Do you think women consider having sex with unattractive husband as "rape"?

[MatureDJ]

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWom...thoughts_on_the_case_for_settling_for_mrgood/

I like masculine and hairy men, but i think I should throw these standards in the dustbin and only concentrate on qualities like kindness, earning potential, commitment, his love for me and character. I am just afraid how my mental health will be if I ll feel like I am getting raped while being intimate with this person.

So women think that having sex with an unattractive husband is "rape"?

And here is a comment:

When I fell in love with my husband (at the age of 30), I was in a semi-serious relationship with a very kind, intelligent, well-off man from a good family. Everything else was perfect, but the sex was non-existing. He had a low sex drive, and I just didn't find him sexually attractive. So when this tall, dark man with broad shoulders walked into my life, I fell head over heels in love with him. It was like a vacuum inside me that just sucked in all that sex appeal.

And another comment:

What you should be looking for is a”your man version 1.0” - the concepts are great but there are still bugs in the software (aka flaws) which will be improved over time. As first mate, your job is to help him go to version 2.0, 3.0, and so on so that he transforms over time into the best possible version of himself.

Another poster mentioned starting as an “uncalibrated alpha” and their story is a really good example of what I mean. You find a man with “good bones” and help him become even better so that as his value rises he sees you as the cause— meaning you can’t be traded in for the younger model since his success is tied to your presence.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWom...thoughts_on_the_case_for_settling_for_mrgood/



So women think that having sex with an unattractive husband is "rape"?

Wow it's all about her. She doesn't see she raping him?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Do men think bulking season wife should get the mice of men Lenny treatment.

 

[Tilex]

I vomited after reading that

 

[logicallefty]

Why are we surprised about this? This community on SoSuave, and that means YOU, YOU,YOU,You, and you as well. We all know what's going on. The definition of rape has been redefined from 'sexual actions forced on me against my will' to 'sexual actions I did not enjoy after they were done and over and I have 40 years to make that decision on if I enjoyed or not'. And it doesnt matter who it is; husband, BF, etc.. If it's a natural born penis and says "male" on the birth certificate, it qualifies.

 

[The Diver]

And another interesting quote from one of the woman commented on the article:

""Let's shift the perspective and see why what your friend and sister are doing is so horrible. They are in essence saying, "You love me so much you will give me everything and I love me so much I'm willing to take it all." . It is inherently exploitative. Moreover, what happens when those men realize what is going on?

Your friend and sister are playing dangerous games. It wasn't nearly so dangerous before the explosion of the manosphere, but more and more men are seeing the light every day.""

But unfortunately, there are still plenty of man out there who are still very much blind .

 

[Spaz]

Given that an average male has on average only 4 s€xual partners in his life, women r spoilt by the average men's own idiocy.

Sorry guys, but I'm all for maintaining the ratio for the average man. Balance must be maintained.

 

[zekko]

Another poster mentioned starting as an “uncalibrated alpha” and their story is a really good example of what I mean. You find a man with “good bones” and help him become even better so that as his value rises he sees you as the cause— meaning you can’t be traded in for the younger model since his success is tied to your presence.

This is an age old story. A woman finds a boyfriend/husband who fits some of her criteria for a good mate, and then tries to change/fix/improve him into something closer to what she really wants. Most guys happily go along with this. For instance, if she tries to improve his style, he figures she knows more about what women like than he does. And maybe she does, so it isn't necessarily all bad.

 

[logicallefty]

Given that an average male has on average only 4 s€xual partners in his life, women r spoilt by the average men's own idiocy.

Sorry guys, but I'm all for maintaining the ratio for the average man. Balance must be maintained.

Geeze I’ve never heard that number, so low. I feel like a male ho’ now.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Should be a mandatory reading for teenage guys and soon to be married men.

It's not a joke, women basically gets counterespionage level courses by late teens while men are told to "respect women"...

 

[btownbuck2012]

women r spoilt by the average men's own idiocy.

This all day.

 

[zekko]

It's not a joke, women basically gets counterespionage level courses by late teens while men are told to "respect women"...

It helps that the system is rigged in their favor to begin with.

