I haven't gotten laid in about a year and a half - starting to really crave it

[mrgoodstuff]

@bigdave17 you need to date within your own league, not the league you think you should be. However, when you don't have the nerve to even cold approach, you're self sabotaging. Until you learn to get over your fear you should have fun with girls who show interest in you; the slightly older, white girls, and single moms are a good source of short term fun. (Though white girls shouldn't be excluded at all imo)

For a minute be wanted a $30-$40k fashion "hot girl" I dont think theyre above him as a well built $190k guy. But i know they will gold dig him and waste hiw ti.e cause hes not part of their party group.

 

[R.U.G.]

unrealistic goals is any man who wants the female equivalent of himself nowadays I suppose

I'm a 7/10 ethnic dude with a good job, no kids, intelligent and well spoken, in great shape. I just want the female equivalent of myself

Dave, no one cares. You are a dime a dozen. You are truly a legend in your own mind.

That is all great and dandy to your Mom and Dad. To a stranger, big deal. You act like an entitled Poindexter. Until you get off of cloud 9 and back on to the real world, you will be stuck in your fantasy that you are too good for just about any woman. That woman you posted is from Brazil. She's a model, actor and singer. She also is a spokesperson for a few brands. You do not hold a candle to her; trust when I say she knows it. Women who already have money and are financially stable do not need a man like you. Chances are, she has significantly more than you anyway. You seem to be living the male version of a Disney movie. Leave Disney to Disney and enter the cold hard cruel world of humans.

Your problem is you feel like you are an faux elitist; and you are far from it. You honestly think you are better than 99.9% of the world around you. That you are too good for an average woman. I don't know, maybe you are, maybe you aren't. Guess what, you don't know either. That's the problem, you will not even try and entertain the thought that maybe this one will do. No one it telling you to marry them, just date them and fvck them; if you are so inclined. If not, stop b-i-t-c-h-i-n-g here and be on your way.

 

[bigdave17]

Dave, no one cares. You are a dime a dozen. You are truly a legend in your own mind.

That is all great and dandy to your Mom and Dad. To a stranger, big deal. You act like an entitled Poindexter. Until you get off of cloud 9 and back on to the real world, you will be stuck in your fantasy that you are too good for just about any woman. That woman you posted is from Brazil. She's a model, actor and singer. She also is a spokesperson for a few brands. You do not hold a candle to her; trust when I say she knows it. Women who already have money and are financially stable do not need a man like you. Chances are, she has significantly more than you anyway. You seem to be living the male version of a Disney movie. Leave Disney to Disney and enter the cold hard cruel world of humans.

Your problem is you feel like you are an faux elitist; and you are far from it. You honestly think you are better than 99.9% of the world around you. That you are too good for an average woman. I don't know, maybe you are, maybe you aren't. Guess what, you don't know either. That's the problem, you will not even try and entertain the thought that maybe this one will do. No one it telling you to marry them, just date them and fvck them; if you are so inclined. If not, stop b-i-t-c-h-i-n-g here and be on your way.

I don't expect a Brazilian model dude, don't be silly

I want a cute 25-30 year old Spanish or Mediterranean girl with a good loyal personality, making say 35-70K a year with a nice body and no kids. I'm not asking for a 10/10. I'm a 7/10. I'm asking for about a 7/10

Also lol @ a woman making more money than me. That's cute. For men under 35, I'm probably top 0.01% nationally in finances. Among women, it's probably top 0.0001%. I hardly know anybody my age making half my income.

 

[R.U.G.]

I don't expect a Brazilian model dude, don't be silly

I want a cute 25-30 year old Spanish or Mediterranean girl with a good loyal personality, making say 35-70K a year with a nice body and no kids. I'm not asking for a 10/10. I'm a 7/10. I'm asking for about a 7/10

Also lol @ a woman making more money than me. That's cute. For men under 35, I'm probably top 0.01% nationally in finances. Among women, it's probably top 0.0001%. I hardly know anybody my age making half my income.

Bro, people on wall street, hedge funds, most NYC doctors, and specialized lawyers earn more than you. When I was on the street 15 years ago, I was making 35k a month easy. You'd be surprised who and what are earning the big bucks. It's not always the guys in the Brooks Brothers suits. I know several plumbers that are pulling in 250k+ a year. Cops? In Rockland, Westchester, Bergen, and Long Island all make six figures (with overtime) as well.

