Field Report#15 : Date #3 with Indian Girl in the Movies & Drive in Country

[Ryan]

Read the whole thing:

1) The Girl

• Same girl I had a date with in this field report, she just got back from INdia
• She put on some weight
• • 20 year old
  • Type-->> Indian FOB (yeah I have a thing for indians), thick indian accent ---> just graduated
  • Looks: 6.
  • Conservative: Never had a bf before, never been on a date before, never kissed a guy before
• I actually see a future with her, not just sex.... we have a similar mindset and thinking

2) How I asked her out

• This time I didn't even bother to call her, I just texted her "Deadpool 2?" and she said sure
• We made plans to see deadpool 2 (Good movie?), but she wanted to see avengers.

3) The date

• I showed up early, she texted me that she is going to be late, I replied back "ur gay lol". She was still at Yorkdale waiting for the bus, so I offered to pick her up, she said no its ok I'll Uber it there.

Logistical Whammy

• I'm waiting at the front doors for her (hate waiting for ppl), reading Sosuave forum on my phone, she finally shows up......when she sees me, she immediately says "Did you buy the tickets?" In my mind I'm like ' Are you ****ing kidding me?' How should I have responded? we go to the electronic booth and realized all the seats for the 19h15 movie are taken up (we/I should of booked online), and for the other movies there weren't any good seats. So she recommended we go do something else, and we started walking back to my car. I suggested if we could go back to her place, she replied no because all her girl roommates were there (she shares a room with another girl), then I remember there was a nice lookout point in the country about half hour drive. (No I couldnt take her back to my place because it is super messy and this other girl left her things there lol)

• We finally arrived to the spot the GPS pointed us to---> the look out spot wasn't there, so I decided to drive back (getting a bit frustrated now). In my head I am thinking 'need a to find a secluded place where I can relax and have my beer in privacy and have some fun with this girl'. I see a small lane going up between these farms, and decide to take it, its a dirt road, she tells me that this isn't a good idea, I just ignore her and keep driving... I eventually come to the end of the road, I stop the car and told her that I need a break from driving, opened my beer, asked her to come out with me for a walk, she says ' no there are too many mosquitos'.
• I get into the back seat, and then tell her to come back here, she says 'no I'm not coming back there, I like the front seat' (at this point i thought I was ****ed). So then I get out the car walk around a bit taking in the beautiful scenery and view, then I go back in the back seat and keep sipping my beer. I reclined her seat all the way back, and then she commented 'I'm not laying down', I just let her talk her head off, while I put my arm around her, start playing with her hair and went in for the kiss.

Got past the goal keeper

• Contrary to @MrWood 's advice in the previous FR, I started rubbing her breasts--->> No resistance, I try to slip hand under shirt--->> she blocks me. I go back to kissing-->> The hands went back under the shirt, she tried to stop me, but I was too strong for her lol , hands slithered like serpents to her nipples, as I started playing with them she gasped with pleasure (she had never had a guy touch her breast before, remember I m the first for her), she has sensitive nips!! I then put my hand in her pants cupping her bum cheeks (thinking I could find a short route to the poomps), I try to slip fingers into panties==Blocked with both hands!, She then says "Not today, not in the car" I reply "Dont worry I dont want to have sex just pleasure you" (whispered in ear). But I never give up, I rub poomps from on top of jeans and she still is gasping, writhing (her sandals fall off her feet), I keep kissing her and put my hands on her stomach, then I quickly throw my hands into her panties and search for the opening...I play with ****, I find opening and go inside- not that tight for a virgin. I finger her for a good ten-fifteen minutes.....she was in ecstasy. I took her hand and put it on my dikk, she played with it a bit and then moved her hand. While I was fingering her I whisperd in her ear "I promise I will take good care of you" , "I want more than just sex".

• It was getting late so we started heading back into the city, you know what was wierd, it was like that experience brought us closer, we almost felt like a couple, before she placed her purse on her lap to protect her, now I noticed she placed it on the floor (I rubbed her leg while driving home) I told her I needed to get a few items from walmart, but if she needs to get back home I will drop her off first (before she was complaining 'I want to get back home') She actually responded that she doesnt mind coming with me to walmart: at walmart I asked her to get me a bunch of bananas and she did! lol What was wierd was she told me that she knew ppl that worked at that walmart and she didnt want to be seen with me, but I didn't read into it too much.

