one time thing, and on and on

modeling per see is not something you should trust girls much, the things I heard when I was close to a model don't make things look good

and again its what I said he can't control her, if she still want to do it, kick her ass to the curb
 
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