 

[Spaz]

Geeze I’ve never heard that number, so low. I feel like a male ho’ now.

Haha

Some had 100 but says they had 1000

Some had zero but counts masterbating as s€xual relationship

Some had 1 good lay and yet told others of a threesome

Some had less then 5 but told others he had dozens.

Average men lie abt their s€xual prowess just to prove that they r not average.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Haha

Some had 100 but says they had 1000

Some had zero but counts masterbating as s€xual relationship

Some had 1 good lay and yet told others of a threesome

Some had less then 5 but told others he had dozens.

Average men lie abt their s€xual prowess just to prove that they r not average.

Bigdave17 lol. No sex. No reality in how things work . Jaggs off 18 times a day . Wishing for a 9-10 babe and he's not even in the game .

 

[JonnyX]

Look what happened to Aziz Ansari. Even having consensual sex with a girl who agrees to it is rape if you're not enough of a Chad to make her gynie tingle the right way.

Sex is becoming increasingly dangerous for lower SMV men. They see our advances as "crimes" requiring "anti-harassment legislation" in the street and they will try to get us fired if they **** us and then regret it by claiming we harassed them.

Women are hating men at record levels. Mostly they hate us when we don't live up to the Disney fantasy they have in their heads. They hate themselves for whenever they settle for less than that. And then they try to find a way to blame us.

Probably no courtroom would entertain it as rape, but absolutely I'm sure most women who married an ugly guy feel like they're getting raped every time and just keep thinking about that Chad that pumped and dumped them 20 years ago.

It's a sick world.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's a good discussion to see how important true attraction is.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Look what happened to Aziz Ansari. Even having consensual sex with a girl who agrees to it is rape if you're not enough of a Chad to make her gynie tingle the right way.

Sex is becoming increasingly dangerous for lower SMV men. They see our advances as "crimes" requiring "anti-harassment legislation" in the street and they will try to get us fired if they **** us and then regret it by claiming we harassed them.

Women are hating men at record levels. Mostly they hate us when we don't live up to the Disney fantasy they have in their heads. They hate themselves for whenever they settle for less than that. And then they try to find a way to blame us.

Probably no courtroom would entertain it as rape, but absolutely I'm sure most women who married an ugly guy feel like they're getting raped every time and just keep thinking about that Chad that pumped and dumped them 20 years ago.

It's a sick world.

There is some truth in that.

The average woman has no sight on her flaws yet thinks that a chad is the standard for a man, anything less than that and she consider herself being unlucky or unfairly penalized.

They are so brainwashed that thinks that any man who is average is actually below average cause in their mind the standard of a man is a 6'2 masculine man with a hillbilly beard and a fitness model body.

I'm no surprised from stats coming from online dating where they consider a staggering 80% of men to be below average, they simply do not register average to ugly men in their everyday life not any different than how we do not register as sexual being most women above 35.

Except that we are generally fair to anyone wheter they turn us on or not, in their case instead human rights and fair treatment are connected to gina tingles and you need to get one to get the other.

 

[machoMax]

I vomited after reading that

Same here, actually twice.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

I'd say so, for a woman living without a provider male is probably pretty fvxking tough, especially after hitting the wall. being a single girl after 30 is looked down upon in modern society, and lonely I can imagine.

the validation woman get when they lock into a marriage with a good provider is heavely validating, her family, friends and the general public congratulates her and the feeling of having a place in society is very powerful at first, humans are wired to fit in their social environment. unfortunately the social standards in this moden age is basicley catholic and largely fvxked.

so woman get a huge validation high from marriage only the problem is that they are barely attracted to the man to begin with.

because any man that has the desire to marry is by default a socially conditioned faggit that will pay the price for having the desire to be exclusive and invest into one female only. this can't ever keep a woman wet, ever.

so I do think woman feel like they're getting raped while stuck in a marriage? I think so.
the guys think sense theyve invested 100% of their life force into a woman she owes him sex and children, that's basicley forced prostitution.

never underestimate the power of social presure and validiation that humans feel.
that's why retail/consumer culture has been booming the last century.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Women like to change their mind sfter the fact. They have sex, then kill their child. They have sex, then claim it was rape.