• I pull up at her apartment, I undid her seatbelt, I sorta felt that she didn't want to go, she stared at me a bit...we made out.

4) Thoughts

• I feel like asking her out for Sunday, or should I wait for next week?
• I will go NC for at least three days.
• I know you guys want me to date "7s & 8"s but I dont have the confidence for that, and I would feel way too intimidated...but dont worry I am getting there.

Ok so rate and critique?

Please if you haven't gotten laid in the past three months, dont bother replying.

Thank you for your time. If you need anymore information just ask.


Questions:

What should be my next move? (invite her to my place for DATE#4?...just need an excuse though)

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What I did well:

• Escalated and kept plowing: Even though she gave me resistance after touching her breasts, I kept slipping a hand in there, and had the guts to slip my hands into her panties, and fingered her--->> she loved it (read above).

• Quick on my feet: although the movie date didn't go as planned--> I had a backup date-->> Drove out into the country on a beautiful day.

• Made her feel like I was her bf: shopping together, holding hands (?)

Mistakes I committed:

• Logistics: Didn't verify that there was enough seats in the cinema...
• Talk quite fast
• <<please add>>

What I will do next time:

• next time I have to plan the logistics better: Go online and check there are available seats.
• Find a way to be calm without alcohol
• Talk slower and be more calm
• <<please add>>

Oh and please do the poll http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/personal-study-please-participate-in-the-poll.248714/






@Amante Silvestre

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[Murk]

(No I couldnt take her back to my place because it is super messy and this other girl left her things there lol)

Weak. If you have your own place that is your best tool. I spent an hour cleaning my pad last night to ensure sex. If you can't even do this I'm not reading your threads any more. Clean your place and invite bitches over.

 

[Ryan]

I'm sorry man, but I m not a rapist.

Where is your neck of the woods? ( So I make sure I never move there)

What you want me to do next?​

Ryan, this is creepy as fvck.

Not sure what the laws are where you're from, but in my neck of the woods, you're not far at all from standing in front of a judge to face date rape charges. Considering how much resistance she keeps putting up and how many times she has said "no", date rape is basically what it's going to take for you to get laid here.
It also doesn't help that this thread can be used as a testimonial to your own version of these events, which will fvck you hard in court.

I strongly suggest you get your thirsty, sexual fix with women who are more willing. You can continue to pursue this one too, just take it slower.

 

[Ryan]

Ok I invited her for tea and "sausage" tommorrow....

How can I get her back to my place?

I think I will tell her I have a coupon for the starbucks near my house (which I do)

This is what I came up with so far:

"I forgot to turn the light off in my room/ I left the oven on I need to get back home."

Lets see how creative you guys are. I know this may sound creepy to some, but I got her so wet in my car on Friday night...she even said "not today, not here"

@Amante Silvestre

@Igetit! @3agle3yes @MrWood @dude99 @RangerMIke @marmel75 @logicallefty @VladPatton @sph21@Alvafe @Mauser96 @Julian @JohnChops @Mazer @Desdinova @sph21 @MidnightCity @deesade @guru1000 @Dash Riprock @ubercat @Murkserious @Poonani Maker @NSX-R @Knight of Roses @skinnyguy @wifehunter @AJ84 @Von

 

[highSpeed]

Ok I invited her for tea and "sausage" tommorrow....

How can I get her back to my place?

I think I will tell her I have a coupon for the starbucks near my house (which I do)

This is what I came up with so far:

"I forgot to turn the light off in my room/ I left the oven on I need to get back home."

Lets see how creative you guys are. I know this may sound creepy to some, but I got her so wet in my car on Friday night...she even said "not today, not here"

@Amante Silvestre

@Igetit! @3agle3yes @MrWood @dude99 @RangerMIke @marmel75 @logicallefty @VladPatton @sph21@Alvafe @Mauser96 @Julian @JohnChops @Mazer @Desdinova @sph21 @MidnightCity @deesade @guru1000 @Dash Riprock @ubercat @Murkserious @Poonani Maker @NSX-R @Knight of Roses @skinnyguy @wifehunter @AJ84 @Von

on shaky ground here for sure. You do that, she has a case of buyer's remorse the next day, you're f*cked, literally. You end up having sex with her, you better document as much as you can so she can't claim you did something later. H*ll, even that may not be enough but at least it would be something. Get her to sign a notarized contract that she was willing, that might save you. Remember, we're in a metoo environment anymore, so any type of sex is up for prosecution, so beware.

