Most Men are not Beta that supplicate

[Speculator E]

you have no clue what alpha means. Just having a woman is not necessarily alpha. quite the contrary. alpha means "leader", and it's about 10% of men, at most, 20%. the rest are just betas. There is SOME crossing of the lines, as a guy goes thru changes in his life, to. So you've got a 50-50 chance at being alpha at some point in your life, as well as being beta. in a dog or wolf pack, there's only ONE alpha, but such packs are often just 4-5 males, too. That is where the concept of "being the alpha male" originated.

Okay. So an alpha is a leader. Obama is a leader. So that means Obama is an alpha right. Obama also promotes feminism. So does that mean feminism is good?

 

[Speculator E]

1.) Guy has a kid (his first) and moves in with a woman 10 years his senior and gets yelled at like a little child and takes it in total silence and submission.

2.) Guy marries his first and only girlfriend, has 3 kids and similar to number 1, gets berated like a child and responds with silent compliance.

3.) Guy gets serious with girl (attractive), says he's a "one woman man" and gets cheated on when this girl goes on vacation. She tells him about it (how thoughtful), he gets upset and tries to get revenge by getting head from an ugly chick at a club so he can tell her about it. She shames him (she's "disappointed" in him) and eventually leaves.

4.) Married couple who both work. Guy gets tired of performing ALL household chores, tells wife she needs to do her fair share. Argument ensues and guy determines it's better to concede and do everything himself than hold her accountable.

I've got many more that I've personally witnessed.

Okay. That's good. What are the many more that you witnessed?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Speculator, start here:

http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/

http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/29/the-origin-of-alpha/

http://therationalmale.com/2012/02/21/defining-alpha/

http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/05/the-contextual-alpha/

http://therationalmale.com/2014/11/02/alpha-tells/

http://therationalmale.com/2014/11/11/beta-tells/

 

[Stugots26]

alpha/beta interactions are entirely about Relationship Dominance. Who decides what's for dinner? Who decides what movie we're going to see? Who decides when sex happens? Who makes the financial decisions?

Beta males permit their females to HAVE opinions, VOICE their opinions, and ACT on their opinions.

Alpha males control all the decision-making processes, and the submissive woman merely exists as a support structure. The woman has no say in anything at all, and she will ENJOY it that way.

Beta males consider submissive females (females without personal opinions and motives) to be BORING. Alpha males consider submissive females to be exactly what a woman should be. Beta males like dominant women that push the beta around. In an ideal alpha-subgirl relationship, the relationship power level is 100% male 0% female. In an ideal beta-domgirl relationship, the power level is 0% male 100% female.

Obviously, its not all 100-0; there is a continuum. Couples may be 70-30, 50/50, 30-70, etc. Full alphas are pushing for 100-0 all the time, and that is the mentality of sosuave.net.

Not even close.

Being alpha means that you understand that CONTROL IS AN ILLUSION. There is little that you can control in life beyond your own actions and your own reactions.

The sooner that you accept this and make peace with it, the sooner you can really make progress.

Being alpha is not about controlling other people, dominating other people, or how they behave. It's about being 100% authentically you, controlling yourself and your responses, and being unattached to and unaffected by outcomes that you can't control. You show appreciation for women who have the freedom to treat you properly and ultimately choose to do so, not try to control or manipulate how they show up (beta).

Women will show up how they show up and treat you how they treat you, and you have to be in your emotional center and not moved off center by them and/or their actions. They will test you to make sure you're strong and sure of yourself.

Some women may not understand the difference between power and force and may respond to controlling men, but ultimately, the weakness in attempting to control everything will result in a loss of respect and attraction.

 

[piranha45]

Well yes, control is an illusion; the only person you have any control over is yourself.

I agree with your points, I feel you're just arguing semantics.

Each partner's degree of willingness to walk away is what defines the relationship. For brevity's sake, we refer to this as "control".

 

[Speculator E]

Speculator, start here:

http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/

http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/29/the-origin-of-alpha/

http://therationalmale.com/2012/02/21/defining-alpha/

http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/05/the-contextual-alpha/

http://therationalmale.com/2014/11/02/alpha-tells/

http://therationalmale.com/2014/11/11/beta-tells/

I think your blog posts would benefits extremely from real life examples. Like stories that help explain those ideas.

Also lately, I noticed your newer posts aren't as good as your older one. I noticed the same thing with other blogs. The authors had a strong start but runs out of ideas to write about as time passes by.

I think you would benefit more by writing more examples about your old ideas then try to force new ideas that are not needed.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

You obviously haven't read these links.

 

[Suspens]

I think your blog posts would benefits extremely from real life examples. Like stories that help explain those ideas.

Also lately, I noticed your newer posts aren't as good as your older one. I noticed the same thing with other blogs. The authors had a strong start but runs out of ideas to write about as time passes by.

I think you would benefit more by writing more examples about your old ideas then try to force new ideas that are not needed.

You should provide some examples as well. Which older ideas were good ideas and which one of the new ones are not needed and why.

 

[Speculator E]

You obviously haven't read these links.

I have. I even brought your damn two books. They need more concrete examples, not just theories. Even in physics 101, they give real life examples to accompany the theories.

 

[Speculator E]

You should provide some examples as well. Which older ideas were good ideas and which one of the new ones are not needed and why.

