This is how women function. If you are contacting her too much, your value in her eyes will diminish ‘law of supply and demand’. As you’re no longer contacting her via text and only setting dates to meet up, your value increases in her eyes, which brings her interest level up. When her interest level increases, it’s easier for her to have sex with you. It’s not like she walks through the door and has sex. She comes over, you guys hang out, make dinner, have a good time, and when she’s comfortable and having fun, at this point you have sex.
Perhaps, but I only initiated once while she was on vacation, and she did all the rest. I thought since she was initiating it would be cool to respond when I had a chance. It was just really strange when she said she'd seem me on Saturday, because she "really wants to see me", but then said it's too crazy when she just came back and immediately offed next Wednesday; so I agreed. Many others here suggested to follow AMS and The Red Man group on Youtube, so I have been watching their videos. They all said if she initiates communication, that is a good sign and I should respond when I had time. I wasn't just waiting around, I work two jobs lol. But the silence when she came back is perplexing. Oh, I forgot to mention, when she arrived back in here, she did text I'm back safely. I guess text me whenever. I thought that was weird, but I did say welcome back.
Wait a minute......
Did you say you were both naked and playing around on the 3rd date?
It's uncommon for people that aren't sexually attracted to each other to do that together.
You should've been able to seal the deal that night.
I'm guessing she gave you LMR and you gave up trying to f*ck her again that night.
How did she stop you from having sex? What exactly did she say or do?
Can you give more details?
Yes, I have a hot tube and she came over to cook a meal. We never really cooked a meal, but went into the hot tub. I moved over to her and attempted to kiss her and she was a bit hesitant, but then let her guard down. Then attempted to remove her top, some resistance, but that was removed and she was walking around the tub topless, I then went for her bottoms, she stopped. I retracted and then starting playing with her above her tops and moved my fingers in, she allowed it for a bit and seemed to enjoy it, but then said too fast. A little bit later, from kissing and fondling, I was able to remove her bottoms. She then said, that mine were still on, so I removed them too. She was straddling and very careful that nothing went in. It was a 3 hour make out session, and she said she was surprised that I stayed erect for so long. It was killing me, but one, I didn't have a condom with me, two I didn't want to push it too much. The tip entered a bit, but she'd move her vagina away after a bit. Next time over, two days later, we made out again, she was naked til her bottom, but her period came; and I could smell the scent, so she wasn't lying. She was grabbing me, but she wouldn't go further. Two days later she went away on a trip, but she wanted to remain in contact. She was having intl texting issues, so she requested me to get whatsapp or messenger. I've never used either, but I agreed to keep the attraction going. Each day she'd reach out and I'd respond several hours later due to the time difference. She seems to be distant ever since last Wednesday which makes little sense to me. Others told me it's a test to see how I'd respond or chase; I've done neither. So I am at a complete loss with her interest.