 

[MrWood]

This is what I came up with so far:

"I forgot to turn the light off in my room/ I left the oven on I need to get back home."

I cant help with you thinking like this ^^^

howto..
my date. Met on OLD, 4 weeks light banter
agree to meet in netural town, booked hotel
met at train station 3pm, 5'1/100lb HB7 hot body, 44yo
had lunch, checked in... go to room
her at window, put my arm around waist from behind, she pushed it off (way more a bf move... penalty points)
put hand on ass/hip... she pushed her ass into my c0ck through the jeans, my hand down her blouse
picked her up with my one good arm and threw her on the bed
4pm-11pm sex 3x
9am-11am sex 2x *she came/squirted first round

her quotes:
you are over confident (she dates mostly insecure dudes seems)
you are a great lover
i like you
you are fun
i dont know why i cant stop giggling
lets meet again

 

[Ryan]

I cant help with you thinking like this ^^^

howto..
my date. Met on OLD, 4 weeks light banter
agree to meet in netural town, booked hotel
met at train station 3pm, 5'1/100lb HB7 hot body, 44yo
had lunch, checked in... go to room
her at window, put my arm around waist from behind, she pushed it off (way more a bf move... penalty points)
put hand on ass/hip... she pushed her ass into my c0ck through the jeans, my hand down her blouse
picked her up with my one good arm and threw her on the bed
4pm-11pm sex 3x
9am-11am sex 2x *she came/squirted first round

her quotes:
you are over confident (she dates mostly insecure dudes seems)
you are a great lover
i like you
you are fun
i dont know why i cant stop giggling
lets meet again

I am happy for you, that you found success.

I feel that you are charging me for 'tricking her into having sex' -->> please confirm and provide suggestions.

@MrWood

 

[Ryan]

​

Ryan, this is creepy as fvck.

Not sure what the laws are where you're from, but in my neck of the woods, you're not far at all from standing in front of a judge to face date rape charges. Considering how much resistance she keeps putting up and how many times she has said "no", date rape is basically what it's going to take for you to get laid here.
It also doesn't help that this thread can be used as a testimonial to your own version of these events, which will fvck you hard in court.

I strongly suggest you get your thirsty, sexual fix with women who are more willing. You can continue to pursue this one too, just take it slower.

You have a point.

I hate the 2018.....wish things could be like the 90s where men were allowed to act like men, and women act like women....everything in this era is illegal.

I think I will move to a 3rd world country where I have more freedom.

 

[MrWood]

charging me for 'tricking her into having sex'

yep, its fvcking lame too... and she sees it.
most of your tales revolve around some sort of line or excuse to put yourself in some position to make sex happen.

desperate and hungry is not attractive

This translates into you being a creep. There are ways to suggest sexuality without this bullshvt, and is why you are failing hard... you are a creep in my opinion.
A creep is one that cannot adjust to the situation in a sexual or appealing way, you seems to have no idea how to interact in any way... naturally.

3rd worlds country, I suggest not... I have spent alot of time in India, Iraq, Nigeria... you will fail even harder IMHO, the cultures are far from promiscuous.

Suggest Middle/East Europe for a relaxation of feminism and more open views as well as a better SMV evaluations on themselves and men...
however these women are more challenging and intellectual, and from what I am hearing... you will not do any better.

Ryan, it is you that is the issue here, sorry to say it.


there is an old story...

a father and son bull cow are looking at all the sexy heifer cows in the meadow...
the son says to the dad... "lets run down there and fvck one of them heifers..."
the father turns and says... "no son... lets stroll down and fvck them all"

 

[Ryan]

yep, its fvcking lame too... and she sees it.
most of your tales revolve around some sort of line or excuse to put yourself in some position to make sex happen.

desperate and hungry is not attractive

This translates into you being a creep. There are ways to suggest sexuality without this bullshvt, and is why you are failing hard... you are a creep in my opinion.
A creep is one that cannot adjust to the situation in a sexual or appealing way, you seems to have no idea how to interact in any way... naturally.

3rd worlds country, I suggest not... I have spent alot of time in India, Iraq, Nigeria... you will fail even harder IMHO, the cultures are far from promiscuous.