Chill with that ego. You have money and looks, congrats. You need to work on your self image and personality. Women nowadays don't care a much for $$$ and stability over other things. They can do that themselves.

 

[sazc]

Honestly, with that kind of income, you have the chance to be a self supporting,self sustaining, multi millionaire by the time you are 40. No more schilling cars.

That alone would (hopefully) put you in a different social circle where the women would maybe appreciate you more. Why are you so focused on women right now? Look into investing. Go grow your income. Do you in a real way.

 

[Dingo]

Smh... There should be a sub forum for guys here with mental illness...

 

[zekko]

@bigdave17 you need to date within your own league, not the league you think you should be. However, when you don't have the nerve to even cold approach, you're self sabotaging.)

Not having the nerve to cold approach probably knocks him down a few leagues. Because he has to settle for what comes to him (which he doesn't want anyway, hence the year and a half drought).

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Not having the nerve to cold approach probably knocks him down a few leagues. Because he has to settle for what comes to him (which he doesn't want anyway, hence the year and a half drought).

A lack of puzzy effectively removes a male from the game. Even AMS said droughts are to be avoided and can be so bad you almost cant pay for it.

 

[Murk]

Ain’t had sex in about 2.5-3weeks

Aint masturbated for about 10 days

I’m actually enjoying this

Gave my house a makeover. Spent way to much on home stuff this month but my place looking brand new. Earned £8k commission in my first 2 months of new job. Life good brah

 

[spinich]

Dave, I make more than you do on interest alone. Get over the top .1% crap. You are just an average guy trying to be something your not. As soon as you realize that it's YOU not the rest of the world that is lacking you might be able to actually find someone able to deal with your delusions self inflated ego. Understand there are many men who can buy and sell you. Start dealing with reality, you are just another schmuck trying to bat above his league with the resultant frustrations. And if you are gay, just admit it and move on. It's ok. Your learning curve is going to be steep. The best to you in your constant struggles.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dave, I make more than you do on interest alone. Get over the top .1% crap. You are just an average guy trying to be something your not. As soon as you realize that it's YOU not the rest of the world that is lacking you might be able to actually find someone able to deal with your delusions self inflated ego. Understand there are many men who can buy and sell you. Start dealing with reality, you are just another schmuck trying to bat above his league with the resultant frustrations. And if you are gay, just admit it and move on. It's ok. Your learning curve is going to be steep. The best to you in your constant struggles.

Well he does need to deflate his ego and do what works. But i feel like your putting women on a pedastal at his expense. Most of the women he pointed out are attainable by a guy with some game some style and confidence. They dont need male super models.

 

[spinich]

I agree.

 

[sazc]

Well he does need to deflate his ego and do what works. But i feel like your putting women on a pedastal at his expense. Most of the women he pointed out are attainable by a guy with some game some style and confidence. They dont need male super models.

He keeps claiming he is top tier in a few of the pie slices.... I'm thinking, if it's as difficult as he says it is, there's just no way, he def has himself on a pedestal

 

[zekko]

Well he does need to deflate his ego and do what works. But i feel like your putting women on a pedastal at his expense. Most of the women he pointed out are attainable by a guy with some game some style and confidence. They dont need male super models.

Agree with all that, but I still think you're selling that Brazilian model he posted a little short. I know few guys here can agree on what women are attractive, but IMO she is at super model level hot herself. If she's famous, as R.U.G. pointed out, that makes her all the more difficult to attain. Not because of "putting her on a pedestal", but because of hypergamy - she's probably going to want a guy better off and more famous than she is. That's why so many celebrities date each other.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Agree with all that, but I still think you're selling that Brazilian model he posted a little short. I know few guys here can agree on what women are attractive, but IMO she is at super model level hot herself. If she's famous, as R.U.G. pointed out, that makes her all the more difficult to attain. Not because of "putting her on a pedestal", but because of hypergamy - she's probably going to want a guy better off and more famous than she is. That's why so many celebrities date each other.

For sure if shes famous shell run a harder status game against the male. I was sayimg if she wasnt famous shes attainable by a well put together fun guy.

