New Definition of insanity : Delusion

[Pandora]

People define insanity as repeating the same action and expecting different results. That is not insanity. That is persistence. The real definition of insanity is the action of ignoring reality. Twisting reality in order to fit your worldview is insanity. This is one of the main faults of women. They are unable to confront cold hard truths. If a society allows delusional people to take power then that society is doomed to fail.

Women do this with weight gain. Some ignore the fact that they are getting fat. They brush it aside. To confront their weight gain would mean that they would have to confront the fact that they are too lazy to go to the gym. Others turn their weight gain into a virtue. They use words like "thick", curvy or plus size.

Blackdragon aka Caleb Jones had a post titled Women are Comfortable Being Uncomfortable. This is because they create a fantasy world around their suffering. They ignore reality and live in their own make believe reality where things are not so bad. They do the same thing with boyfriends. Many women are actually dating beta men. But these women delusionaly convince themselves that these men are a catch ( it works temporarily until a real masculine man enters their life).

Feminism is another example of delusion. Trying to convince yourself that there are no inherent differences between male and female is twisting reality to suit your needs. Another extreme example is when women state that they can physically beat men in a fight. Do you understand how insane you have to be to actually believe that? Ronda Rousey actually said that she could beat up Mayweather. Joe Rogan agreed with her too! This is insanity.

Women have deluded themselves to think that being promiscuous is empowering. This is in spite of everything that tells them that it is unnatural to have sex with many men. Reality shows them that they are not designed to be as promiscuous as men. But will they listen to reality?....no they wont. This is insanity.

Women have deluded themselves into believing that abortion is good and moral. They delusionally think that a fetus is a non living entity. The reality is that most women feel a deep sense of regret after killing a fetus. Most women cry after having miscarriages. If a fetus was as insignificant as pro abortion women would like you to believe, then why do women cry after miscarriages? Again, this is reality smacking them in the face.

It is the duty of a man to correct a women when she is being delusional. Delusional and fantastical thinking is part of their nature. If we dont correct them then we are headed on a path of destruction. We also have to guard against delusion within ourselves. Delusion is one of the most destructive traits a human being can have. Confront reality no matter how painful it is. The initial pain will give way to vast improvements in your life once you have confronted reality.

 

[zekko]

I thought delusion was something that PUAs promoted. "Be delusionally self-confident". "We're all 10s". Women don't have a monopoly on delusion.

 

[Atom Smasher]

The difference, I think, is that in the case that you describe, we men are leveraging delusion with intent and awareness, while women's delusion results from being on autopilot with zero awareness .

We could say that we are replacing the delusion of complete lack of confidence with the delusion of complete confidence. Both extremes are delusions, so why not switch our negative delusions to positive?

That is one great advantage to being a man. Unlike most women, we can observe ourselves and recognize delusional thinking, even if it takes some time for the realization to come to fruition. Women are by and large trapped in their delusion. The herd mentality is their prison.

Excellent post, @Pandora.

 

[sazc]

The difference between choosing abortion and being sad about a miscarriage is that one pregnancy is wanted and the other is not. You won't find a pregnant woman who is determined to have an abortion grieving the loss, if she then has a miscarriage.

There are other complicated feelings that occur with a miscarriage that will occur with any woman who has a miscarriage. I won't discuss those here due to the lack of ability to empathize.

Be careful about voting to take away birth control and access to abortions. What that is really going to amount to is men having to pay more child support because the woman will be forced to birth the child. Sure, there may be more relationships that occur because of an unwanted pregnancy, but that doesn't mean the dynamics of the relationship are going to be healthy enough to raise a well adjusted child.

Relationships forced together because of pregnancy usually don't do well.

It amazes me how completely one sided (selfish and self centered) the "rationalizations" can be on these boards

 

[Spaz]

Good post, but it's a partial truth and from my perspective rather..elementary.

Women has all the 4 personality quadrant imbedded within them; The Motivator/Influencer, The Expressive/Supporter, The Doer/Driver and The Thinker/Analytical. One of the personalities is dominant over the others but they inherently have it all. In smaller quantities as compared to men. That's why women are so much better at multitasking and difficult to understand as they continually switch quadrants in a day.

Whereas men has only 1 quadrant embedded within them from birth, which is why men get things done to a much greater extent then women. We do not have the ability to switch quadrants to our advantage. And while we men are great within our own quadrants, gifting; poets, musicians, great scientific minds, great conquerors etc we must also acknowledge our shortcomings of NOT having other personality quadrants.

Understanding personalities is one of the basic and foremost quality a leader must have.

