I haven't gotten laid in about a year and a half - starting to really crave it

[HankHill]

Stop painting with broad strokes (pun intended)...I just went out with a hot 38 yo mom of 2 kids from OLD. She could be mistaken for a model. I didn't even think I was in her league. I'll post her pic temporarily if you want to see what I'm talking about.

Retarded pics...that's easy to correct. Get a few nice pics done. I'm not photogenic, mine are still not professionally done, they're ok...and no I'm not a white guy either. Take action- doing something is better than doing nothing (in more ways than one lol)

 

[LaughyDuck]

You're not wrong in what you are saying

what kills me is I just don't get natural dating opportunities much anymore. A lot of this stuff would be fixed with some dating success with women in my league but I have to cold approach to do that, which is ridiculously hard and I can't do online dating because I look like a f**king ugly retard in pictures

i have to get way out of my comfort zone, which is massively daunting

Maybe it would be wise to downgrade your expectations for a while and see how it goes? I don't know what you mean by "natural dating opportunities" but I guess it just boils down to being at the right locations. How about that: just start smiling to any girl you see. You will see that this will set you in complete different mindset after a while. After you smiled at girls for a few weeks just start random small talk with some of them and see how it goes.

 

[bigdave17]

Pretty clear it's impossible for you to change, give up

worst case scenario, if im single until 39 to 40...I can always find a hot 34 or 35 year old to settle down with

Women in their 30s are incredibly easy. They finally have normal standards after they've lost their prime years. No demographic has more crazy standards than females around 25 to 30

 

[bigdave17]

Stop painting with broad strokes (pun intended)...I just went out with a hot 38 yo mom of 2 kids from OLD. She could be mistaken for a model. I didn't even think I was in her league. I'll post her pic temporarily if you want to see what I'm talking about.

doesn't matter how hot they are. I have zero interest in single moms and their nonsense. I want a normal relationship- somebody a few years younger than me (although I would do my age if she is Armenian or say Puerto Rican) with no baggage.

She is going out with you because she knows her market value is demolished due to her age and single mom status. 13 years ago, she likely wouldn't have even considered you

Retarded pics...that's easy to correct. Get a few nice pics done. I'm not photogenic, mine are still not professionally done, they're ok...and no I'm not a white guy either. Take action- doing something is better than doing nothing (in more ways than one lol)

the problem with me being non photogenic is that I want the cream of the creap (attractive mid to late 20s women with decent jobs with no kids). I'm a very successful 7.5 in real life but even that might not be good enough even if I could take some great pics. These women on dating sites nowadays want 9 to 10/10 males

 

[HankHill]

worst case scenario, if im single until 39 to 40...I can always find a hot 34 or 35 year old to settle down with

Only you understand your logic. Sigh.

Women in their 30s are incredibly easy. They finally have normal standards after they've lost their prime years. No demographic has more crazy standards than females around 25 to 30

Ummm...no. May be the ugly ones. This is a whole 'nother topic in itself.

 

[bigdave17]

Maybe it would be wise to downgrade your expectations for a while and see how it goes? I don't know what you mean by "natural dating opportunities" but I guess it just boils down to being at the right locations. How about that: just start smiling to any girl you see. You will see that this will set you in complete different mindset after a while. After you smiled at girls for a few weeks just start random small talk with some of them and see how it goes.

I don't have any women that I encounter consistently in my daily life

I have to cold approach on the spot and ask them out, which is immensely difficult/daunting or I'll never see them

 

[Ranger]

Have you seen some of the men these women are girlfriends and wives to? LMAO
No matter who you get, she’s going to be the used model.

 

[HankHill]

doesn't matter how hot they are. I have zero interest in single moms and their nonsense. I want a normal relationship- somebody a few years younger than me (although I would do my age if she is Armenian or say Puerto Rican) with no baggage.

My point was you're saying single moms are not attractive.

She is going out with you because she knows her market value is demolished due to her age and single mom status. 13 years ago, she likely wouldn't have even considered you

That's a fallacy to think women's market value is ever demolished before 50s...these days may be even 60s because there will always be older guys wanting to smash them.

the problem with me being non photogenic is that I want the cream of the creap (attractive mid to late 20s women with decent jobs with no kids). I'm a very successful 7.5 in real life but even that might not be good enough even if I could take some great pics. These women on dating sites nowadays want 9 to 10/10 males

Beggars can't be choosers...if you want to get laid start with the 6 and 7s.

 

[LaughyDuck]

I don't have any women that I encounter consistently in my daily life

I have to cold approach on the spot and ask them out, which is immensely difficult/daunting or I'll never see them

What I mean by smiling at strange women who you never see again you enter the player realm you will have a easier time to talking to strange women.

 

[bigdave17]

Only you understand your logic. Sigh.


Ummm...no. May be the ugly ones. This is a whole 'nother topic in itself.

I was at a bar 6 months ago and i saw this very hot 34 35 year old woman approach a guy. She had a cute face, great body, dressed super nice. The guy turned her down too. You'll never ever see that by a 26 year old female unless the guy is famous.

