Girlfriend who drinks

[Jay25]

What’s your take on a girl who drinks too much as a relationship, it’s not often but maybe once or twice a month.

But I don’t know I don’t see this behavior very becoming of a ltr, I’ve hinted at it to her, but not sure how to approach it.

 

[marmel75]

Tigers can't change their stripes. Its unrealistic for you to think she will change for you long term. Maybe in the short term but most likely she will slip back into her old habits once she becomes comfortable.

 

[Jay25]

Over drinking to me in a female is very unattractive

 

[marmel75]

Over drinking to me in a female is very unattractive

Then make a decision if its a deal breaker and dump her if it is. Stop wasting time hoping its going to change.

 

[sazc]

A) what are your standards
B) are you going to honor your standards or choose pvssy

Choose wisely

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Over drinking to me in a female is very unattractive

So find a girl who doesn't overdrink.

Not rocket science.

 

[Dingo]

Crazy thing about alcohol...

Two drinks and she's awesome... Three and she is the ****ing devil....

Amounts and reactions may vary... at different times...

 

[sazc]

Crazy thing about alcohol...

Two drinks and she's awesome... Three and she is the ****ing devil....

Amounts and reactions may vary... at different times...

Sounds like a bunch of emotional drama. Why choose that?

 

[IKO69]

If her lifestyle is in any way incompatible with yours, she's not the person for you.

Friend her, but don't girlfriend her

 

[highSpeed]

What’s your take on a girl who drinks too much as a relationship, it’s not often but maybe once or twice a month.

But I don’t know I don’t see this behavior very becoming of a ltr, I’ve hinted at it to her, but not sure how to approach it.

over drinking will lead to forgotten one night stands or at least, an ability to blame the one night stand on being drunk. IMO, she's not worth a relationship.

 

[Jay25]

It’s only been lately I’ve noticed this, she seems more emboldened to do things, she never had been drink or at least showed me in the months we dated, maybe once,maybe she’s not trying to impress me anymore and feels comfortable idk

 

[sazc]

maybe she’s not trying to impress me anymore and feels comfortable idk

Yep

 

[soulforge]

When you say she drinks, do you mean at home? Or in the bars and clubs?

If a chick has a few drinks at home with her friends etc, twice a month, then that is absolutely fine.. Whats the big deal.

However if she is in the clubs and bars two or three times a month, then I personally would NOT get involved.

One bit of advice I will give you... NEVER try to CHANGE a chick who likes the drinking, bars and clubs lifestyle.

I promise you, for a short while she might give it up, just to keep you peachy in the EARLY stages of the relationship.. After a while when things are more established and she realises YOU aint going anywhere, she will go BACK to her old ways hitting the bars and clubs, and eventually maybe even taking big Diks in the mens cubicles!!!

Your better off investing in a chick who is not interested in that type of bars and clubs lifestyle.

Real Talk

 

[soulforge]

over drinking will lead to forgotten one night stands or at least, an ability to blame the one night stand on being drunk. IMO, she's not worth a relationship.

Its amazing how many people end up having affairs in a drunken state, then start blaming the fukin alcohol.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Its amazing how many people end up having affairs in a drunken state, then start blaming the fukin alcohol.

It's loosen inhibitions which are your standard and boundaries. It makes bull**** more likely.

 

[soulforge]

It's loosen inhibitions which are your standard and boundaries. It makes bull**** more likely.

Spot on mr goodstuff.. Alcohol intoxication and a sexually charged environment.. What could possibly go wrong!

 

[devilkingx2]

I think as with anything else, you should wait until it becomes an actual, tangible problem before you decide to take a stand, keep an eye on it and put this issue on the backburner until you see tangible signs of alcoholism or being too much of a party girl or trying to drown her demons or whatever

don't listen to people who tell you to dump a girl at the sign of the most minor of red flags unless you want to spend your life unicorn hunting

 

[zekko]

You don't say how old she is, but if she is fairly young she could grow out of it. Once or twice a month doesn't sound like a hard core drinker.

Its amazing how many people end up having affairs in a drunken state, then start blaming the fukin alcohol.

True, girls can even claim that they were raped if they were drunk. The court figures they were not sober enough to give consent. Why it doesn't matter if the guy is drunk too is a mystery - off to jail he goes.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Spot on mr goodstuff.. Alcohol intoxication and a sexually charged environment.. What could possibly go wrong!

Here goes the thing. Alot of bytches like to go our flirt, talk shyt and get attention. Add alcohol ontop of those flirts and some of that shyt is considered and acted upon.

 

[051AV]

I know a few girls that are attractive, one of them I wanted to tear her clothes off and...…… she's got a nice figure...… talking to her getting to know who she is, sounds like a perfect girl, then the truth about how much beer she can guzzle back good bye attraction for her. Guys that I know that have met her and seen her drink they were in shock. She's 30 years old now, still fvcking attractive, but there's no way in hell would you ever get involved with a girl that can drink a flat of beer by herself in one sitting.

Another girl I know alcoholism is a problem in her family she brags it up how she can get slammed, very attractive nice body, she can't keep a man because of her drinking she's a mean drunk. Girl I know enough to say hi to she's the same can't keep a man in her life she drinks too much of the hard stuff, she's got a nice body very attractive but her drinking problem she's late 20s. Girl in her late 20s as well lives not too far down the street where I live, very attractive but looks are deceiving, she's mentally ill and she drinks too much supposedly she's gooned every night again she can't keep a man in her life.

I have some older female friends that have drinking problems both of them get very abusive when their drinking the one of them would start punching and hitting the guy she was dating. He told me she was scary drunk he got rid of her with some trouble I unfriended her in a round about way she was after me before she met this other guy, I sensed she had issues so I kept brushing her off.

Stay away from the women that drink heavily, they could be the number 10 in looks but their alcoholism will ruin it, women that drink have real issues. Come to think of it I have quite a few female friends that have drinking problems they are just friends and no more than that, I don't drink and never have never will. Any of these women I know that have drinking problems can't find a guy that will stick around or they are with a guy that drinks just as much as she does. Alcohol and women don't mix it seems to really fvck them up, women predominately seem to be mean drunks they get nasty, really mouthy, not attractive at all.