And a man is born to lead.

 

[fastlife]

If delusion allows you act more effectively, then it is advantageous. If it allows you to navigate your world more effectively, then it is advantageous.

I don't think feminists are as sad as you would have them be--most of them seem to be pretty insulated from the worst of their consequences atm.

As a man, I think we have to be realistic about the consequences we face: But where those consequences are imagined or don't exist--or pale in comparison to possible upside--then being able to fool your rational mind is an important tool to have, and necessary. If men were purely rational, we would have never survived some of the absolutely dire situations we have.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Difference between 1)believing you're a 10 when you're not as a strategic mental trick but not chasing 10s, and 2) believing you're a 10 when you're not and subsequently chasing 10s only.

What about believing you are a 6 when your a 9? Men and women are guilty of devaluing themselves.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've seen that too, yeah. Probably rarer than the opposite.

Quite a few fine ones have low esteem and die without the huge external validation.

 

[Pandora]

If delusion allows you act more effectively, then it is advantageous. If it allows you to navigate your world more effectively, then it is advantageous.

If men were purely rational, we would have never survived some of the absolutely dire situations we have.

I am curious. In what situations is it better to be delusional than to face reality? Fighting?

 

[Pandora]

I thought delusion was something that PUAs promoted. "Be delusionally self-confident". "We're all 10s". Women don't have a monopoly on delusion.

This is not a fair comparison. No sane man thinks that he is a 10 and can get any woman. I dont know any men that think that ( outside of narcissist). What you are referring to is a marketing tool used to sell PUA books.

 

[Pandora]

The difference between choosing abortion and being sad about a miscarriage is that one pregnancy is wanted and the other is not. You won't find a pregnant woman who is determined to have an abortion grieving the loss, if she then has a miscarriage.

There are other complicated feelings that occur with a miscarriage that will occur with any woman who has a miscarriage. I won't discuss those here due to the lack of ability to empathize.

Be careful about voting to take away birth control and access to abortions. What that is really going to amount to is men having to pay more child support because the woman will be forced to birth the child. Sure, there may be more relationships that occur because of an unwanted pregnancy, but that doesn't mean the dynamics of the relationship are going to be healthy enough to raise a well adjusted child.

Relationships forced together because of pregnancy usually don't do well.

It amazes me how completely one sided (selfish and self centered) the "rationalizations" can be on these boards

Hey I am not saying that there are no situations when abortions are justified. Rape is an example in which abortions may be warranted. What I am saying is that it is delusional to say that a fetus is definitively not life. The fact is that you always err on the side of life. You dont err on the side of some subjective definition of life in order to make yourself feel better. Women that cry after abortions ( the majority) and women that cry after miscarriages instinctively know that something just died. To kill a fetus goes against every instinct every mammalian mother has. Mothers ( even in nature) fight to the death to protect their offspring.

I am not judging them because in my twenties I would have encouraged my girlfriends to get an abortion. But that didnt mean that I was going to lie to myself and say that aborting a fetus was not killing something. Sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do. When soldier kills they dont say "oh that enemy was not even alive". Justified or not, you still killed something. No moral value judgement. Just facts. Something ceases to exist that probably had some primitive form of consciousness.

 

[Pandora]

That is one great advantage to being a man. Unlike most women, we can observe ourselves and recognize delusional thinking, even if it takes some time for the realization to come to fruition. Women are by and large trapped in their delusion. The herd mentality is their prison.

Excellent post, @Pandora.

Gold. This is what I was trying to say. This is their most damaging flaw.

 

[Pandora]

Another example is when pornstars say that they are taking charge of their sexuality by taking kum shots to the face. Huh? That is hamstering on a whole nother level. Its empowering to get fu*ked by 10 guys at once......this is the ultimate result of letting their chaos roam free. You will end up in a world where women believe this nonsense.

 

[fastlife]

I am curious. In what situations is it better to be delusional than to face reality? Fighting?

Possibly. But it's broader than that. If statistically you have a far higher likelihood of failing, starving, dying, etc., then the rational response would be not to try. BUT if you have a, say, 5% chance of succeeding, then the belief that you will succeed enables you the best (and possibly only) chance of realizing those odds. Alexander the Great was delusional. Napoleon was delusional. Winston Churchill was delusional. In fact, almost every 'great' man was delusionally sure of his own importance--call it destiny, God's will, whatever else. The fact that they achieved what they did was only enabled by this delusion that they could beat the odds. (Disclaimer: For everyone who beats the odds, there's 1000s who don't, but you have to play to win).