Suggest Middle/East Europe for a relaxation of feminism and more open views as well as a better SMV evaluations on themselves and men...
however these women are more challenging and intellectual, and from what I am hearing... you will not do any better.

Ryan, it is you that is the issue here, sorry to say it.


there is an old story...

a father and son bull cow are looking at all the sexy heifer cows in the meadow...
the son says to the dad... "lets run down there and fvck one of them heifers..."
the father turns and says... "no son... lets stroll down and fvck them all"

I'm mature enough to agree that I am 'desperate and hungry'..

So you think I am chasing too hard? (run down there).....how do I want to make them want to fvck me? (stroll down)....thats the concept I am struggling with.

I had her over tonight, it turned out bad...but thats a story for FR #15 which I dont have the energy to type out right now.

 

[The Diver]

I see a small lane going up between these farms, and decide to take it, its a dirt road, she tells me that this isn't a good idea, I just ignore her and keep driving... I eventually come to the end of the road,

• I get into the back seat, and then tell her to come back here, she says 'no I'm not coming back there, I like the front seat' ,,,
• ,,,,, then I go back in the back seat and keep sipping my beer. I reclined her seat all the way back, and then she commented 'I'm not laying down', I just let her talk her head off, while I put my arm around her,,,,

Fu*ck man, that sound like a scene from a horror movie, I almost can see the chainsaw coming out at any moment ,,,,,,,

 

[CamCam]

I'm mature enough to agree that I am 'desperate and hungry'..

So you think I am chasing too hard? (run down there).....how do I want to make them want to fvck me? (stroll down)....thats the concept I am struggling with.

I had her over tonight, it turned out bad...but thats a story for FR #15 which I dont have the energy to type out right now.

Definitely chasing too hard bud.

Have you read any game literature? My mind was blown by, "The Rational Male." Get yourself a copy; ****, DM me your addy and I'll buy a copy for you.

Also working on or have already read; "King Warrior Magician Lover" "The 48 Laws of Power" "The Game" "The Art of Seduction" "Day Bang"

From the outside looking in, it feels like your confidence is low enough to where you think you have to trick/pressure a girl into having sex with you. Believe me, I've been in the dumps too.
Not even that long ago. But do this; approach game with a humble attitude, do the LEGWORK (e.g read the classics, immerse yourself in the theory, get yourself to the gym, eat clean)

Listen to this; I moved to Colorado from Norway about two years ago. I only had one lay since being back; and it baffled me. On top of that, the one girl I did get to bed was a starfish and more than
likely was slightly crazy. I couldn't understand what I was doing wrong. I became angry
and despondent. Then I started the research, and found the right material. That was only four weeks ago Ryan, 4 WEEKS. Do you know how far I've come in a mere four weeks?! You can
too, believe it. It's not going to be easy, but make it your obsession. Considering reading, exercise, podcasts, youtube material - I bet I spend between 5-10 hours per day trying to reverse
my beta.

Now four weeks later, (6-8 weeks of crossfit/gained 14 pounds of muscle, slimed down) I have 5 dates set up, from apps (hey I have to start somewhere, and I'm not ready for the cold approach yet).
3 of the dates are with women who have openly expressed sexual intent for me. I have a Pilates instructor with massive fake tits messaging me, you know, the sort of girls that wouldn't have answered
more than a message or two from me only a few weeks ago.

Here's another tip; you need to understand and implement the Spinning Plates. And you know what, they don't have to be your dream girls. Start where you can. I'm going for the 30 yr old single moms/girls hitting their wall,
not because that's what I want to end up with - but that's what's easiest right now and more important than ANYTHING is the fact that I need to stop being thirsty and start raising my value. So for now,
I'm going to Spin Plates with those types of women, and get myself laid on the regular. I'll feel less desperate, I'll be more at ease and confident - and the girls that I actually want (the 18-25's) will take more notice of me.

You can do it Ryan, but don't go the creepy route, don't land yourself in jail...you don't want that. You have to think sustainability - do you want to force a few sexual encounters and land in jail, OR do you
want to learn the game, be proud of yourself and have endless sexual options in your life? Think about it

 

[Ryan]

Fu*ck man, that sound like a scene from a horror movie, I almost can see the chainsaw coming out at any momient ,,,,,,,

Thats what it seems like from the way I typed it out, but it was a beautiful farm in on a beautiful summers day.

 

[Ryan]

I ended up fing this btch