Women over 30 are easy as hell cause they know their market value is demolished

2 years ago, I approached a 6.5/10 25 year old and 8.5/10 35 year old on same night. Guess what? the 35 year old was instantly all over me. The 25 year old wanted nothing to do with me. The 35 year old was superior in every way except her age - better job, much more intelligent, much better personality but it didn't matter. Age makes that much of a difference

 

[bigdave17]

My point was you're saying single moms are not attractive.

never said that. I've ****ed a very attractive single mom who was 46...I just don't want to get involved with that

Beggars can't be choosers...if you want to get laid start with the 6 and 7s.

I would gladly date or marry a 7/10 if she fit the requirements (mid to late 20s, no kids, preferably Armenian, Italian, Greek or Spanish, etc...)

I'm not wanting a 10/10...but even most 7s on dating sites want a 10/10 male

 

[LaughyDuck]

never said that. I've ****ed a very attractive single mom who was 46...I just don't want to get involved with that



I would gladly date or marry a 7/10 if she fit the requirements (mid to late 20s, no kids, preferably Armenian, Italian, Greek or Spanish, etc...)

I'm not wanting a 10/10...but even most 7s om dating sites want a 10/10 male

Just to clarify what women want and what they get are two different pairs. And many women are way to insecure to date 9 - 9.5 looks male. When they are in the 7 (girl next door) range they will NOT go for a > 9 dude..

 

[bigdave17]

Just to clarify what women want and what they get are two different pairs. And many women are way to insecure to date 9 - 9.5 looks male. When they are in the 7 (girl next door) range they will NOT go for a > 9 dude..

I've talked to plenty of 6 to 7/10 dudes who told me they get zero replies or interest on dating sites

its so bad that I've even talked to 6 to 7/10 guys who do well with women in real life who've told me that dating sites are totally impossible

the big advantage I have with dating sites is that I'm college educated and make nearly 200k but I doubt that would be enough. These women on dating sites can find 9/10 males who make 200K

 

[Ranger]

This has to be a hoax. Trolling. Not one single legit acknowledgement from him that someone has something valuable.
Someone in that bad of mental shape if it is real, needs to go back to the matrix.
If he’s real, he wants a magic pill. I think they call it crack cocaine.

 

[LaughyDuck]

I've talked to plenty of 6 to 7/10 dudes who told me they get zero replies or interest on dating sites

its so bad that I've even talked to 6 to 7/10 guys who do well with women in real life who've told me that dating sites are totally impossible

the big advantage I have with dating sites is that I'm college educated and make nearly 200k but I doubt that would be enough. These women on dating sites can find 9/10 males who make 200K

They are only so many 9/10 males. Most women on dating site are low quality anyway. This comes from a guy who met several women from dating sites (tinder etc.)

 

[bigdave17]

This has to be a hoax. Trolling. Not one single legit acknowledgement from him that someone has something valuable.
Someone in that bad of mental shape if it is real, needs to go back to the matrix.
If he’s real, he wants a magic pill. I think they call it crack cocaine.

I suppose my problem is I want women my age to have normal standards and be willing to put in work to meet someone like the 35 year olds do, but that will never happen

 

[HankHill]

Women over 30 are easy as hell cause they know their market value is demolished

BS. I'd wager $50 if you can pull a 30s girl like the one I was talking about, from OLD single mom or not.

never said that. I've ****ed a very attractive single mom who was 46...I just don't want to get involved with that

I would gladly date or marry a 7/10 if she fit the requirements (mid to late 20s, no kids, preferably Armenian, Italian, Greek or Spanish, etc...)

I'm not wanting a 10/10...but even most 7s on dating sites want a 10/10 male

I thought you wanted to get laid! why so many fvcking requirements. If she's good looking go for it.

 

[bigdave17]

They are only so many 9/10 male. Most women on dating site are low quality anyway. This comes from a guy who met several women from dating sites (tinder etc.)

yea, which is why 9/10 males on dating sites are usually seeing 10 different broads while most guys go home and beat off

i don't agree that online dating women are low quality. It's the same demographics as anything else. Online dating is very very mainstream and popular nowadays

its not that the women on there are low quality. More than likely, the 8/10s on dating sites with decent jobs and good personalities are not responding to you because they want a totally perfect male

 

[LaughyDuck]

yea, which is why 9/10 males on dating sites are usually seeing 10 different broads while most guys go home and beat off

i don't agree that online dating women are low quality. It's the same demographics as anything else. Online dating is very very mainstream and popular nowadays

its not that the women on there are low quality. More than likely, the 8/10s on dating sites with decent jobs and good personalities are not responding to you because they want a totally perfect male

I dated some extremly hot women from tinder. Not comparable to the women you posted here in looks. But they were either nuts or had other serious metal issues.

 

[HankHill]

I was seeing a beautiful 35 year old 2 years ago. She had a masters degree and was very sweet and very smart. She was all over me 24/7. She was a legit 8.5/10 - gorgeous blue eyes with black hair

Doesn't matter. Women over 30 are super easy dude. They know their market value has been demolished.

If i approached her at 25...she would have laughed at me probably

LOL ok well, you shouldn't have any problems getting laid then right so why this thread? Or how is this thread any different than all the other ones you've created so far?