Field report, date 1 - great guideline

[TheGambino]

Dear brothers,

I call you brothers because I feel that this forum is still a place where men support and help eachother to become better. You guys deserve the title: brothers, even more then some of my old friends.

HB7.5, I call her R. blonde, great as$, kim K style of clothes and face, nice lips, great body, designer clothes, just my kind of lady.

I approached R. last week at a local club outside after closing time. She was waiting for her friends.

Had a brief convo with a big smile on my face, she was acting a bit distant, didn't gave out her phone number but told me to add her on instagram. My thought was, oh prolly low interest but hell I give it a try.

Some of you remember that I also had a one night stand that night with another girl. I made a thread about how she didn't answer on my text and phone call the next day.. this thread is about R. not about the ons girl.

So 3 days later I texted R. on Instagram.

Gambino: Hey, whatsup?
R: Hey gambino, im good and you?
Gambino: Great, so what do you do on this hot day (it's hot in the netherlands atm)
R: dudududududu and you?
Gambino: Working, I got my own company in building websites dududud
R: Niceee, so your smart! nice! haha
Gambino: Yeah, and your beautiful so that makes a great combination
R: Smoothhhh hahaha, I study ***
Gambino: Nice I studied at the same place (true..)
Gambino: Lets have a drink and continue the conversation, does thurs night work for you?
R: Yeah, sure!

We met up, and she changes the location, no worries I'll follow her up.

We arrive at the village where we were supposed to go for drinks. I pick the spot. We sat there for 2 hours and I asked her a bunch of questions like:
What is your favourit thing to do?
What did you want to become when you were a little girl?
What makes you horney?
What's on your bucket list?
What's the funniest thing that ever happened to you?
When did you feel most joy in your life?
What frightens you?

I ask these questions, to make her open up so rapport, I ask these questions to make her feel comfortable with me, I ask these questions to let her fluctuate emotional (happy, afraid, horney) everything... It's a great way to stay in her mind afterwards!

Flirting***
go on go on...

I paid after 2 hours of talking, grabbed her hand a couple of times, kino 'd light and we went back to my car.

I asked her to do more drinks at my place but she declined after thinking for 20 seconds..
Dropped her home and went in for the kiss. She let me kiss her on her lips, for a couple of seconds but didn't want to make out. She said ''Nahh you have to wait!'' Gambino: I can't you have great lips (she did omg) R: I dont care, you still have to wait. She smiled, winked and bailed.

I texted her, because I didn't have her number right away with: Hey, this is my phone number, grtz Gambino

She texted back: Okay, thanks for tonight KISS

24 hours later I text her what she was up to for the night and we exchanged some brief texts..

Then another 12 hours later I text her: Hey theres a great movie I want to watch in the cinema, wanna go with me? R: Hey, sure! sounds fun. Let me know when your availble...

So that's it. I'll report back on date 2. I got a gut feeling that she sees me as relationship material because we got a lot in common and she's attracted, if I feel the cex is great, I will consider the potential in her to go exclusive for the first time in years after a life of DJ'ing the f8ck around.

Any thoughts? add them here!

I need to keep spinning though, that's rule number 1. I probably lost the one night stand plate until I meet her in real life, because she is being short and distant on text messages and taking hours to replie so I deleted her phone number. The girls on the backburner are mad at me or think that I moved on so I can't really go back to them. I'll turn up going to the gym and flirting and approaching girls so I won't get caught up with this one to quick.

Stay, icey, stay cold with them ladies, we are unstoppable. Gambino

 

[TheGambino]

I don't understand, no one is replying on field reports nowadays. This forum seriousley turned into a philosophers community or something...

Update on the girl:

Gambino on text: Hey the movie is scheduled almost every night at 10! When are you free to go watch it?

She read the text and is silent for almost 2 days, and she didn't add me on whatsapp so I dont see her profile picture...

My gut is telling me that she isn't feeling me anymore already or theres someone else on the corner.

Keep my reports and writings alive gentelmen and I am asking all of you to do the same! Go out and practice what you have learned here!

 

[highSpeed]

I don't understand, no one is replying on field reports nowadays. This forum seriousley turned into a philosophers community or something...

Update on the girl:

Gambino on text: Hey the movie is scheduled almost every night at 10! When are you free to go watch it?

She read the text and is silent for almost 2 days, and she didn't add me on whatsapp so I dont see her profile picture...

My gut is telling me that she isn't feeling me anymore already or theres someone else on the corner.

Keep my reports and writings alive gentelmen and I am asking all of you to do the same! Go out and practice what you have learned here!

Too much communication in my opinion. I'd say, cut back on texting and use that to set the date, low communication from there on in. She probably has guys blowing up her phone all day if she's as hot as you say. You do the same as those guys, what separates you from them?

 

[TheGambino]

She still didn't reply on my day and location question for the second date!

Gambino: Let's watch that movie we talked about someday this week!
Her: Yes, sounds fun, sure!
Gambino: Nice, which day works for you this week at 10?

Silence for 3 days now....

Should I double text it or screw her forever until she replies?

What to do!?

I could give it a shot to call too..

 

[beatjunkie]

She still didn't reply on my day and location question for the second date!

Gambino: Let's watch that movie we talked about someday this week!
Her: Yes, sounds fun, sure!
Gambino: Nice, which day works for you this week at 10?

Silence for 3 days now....

Should I double text it or screw her forever until she replies?

What to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Give it about a week I would say before following up with a text. Meanwhile spin other plates.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Spin

 

[TheGambino]

Spin

I spin every weekend... daygame is not really my thing, I like club and social circle game.

 

[TheGambino]

Okay, guys your gut feeling is always right. It's low interest, girls won't forget you texted them. I called her and she wasn't really excited on the phone to hear from me. We had a 15 second call, she told me she was working, and a bit dull. Asked her how her weekend was and she told me it was okay... then she said ''okay but I was just about to get ready to have dinner so i'll talk to you later''

I really assume, low interest because of the date or a ex that came back along or some case.

This is a 100% next until she reaches out.

Deleted number, what do you guys think?

 

[Bingo-Player]

Screenshot her replies to your messages and make a mental note that if a chick is responding to you with flatline responses like the above she probably isn’t that interested in you and is simply going through the motions

( women don’t usually have the balls to tell guys they are not interested and instead tend to play along for a week or 2 and then just drop off the face of the earth )

here isn’t much you can do when a woman does this , apart from pick yourself up dust yourself off and get onto approaching the next one


Just to clarify here the game with this chick is completely dead

Now for some comments on your end

Ok Your first 5 messages to her are also used by about 6 billion other guys on the planet they are not unique and are boring

You have to assume that she also has 10 – 20 other guys messaging her ( most attractive women these days do )

You need to be messaging her stuff that makes you stand out

Tease her on something , or make a comment about a mutual interest that you have with her if you can find one , she should also be contributing to the conversation to keep it flowing it shouldn’t be one way traffic on your part


Always remember Questions like “what are you up too” dry the pu$$y up very quickly because they are BORING


If and when you eventually get the first “date”, you need to aim for sex


Push the social boundaries , flirt , pull her hair , smack her A$$ and TELL her your taking her back to your place ( you don’t ask )


If you get this right you will leave an impression on her and then you will have the upper hand


Good luck