Would you guys recommend using pictures of you with your sister on dating sites?

[Von]

It's too bad that I can't really trust the Internet and post pics of myself and the women I've dated/married etc as an example to him. I've dated all sorts of women, from nice looking to just nice people - they all had their goods and bads but looking back I'm glad I enjoyed the company of each one of them as opposed to sitting around waiting for the perfect one - that is such a ridiculous concept.

This morning I was having coffee at Starbucks with a buddy, I saw this dude who looked like the Hulk Hogan from the 90s in his tank top, bandana (total bodybuilder, blonde, tall dude) with an overweight latin chick who was may be 5'3. He's certainly not sitting around complaining. He's getting out there enjoying life with whomever he can...life keeps on rolling you either roll with it or get rolled over by it. You don't have to marry these 5/10 6/10 girls if you don't want to.

With dating experience, actually the "look" for my girlfriend got less important especially in a LTR scenario.

The girl I am with, still has to be in shape/fit and dress appropriate (matching style).

But I am far from the "I want models with Victoria secret assets, all in dress, perfect trophy etc."

I want my women to be physically attractive and desirable but it's the personality that matters now.

A 10hb who you LTR/Marry but she's boring and real pain... she will quickly become a 1/10.. She will make all other HB even 4hb look like 10HB.

If you all about getting laid, girl to show around when you go out... sure go for 10hb (or ask your girl friends the part in social events)

If you want LTR, physical HB level becomes quite superficial.

That's what experience showed me.

My current GF is a 7hb in body, really fit and nice long ginger hair, beautiful eyes. Love her body.

Her clothes.... She needs some dressing up lessons. Sometimes they just off or too old...

I would never imagine myself 5 years ago or when I came here... to date someone who couldnt dress Hot.

However, her personality is a easy 9/10 for me. That's worth gold.

Now, the question is: "can she overcome who she is and expect out of life, to match my vision" (simply: she all about work her hours/home/kids/no friends or go out,... stay with family and religion, she was born really poor.. While, I was born in a wealthy family, professional career and in business..all about going out/networking/80hours work/studying/studying).

I find her perfect to be in a LTR with. Finally, a fun and smart girl who stimulate my ADHD.

But I know unless we have a same vision and she accepts the cultural/economic different.. It won't work, recently... she mentionned how "she has a hard time enjoying going out to meet my friends but she's trying" .. Not gonna be her saviour, but I that's manageable (yellow flag), but she needs to enjoy it otherwise.. Something will be missing.

Anyway, with dating experience, you start finding HB scale as requirement for dating.. To be for INCEL

 

[17 shots]

You are a solid 7. Possibly a 7.5 (maybe 8) when your personality is energetic, fun and outgoing. Erik Estrada looks. Not short but not 6 feet either, right? Not bad but not a 9, a solid 7, which isn't a bad thing.

Please put your glasses on and look at him again

 

[bigdave17]

You'll never find this unicorn you're after...for the millionth time...just get laid and if you keep doing that you'll, hopefully, find a woman where none of your superficial crap will matter to you anymore.

BTW I'm ethnic and I prefer white girls, I might date an ethnic chick but she'd better have pink nipples haha!

I hope you enjoy looking 20 years younger than her when you're both in your 40s

white women age atrociously. Go to your local gym and look at ethnic guys in great shape in their 40s and 50s...they literally look like they're 30-35 (in terms of white person scale)

 

[bigdave17]

With dating experience, actually the "look" for my girlfriend got less important especially in a LTR scenario.

The girl I am with, still has to be in shape/fit and dress appropriate (matching style).

But I am far from the "I want models with Victoria secret assets, all in dress, perfect trophy etc."

I want my women to be physically attractive and desirable but it's the personality that matters now.

A 10hb who you LTR/Marry but she's boring and real pain... she will quickly become a 1/10.. She will make all other HB even 4hb look like 10HB.

If you all about getting laid, girl to show around when you go out... sure go for 10hb (or ask your girl friends the part in social events)

If you want LTR, physical HB level becomes quite superficial.

That's what experience showed me.

My current GF is a 7hb in body, really fit and nice long ginger hair, beautiful eyes. Love her body.