Man is hardly a rational creature. We're capable of rationality: and like I said, we should utilize this capability where it's advantageous. But where it's not...fvck it. I've said here before, and I'll say it now: I 100% believe that every girls wants me. I also 100% recognize, on an objective level, that that's not true. But the belief & not the actuality gives me the best chance at winning; the belief allows me to act in such a way that I win more often than I would otherwise. Self-fulfilling prophecies or the power of positive thinking or the law of attraction or whatever aren't the be-all-end-all: But they sure as hell are more beneficial than contemplating failure or insecurity or negativity.

 

[Pandora]

Possibly. But it's broader than that. If statistically you have a far higher likelihood of failing, starving, dying, etc., then the rational response would be not to try. BUT if you have a, say, 5% chance of succeeding, then the belief that you will succeed enables you the best (and possibly only) chance of realizing those odds. Alexander the Great was delusional. Napoleon was delusional. Winston Churchill was delusional. In fact, almost every 'great' man was delusionally sure of his own importance--call it destiny, God's will, whatever else. The fact that they achieved what they did was only enabled by this delusion that they could beat the odds. (Disclaimer: For everyone who beats the odds, there's 1000s who don't, but you have to play to win).

Man is hardly a rational creature. We're capable of rationality: and like I said, we should utilize this capability where it's advantageous. But where it's not...fvck it. I've said here before, and I'll say it now: I 100% believe that every girls wants me. I also 100% recognize, on an objective level, that that's not true. But the belief & not the actuality gives me the best chance at winning; the belief allows me to act in such a way that I win more often than I would otherwise. Self-fulfilling prophecies or the power of positive thinking or the law of attraction or whatever aren't the be-all-end-all: But they sure as hell are more beneficial than contemplating failure or insecurity or negativity.

Yeh i get what you are saying. Delusion is good when it enables you to self improve or survive. But its bad when it keeps you stagnant ( like the many women).

 

[The Diver]

There are other complicated feelings that occur with a miscarriage.

A side note;
In my 20th I impregnate a girl I used to see from time to time. She had an abortion. I saw her 20 years later, and after some casual chat, she suddenly said:
I should have now a 20 y/o boy or girl. To say I was in shock is underestimating.

 

[speed dawg]

I thought delusion was something that PUAs promoted. "Be delusionally self-confident". "We're all 10s". Women don't have a monopoly on delusion.

That's how serial killers are bred. Serial killers are often uber confident and very good with women.

 

[speed dawg]

The difference between choosing abortion and being sad about a miscarriage is that one pregnancy is wanted and the other is not. You won't find a pregnant woman who is determined to have an abortion grieving the loss, if she then has a miscarriage.

There are other complicated feelings that occur with a miscarriage that will occur with any woman who has a miscarriage. I won't discuss those here due to the lack of ability to empathize.

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It amazes me how completely one sided (selfish and self centered) the "rationalizations" can be on these boards

Complicated feelings? WTF, you do realize this is a men's board? How could we possibly have empathy for anything related to having a baby??

Be careful about voting to take away birth control and access to abortions. What that is really going to amount to is men having to pay more child support because the woman will be forced to birth the child. Sure, there may be more relationships that occur because of an unwanted pregnancy, but that doesn't mean the dynamics of the relationship are going to be healthy enough to raise a well adjusted child.

Relationships forced together because of pregnancy usually don't do well.

I actually agree here, but not because of the 'relationship' BS. It's because we'll have a bunch of unwanted b*st*rd kids running around who end up in gangs or as hookers and are generally a menace to society.

That doesn't make abortion right, but I acknowledge that reality.

The true answer is to get people to quit f*cking like rabbits outside of a marriage, but that's sort of delusional too so I'd give out birth control for free, if I had the power to do so.

 

[zekko]

I actually agree here, but not because of the 'relationship' BS. It's because we'll have a bunch of unwanted b*st*rd kids running around who end up in gangs or as hookers and are generally a menace to society.

That's a good point. More incels, more people to run around shooting up our schools. It's a scary thought.
I hate to advocate the wholesale slaughter of babies, but you're right, that could be a huge problem.

The true answer is to get people to quit f*cking like rabbits outside of a marriage, but that's sort of delusional too so I'd give out birth control for free, if I had the power to do so.

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.

 

[sazc]

A side note;
In my 20th I impregnate a girl I used to see from time to time. She had an abortion. I saw her 20 years later, and after some casual chat, she suddenly said:
I should have now a 20 y/o boy or girl. To say I was in shock is underestimating.

My ex did that to me a handful of years ago, I was NOT pleased.