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she is way below your league dude. You're a solid 8ish. She is a fat 6, don't entertain that nonsense. This is exactly what everyone complains about. You are way out of her league
Why do so many women complain about online dating?
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she is way below your league dude. You're a solid 8ish. She is a fat 6, don't entertain that nonsense. This is exactly what everyone complains about. You are way out of her league
nah I got nothing
But you don't approach of any of them so that makes you a loser.
usually the ones I like are in a situation where approaching is incredibly awkward
IE a cute girl out with 7 of her friends who clearly doesn't want to be approached. You guys don't give a ****, you would barge in and get rejected hard and claim it was a "winning experience" but I'm not a glutton for punishment
occassionally I have women approach me or who make it obvious they like me but it's always complete nonsense. They're nowhere near dating material
I hate to admit it, but bigdave17's trolling is pretty funny.
He doesn't even have inflated expectations, I don't think. He just wants to meet one hot or even cute girl for a relationship, if I understand correctly. The problem is, he's not willing to work for it. He's not willing to take a risk.
OTOH, I see guys get humiliated all the time. They bounce back. They try again. They're ultimately successful, in whatever way that term can be used in the modern context. The difference is they are willing to try and keep working until they achieve their goal, which is to get a girlfriend.
He wants some sort of super easy, foolproof 100% guaranteed formula and it's not like that. Not for anyone. Even those muslim terrorist billionaires with unlimited oil money have to work to procure their sex slaves from the western world.
Brad Pitt is supposedly the best looking man in the world and he married a vampire.
If the richest and best looking men get wonky results, so don't expect paradise on earth yourself as a struggling single guy.
He doesn't even have inflated expectations, I don't think. He just wants to meet one hot or even cute girl for a relationship, if I understand correctly. The problem is, he's not willing to work for it. He's not willing to take a risk.
OTOH, I see guys get humiliated all the time. They bounce back. They try again. They're ultimately successful, in whatever way that term can be used in the modern context. The difference is they are willing to try and keep working until they achieve their goal, which is to get a girlfriend.
He wants some sort of super easy, foolproof 100% guaranteed formula and it's not like that. Not for anyone. Even those muslim terrorist billionaires with unlimited oil money have to work to procure their sex slaves from the western world.
Brad Pitt is supposedly the best looking man in the world and he married a vampire.
If the richest and best looking men get wonky results, so don't expect paradise on earth yourself as a struggling single guy.
My issue isn't necessarily that I want the hottest woman in the world, it's that I have a very specific type
I like either Latin, South American, Middle Eastern, Mediterranean women. I like the dark features, dark hair, the thick legs, thick thighs, wide hips, etc... I don't like flat or skinny or pale women (I'm Armenian myself - in a perfect world, I would date my own ethnicity). I want somebody 23-28 - I'm 29 so a little younger cause I want to get married and have kids. They can't be single moms, can't be smokers or heavy drinkers, have to be into fitness and working out (or at least be open to it), around 5'2 to 5'9, cute face (say 7/10+), good personality, morals, character, intelligent, classy, well spoken. Something like this
Most of the time I go places, there's only a few girls who fit my type and they're in a situation where approaching is very very difficult.
I get approached occasionally - other times there are women who make it easy for me to approach them but they're never my type
I don't disagree with what you're saying about personality/charisma. As I said in my other post, when I go out - there are occasionally women who approach me or make it obvious that they want to be with me. If I start chatting with these girls, we usually have good chemistry and they usually like me. The problem is none of them are ever anywhere close to my type. One time, I did have a hot Spanish woman who approached me at a bar and we had great chemistry but she ended up being a single mom so I turned her down.
The cute Italian or Spanish girls I want are in a position where approaching is very very hard. In my mind, it's totally hopeless/impossible and they're never single or in the market anyways.
I told you this before, give me a couple dates with women in my league and I would have a girlfriend in a heartbeat. I'm like a very good player who doesn't get any playing time. I have 100% confidence in my abilities if I get some actual chances around women I would consider dating
edit: age doesn't matter for men. You're a solid 8/10. I would argue you're better looking than me cause you're white and I'm ethnic. I might look much younger than you in the face but this only matters for women, not for men.
Your issue is that you don't approach. Your preferences are irrelevant if you don't approach women. It's like a homeless person saying they only want to live in a mansion in beverly hills instead of a housing project in compton.My issue isn't necessarily that I want the hottest woman in the world, it's that I have a very specific type
I like either Latin, South American, Middle Eastern, Mediterranean women. I like the dark features, dark hair, the thick legs, thick thighs, wide hips, etc... I don't like flat or skinny or pale women (I'm Armenian myself - in a perfect world, I would date my own ethnicity). I want somebody 23-28 - I'm 29 so a little younger cause I want to get married and have kids. They can't be single moms, can't be smokers or heavy drinkers, have to be into fitness and working out (or at least be open to it), around 5'2 to 5'9, cute face (say 7/10+), good personality, morals, character, intelligent, classy, well spoken. Something like this
Most of the time I go places, there's only a few girls who fit my type and they're in a situation where approaching is very very difficult.
I get approached occasionally - other times there are women who make it easy for me to approach them but they're never my type
yea but what are the odds that a hot 27 year old Latina is going to be interested in meeting someone? 99% of them have boyfriends
Even if she does want to meet someone, the scenario is usually incredibly difficult. For example - her at a bar with 10 friends. Trying to approach that is incredibly incredibly awkward. You're talking about obstacle after obstacle after obstacle
Most 27 year old latinas look like the goodyear blimp. Only browner.
First it was 7 friends. Now it's 10 friends. Next time you're going to claim she has a gazillion friends.
Are you drunk? I see tons of hot Latin women around here
Whatever the number is, the difficulty level is very high
You say you are armenian? Most middle eastern guys struggle with dating. I have seen them get blown out very harshly on plenty of occasions.
I have even seen fat, ugly white women reject middle eastern guys.
Life is not fair. You will have to work harder than average. So if you have to work harder than average but you actually put in far less work than average or even make zero effort, what sort of results do you expect?
I have even seen fat, ugly white women reject middle eastern guys.
Life is not fair. You will have to work harder than average. So if you have to work harder than average but you actually put in far less work than average or even make zero effort, what sort of results do you expect?
I think he is defining "being social" as simply leaving the house and attending an event. Whereas most other people define being social as leaving the house, attending an event AND "talking to other people in a friendly way."
yes - For Armenian standards, I'm about a 9.5/10. I don't think i've ever seen an Armenian dude better looking than me. For white standards, I'm more like a 7.5/10. Americans generally think I'm Puerto Rican or Greek.
Keep in mind i want somebody who has similar features to me. I'm not going after pale white chicks - although plenty of them say I'm very handsome.
Dude I don't want somebody who would be willing to cheat on their boyfriend
I want somebody with the same impeccable morals and character like I have
carrying a conversation with 10 random women sounds about as easy to me as climbing mount everest. Are you fukkking kidding me?
I make friends and talk to people when I go out, but again you're not understanding my point. Usually the hot Italian or Latina that I want is in a situation where approaching is very very difficult
My natural dating opportunities that I get (women who approach me or make it obvious they like me) are never anything close to my type
I don't even know WTF to say in those situations (when they are there with a bunch of friends). The whole scenario is excruciatingly awkward
When they are there with 1 friend is the best scenario
how often do you get nasty rejections?
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