Her clothes.... She needs some dressing up lessons. Sometimes they just off or too old...

I would never imagine myself 5 years ago or when I came here... to date someone who couldnt dress Hot.

However, her personality is a easy 9/10 for me. That's worth gold.

Now, the question is: "can she overcome who she is and expect out of life, to match my vision" (simply: she all about work her hours/home/kids/no friends or go out,... stay with family and religion, she was born really poor.. While, I was born in a wealthy family, professional career and in business..all about going out/networking/80hours work/studying/studying).

I find her perfect to be in a LTR with. Finally, a fun and smart girl who stimulate my ADHD.

But I know unless we have a same vision and she accepts the cultural/economic different.. It won't work, recently... she mentionned how "she has a hard time enjoying going out to meet my friends but she's trying" .. Not gonna be her saviour, but I that's manageable (yellow flag), but she needs to enjoy it otherwise.. Something will be missing.

Anyway, with dating experience, you start finding HB scale as requirement for dating.. To be for INCEL

who the fukk ever said I want a 10/10?


I want a nice body - say at least 7 to 8/10 but face wise, I'm cool with a 6-7 face

 

[bigdave17]

I'm gonna crop out the other friend

this is actually a really nice pic






I need to get some good quality professional pics done also.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I hope you enjoy looking 20 years younger than her when you're both in your 40s

white women age atrociously. Go to your local gym and look at ethnic guys in great shape in their 40s and 50s...they literally look like they're 30-35 (in terms of white person scale)

Like me lol. Still game rules. You can have all the tools but you need the strategies and to know how to use the tools.

 

[HankHill]

I hope you enjoy looking 20 years younger than her when you're both in your 40s

white women age atrociously. Go to your local gym and look at ethnic guys in great shape in their 40s and 50s...they literally look like they're 30-35 (in terms of white person scale)

Everyone ages dude, you think these hot trophy women you're after won't age? it's only a matter of time, even with ethnic women as you say you're simply kicking the can down the road. I'm already in my 40s (yes I look younger than that but so do lots of other men) and I'm dating women in their late 30s and early 40s already (don't want immature women who don't know what they want). Not all people age as badly as you're making it out to be...and some women even in their 40s still look good without makeup. Funny, this brings up a conversation I had with my last date who's 44 but looks late 30s, she's tall and slim with a nice chest, I prefer longer hair but she has short hair...but she looks attractive regardless. She asked me what do I look for in a woman when I'm browsing through their profiles or what are my key requirements. My answer was, someone companionship material:

1. Someone honest and hopefully loyal
2. Pleasing to the eye
3. Financially responsible

She looked at me and said 'that's it?' I said, what else do I need from a woman other than those traits? Of course, fun/compatibility/good sex is a must but those are not personality/physical traits, that's just chemistry. Then she asked about each one of the traits what I meant by them. She asked what does pleasing to the eye means? I told her it means someone that I find attractive and attractive doesn't mean naturally beautiful or some other standard, to me it's a combination of looks, style and personality.

You're so hung up on looks but I can see why, it's so typical of ethnic people...they're so obsessed with money, status and looks that it's retarded. I've even had this conversation with a couple of Persian chicks I went out with. One was a dentist with her own practice, we went out for a couple of months but she had 0 personality. BTW she too got botox (she told me all women do it after a certain age, until then I'd never run into anyone that did) on her lips and cheeks etc. Pretty to look at, tons of money (owned several properties too) but about as fun as a piece of 2x4 lumber in the trunk of your car. I don't need someone for money, I have my own. I need a companion in life who I can enjoy my life with etc.

This is getting long but my brother too was like you, finally I talked some sense into him and even though he married in the same ethnicity he wasn't sold on her looks. Now, after 3 kids and 7yrs of marriage he couldn't be happier.

I get it you're still young but dude you're not that young either nor are you getting younger. I had my kid when I was 30, I'll be retiring when my kid finishes college in about 10yrs (I'll be 53). If I get hit by a bus tomorrow, I will have zero regrets in life. Can you say that about yourself?

 

[sazc]

Please put your glasses on and look at him again

I saw him clearly. Solid 7. Erik Estrada.