What!? It's basically most things from year one and two that are good. Basically, anything recently from this year is meh.

It's not just him though. Even that guy at Chateau Heatise is running out of material.

 

[dpdem]

I got this from another thread and it got me thinking.

There's a lot of talk here about how most men are beta that supplicates to women. But when I look around, I see most men are already taken with girlfriends. I see most men are capable enough to get a girl. So that's makes most men alpha.

So what are some examples of men behaving betas and supplicating?

Republicans suck

 

[ubercat]

Got pages of notes from 2015 guys. If u look hard for the gold its there. Not just community stuff either. Leil louwndes has some great audio books on social tactics. If u can get past her incredibly annoying voice and puppies and rainbows delivery.

 

[Julian]

The point is to always be in power and control with intermittent signs of humanity and vulnerability. However being alpha means calling the shots. But we aren't always right and sometimes need our sub chicks to remind us.

I run my game my way or the highway. My ***** and I refer to her in any context as my biitch, means she does what I want when I want how I want. the most important difference being that she willingly and lovingly (not always lovingly lol) meets my expectations and requirements. If she fails she receives the consequences. Loss of me. This is where being the prize and being alpha not giving a fuk and having your **** together comes into play. Also you get her to submit through alpha behavior and extreme hot sex

 

[Chi Town]

This thread is old but I don't care lol

Some of you guys know exactly what a Alpha is and I commend you all.
Sadly, some of you guys have nooo idea what true alphaness is, stop trying to make up your own definition to a word that already has one. Stop with this watered down definition of what a Alpha is.

A alpha male is a dominant man, that's it that's all, a Alpha in a relationship is in control at all times, he calls the shots and makes all the decisions, he's running the show. He tells his girl what to do And when and how to do it. She is 100% submissive to him at all times, he is the leader in the relationship, he leads she follows.

A lot of you guys know deep down inside that you don't have the balls to act this way and are too much of a soft, beta ***** boy to be this type of man so you try to change the meaning of alpha into what suits your weak ass personality to make yourself feel better lol, you guys not slick.

Shout out to the real men, the little bit we have left in this world.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I got this from another thread and it got me thinking.

There's a lot of talk here about how most men are beta that supplicates to women. But when I look around, I see most men are already taken with girlfriends. I see most men are capable enough to get a girl. So that's makes most men alpha.

So what are some examples of men behaving betas and supplicating?

You convolute acquisition of cratered SMV with being alpha. Its about as valueless as fapping to pornhub.

Not doing it right kuz.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

This thread is old but I don't care lol

Some of you guys know exactly what a Alpha is and I commend you all.
Sadly, some of you guys have nooo idea what true alphaness is, stop trying to make up your own definition to a word that already has one. Stop with this watered down definition of what a Alpha is.

A alpha male is a dominant man, that's it that's all, a Alpha in a relationship is in control at all times, he calls the shots and makes all the decisions, he's running the show. He tells his girl what to do And when and how to do it. She is 100% submissive to him at all times, he is the leader in the relationship, he leads she follows.

A lot of you guys know deep down inside that you don't have the balls to act this way and are too much of a soft, beta ***** boy to be this type of man so you try to change the meaning of alpha into what suits your weak ass personality to make yourself feel better lol, you guys not slick.

Shout out to the real men, the little bit we have left in this world.

Op deems by not being a incel as alpha status. Its absurd when in actuality, 99% of men are getting cratered SMV or nearing the wall, plummeted SMV, single moms. Chad's booty call.

There's nothing alpha about marrying Tyrone's BBC gang bang nor is raising dome other man's baby.


This herein lies the tragedy of masculinity and its not shocking why women are ****ing these losers.

 

[Spaz]

Old thread.

There's no such thing as alpha as most men here subscribe towards.

There's only dominant men and passive men. It's inherently inside a man the moment he is born.

For those who were born naturally dominant, yes, you could fine tune those inherent skills and grow from it.

And for those who were born passive, introverts, intellectuals etc. Don't waste ur time copying traits that's not inherently yours. It doesn't mean u r doomed, it just means that ur talent lies somewhere else, like Gandhi or Einstein; a leader in ur own inherent field.

 

[Chi Town]

Old thread.

There's no such thing as alpha as most men here subscribe towards.

There's only dominant men and passive men. It's inherently inside a man the moment he is born.

For those who were born naturally dominant, yes, you could fine tune those inherent skills and grow from it.

And for those who were born passive, introverts, intellectuals etc. Don't waste ur time copying traits that's not inherently yours. It doesn't mean u r doomed, it just means that ur talent lies somewhere else, like Gandhi or Einstein; a leader in ur own inherent field.

You say there's no such thing as alpha then turn around and say there's only dominant men and passive men lol a dominant man is a Alpha male, you guys really need to use the dictionary lol, "A alpha male is a dominant/the most dominant man in a group.

 

[Spaz]

The term alpha is always used by a nerd or those in the passive social personality quadrant.

Their compulsive needs 4 more data - terms then makes complete sense to those within that circle.

Almost an obsession.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I see most men are capable enough to get a girl. So that's makes most men alpha.

If you see a guy in a relationship with a girl, there's about a 98% chance that is proof he is beta, and the girl is alpha.

Most dudes in relationships with women are terrified of losing the woman and will pretty much bend to her will. Girls know this, dudes know this.