 

[sazc]

Reminded me of Dave
https://www.higherperspectives.com/planet-earth-parody-clubbing-in-the-wild-2603238589.html

And when the chick c0ckblocks on behalf of her friend, that reminded me of @Ryan no dude, she didn't like you sexually assaulting her on the dance floor, that's why she left your a$$ the first chance she got!

 

[R.U.G.]

Do you in a real way.

It seems like with his mindset, the only one who would be good enough to do him, is well, him.

 

[meldiamond]

The problem for me, I want to have a relationship so badly, that when I see a decent girl who is not relationship material (too old, single mom, mediocre body, not cute enough, too pale, etc...) - I completely lose all interest. I don't think I could even put in a decent effort just to get laid with one of those women even if I tried.


I honestly dunno what to do. I'm so stuck in my comfort zone of work, working out, hanging out with my friends. hanging out with family. I don't meet women in my natural daily routine, I can't do online dating because I look like dog crap in pictures and I'm so far stuck in my comfort zone that random cold approaches are incredibly daunting (unless they give me signs of interest before hand, which seems to be happening less and less even as I seem to be getting in better shape and better looking as I get older)


I feel like a rat caught in a wheel

It seems like a long time ago, but prior to the '60's it was the norm to get married in your early 20's or even earlier than that. After all, your entire life as a child, teen and young adult was spent in school. You were socializing with the same people every day from the same school and same neighborhood. Not to mention, all teens and young adults are extremely horny and so it only made sense to do what society considered not only acceptable but beautiful. Even sacred.

Even in eastern europe, which hasn't been touched by the same degenerate forces as the west, women normally get married by their late teens.

We're now at a point where those in power are using every single weapon at their disposal to infiltrate, upset, confuse and destroy society as efficiently and as quickly as possible. Social trust has evaporated. There is no such thing as social norms. Uncertainty and confusion reign. Homosexuality and transgenderism are promoted as religions.

Most people do wind up getting married but the rate of divorce is high, and increases with each subsequent divorce. This leads to lots of older women most with children seeking relationships. This creates terrible confusion as young men who would normally date someone slightly younger in age have new options in terms of age, and race.

Kids grow up confused since a majority grew up in a broken home. They didn't have a strong father presence, and even if they did, are so bombarded with degenerate media and curriculum everything the minority of parents with any moral integrity taught them is threatened or undermined by tv, internet, and of course school.

I went out earlier this evening and it was an absolute appalling circus. The bar was filled with illegal aliens, weird gangster/thug types, some of the local drug addicts who wandered in, the security staff looked like the zombie apocalypse. And this is in a NICE suburban community!

It's difficult to overstate how far off the rails society has gone, everywhere in the western world it seems. I can't even imagine the reaction of an american from the '50's or even from a century ago. I can't help but believe they'd bring in the cavalry and not stop until the job was finished.

tl, dr: society has been flipped completely upside down by a small ruling elite who are doing everything in their power and then some to completely undermine and destroy one of the greatest civilizations to have ever been built. You can't expect dating and marriage to make much sense under such circumstances.

 

[sazc]

It seems like with his mindset, the only one who would be good enough to do him, is well, him.

This is absolutely true, that's why he constantly c0ck blocks himself.

Someone in touch with themselves with at least be honest to admit that it was their own personal high standards that was really getting in their way - not the "never ending sea of bottom of the barrel low quality women in looks or status". They would be able to say to themselves "I do have high standards, and, therefore, I AM getting in my own way, but I'm okay with that, I'll own it"

Not this never ending whiny crying baby $hit that he constantly posts about how the world is unfair and he is a complete victim

 

[bigdave17]

Bro, people on wall street, hedge funds, most NYC doctors, and specialized lawyers earn more than you. When I was on the street 15 years ago, I was making 35k a month easy. You'd be surprised who and what are earning the big bucks. It's not always the guys in the Brooks Brothers suits. I know several plumbers that are pulling in 250k+ a year. Cops? In Rockland, Westchester, Bergen, and Long Island all make six figures (with overtime) as well.

Chill with that ego. You have money and looks, congrats. You need to work on your self image and personality. Women nowadays don't care a much for $$$ and stability over other things. They can do that themselves.

250K in New York is 60K where I live dude. I have a beautiful 2500 square foot house here that cost me under 300K. In NY, it would cost 1.5 million

190-200K is only impressive income in a cheap area. If you live in Manhattan, San Fran, etc... you need like 500K for an impressive income