 

[sazc]

I'm gonna crop out the other friend

this is actually a really nice pic


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I need to get some good quality professional pics done also.

Solid 7, would have gotten seriously laid in the early 80s

 

[bigdave17]

You're nowhere near good looking enough to get the women you want without having any game. You are nowhere near the level of those women, for example. you are going to have to do hundreds of cold approaches and ultimately settle on 3-4 of our top 10 criteria, like the rest of us.

I would use the second pic even though you look like the gay best friend in it

just FYI, if you think I'm a 7 or a 7.5, my sister's husband is a 2/10

he is Chubby, balding hard, big hook nose

 

[HankHill]

I repeat from your other thread "what do YOU think is the problem then? and how are you planning to fix it?"

I mean, seriously, what is it that you want us to tell you? Is there a point in making 10 new threads every few days?

 

[bigdave17]

also I'm confused by the people saying you need to have game or personality to get with women

that's assumed. It goes both ways. I only want someone that I have great chemistry with and that we get along like best friends

 

[HankHill]

I only want someone that I have great chemistry with and that we get along like best friends

First time I've see you say this but I'll cautiously say it's progress...compared to the same ole childish 9/10 women stuff.

Regardless, she doesn't know where you live so she ain't going to come knocking at your door tomorrow "Hey BigBadDave, here I am, the woman of your dreams, take me now!" You need to put some effort into it and start dating, you have nothing to lose and only confidence to gain. Just start!

 

[bigdave17]

First time I've see you say this but I'll cautiously say it's progress...compared to the same ole childish 9/10 women stuff.

Regardless, she doesn't know where you live so she ain't going to come knocking at your door tomorrow "Hey BigBadDave, here I am, the woman of your dreams, take me now!" You need to put some effort into it and start dating, you have nothing to lose and only confidence to gain. Just start!

I've never said I want a 9 or a 10. I'm not even that picky on face. I want a decent (say 6+) face with great body

I've always said I want somebody who will be like my best friend

 

[bigdave17]

How do you explain his success vs yours?

he is rich and my sister is typical Armenian gold digger lol. He is a great guy too but he wouldn't be with her if he wasn't rich

being brutally honest

 

[bigdave17]

Fair enough haha

Make more money, get gold diggers

I live about the same quality of life as he does... he's from New York. 500K where he lives is 200K where I live

except that I'm very responsible financially and will be a multi millionaire by 50. He spends everything he makes

 

[HankHill]

he is rich and my sister is typical Armenian gold digger lol. He is a great guy too but he wouldn't be with her if he wasn't rich

being brutally honest

There you have it...and you still want a hot chick who'll be in it for your money! Because she'll feel superior due to her looks compared to you.

I've never said I want a 9 or a 10. I'm not even that picky on face. I want a decent (say 6+) face with great body

I've always said I want somebody who will be like my best friend

Holy sh1t man, then why are we having these discussions...you said earlier that all you find are the 5s and 6s who are interested in you. Body? They can't all be that bad.

Anyway, get these couple of 5s and 6s, ask them out and see where things go. No more new threads until this happens

 

[bigdave17]

There you have it...and you still want a hot chick who'll be in it for your money! Because she'll feel superior due to her looks compared to you.



Holy sh1t man, then why are we having these discussions...you said earlier that all you find are the 5s and 6s who are interested in you. Body? They can't all be that bad.

Anyway, get these couple of 5s and 6s, ask them out and see where things go. No more new threads until this happens

6/10 face with a 9/10 body is fine. I get 5s and 6s approaching me with 4 or 5 body

other times, they're good looking enough but they are too old or they are single moms

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Exactly. So deal with it and stop whining.

That's why I told him shoot for babes at $100k and up. They complain men try to gold digger them. They want a man to split costs.

The poor fine girls are going to play him for a chump. That's the game.

Get a girl on your level ( brains and $ ).

 

[mrgoodstuff]

6/10 face with a 9/10 body is fine. I get 5s and 6s approaching me with 4 or 5 body

other times, they're good looking enough but they are too old or they are single moms

Right you complained about a 35 years old better body than a 25! You were happy till you learned her age.