When other people c**k block you..

[ItsFate451]

What are some your stories of being c**k blocked?

I remember one time I was at a local dive bar and I was playing beer pong with a very attractive woman. A lot of flirting was going on between us. Touching, laughing etc. There was this one guy she came with and he was constantly interrupting our interaction by pulling her away. I swear he did this about 5 times until she they finally left smh

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I came to my uncle's house and he briefed his female friend that I was rude .

She came to see that was a block and said "your uncle said you were rude, but I like you alot"

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What are some your stories of being c**k blocked?

I remember one time I was at a local dive bar and I was playing beer pong with a very attractive woman. A lot of flirting was going on between us. Touching, laughing etc. There was this one guy she came with and he was constantly interrupting our interaction by pulling her away. I swear he did this about 5 times until she they finally left smh

They pull them away cause their friend his hugely attracted.

 

[wifehunter]

I don't have time to write a book on the subject.

I can't tell you how many times other males have rudely interjected themselves into conversations I've had with attractive females. It's poor behaivor...but, I let it slide, as it's great cover for an exit.

 

[flowtheory]

I don't have time to write a book on the subject.

I can't tell you how many times other males have rudely interjected themselves into conversations I've had with attactive females. It's poor behaivor...but, I let it slide, as it's great cover for an exit.

Imagine this scenario.

You’re chatting with an attractive woman and you’re both enjoying the interaction. All of a sudden some douche cuts in and interrupts to get her attention. Which option would be the best on how to handle the new circumstances; Is it better to...

a) Walk away immediately from the interaction and do your own thing.

b) Stand there and watch the interaction between them until it concludes.

c) Tell the woman it was nice chatting, then politely excuse yourself.

d) other; elaborate

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Imagine this scenario.

You’re chatting with an attractive woman and you’re both enjoying the interaction. All of a sudden some douche cuts in and interrupts to get her attention. Which option would be the best on how to handle the new circumstances; Is it better to...

a) Walk away immediately from the interaction and do your own thing.

b) Stand there and watch the interaction between them until it concludes.

c) Tell the woman it was nice chatting, then politely excuse yourself.

d) other; elaborate

If they don't already know each other the onus is on her to cut that new convo out . Don't blame the guy . If she's a sucker for the new attention then accept her honesty and never see her again.

 

[flowtheory]

If they don't already know each other the onus is on her to cut that new convo out . Don't blame the guy . If she's a sucker for the new attention then accept her honesty and never see her again.

In this case, they do not know one another.

So you’d walk away if she was enjoying the new guys attention?

 

[Alvafe]

In this case, they do not know one another.

So you’d walk away if she was enjoying the new guys attention?

or the dude could think you was the one **** blocking him

more then once you will **** block someone or be **** blocked, be it intentional or not.

I could share some but serious not point, the best you can do is if the interation was interesting to her don't matter who try, even if is someone she knows she will turn her atencion back to you, if not then turn your atencion to someone else

 

[Mike32ct]

I think it was WhoDaresWins that once said middle aged women are the worst kokblocks.

The worst experience I had was this... I was about 34 and met a 21 yo online. We met at a bar and just started talking. This 50 yo lady and her late 40s bf walked in. The older lady starts talking to my date, asking her about where she’s from, school, etc.

Ok fine. A bar is a social place. An older lady is no threat right? So I let it go.

An hour later, she’s STILL chatting with my date non-stop, while not including me in the conversation (and also ignoring her date).

I try to politely enter the conversation. The older (and now drunk) lady looks me in the eye and says, “You’re OLDER THAN HER (my date).”

<Yeah no shyte>

Then she turned her back and continued to talk to my date (ie her now adopted daughter of sorts) non-stop.

The older lady finally leaves with her (very bored and annoyed) date. My date finally leaves shortly after.

At this point, I REALLY needed a drink, maybe two lol.

Mike: Double rum and coke please.

Bartender Guy: It’s on the house. You deserve it. What was up with that bytch?

Mike: lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

In this case, they do not know one another.

So you’d walk away if she was enjoying the new guys attention?

I think you have to be done with her. That was rude of him but rude of her as well.

 

[flowtheory]

I think it was WhoDaresWins that once said middle aged women are the worst kokblocks.

The worst experience I had was this... I was about 34 and met a 21 yo online. We met at a bar and just started talking. This 50 yo lady and her late 40s bf walked in. The older lady starts talking to my date, asking her about where she’s from, school, etc.

Ok fine. A bar is a social place. An older lady is no threat right? So I let it go.

An hour later, she’s STILL chatting with my date non-stop, while not including me in the conversation (and also ignoring her date).

I try to politely enter the conversation. The older (and now drunk) lady looks me in the eye and says, “You’re OLDER THAN HER (my date).”

<Yeah no shyte>

Then she turned her back and continued to talk to my date (ie her now adopted daughter of sorts) non-stop.

The older lady finally leaves with her (very bored and annoyed) date. My date finally leaves shortly after.

At this point, I REALLY needed a drink, maybe two lol.

Mike: Double rum and coke please.

Bartender Guy: It’s on the house. You deserve it. What was up with that bytch?

Mike: lol

Lol funny story.
Did you end up seeing your date a second time?
Or was she not interested in you because she kept turning to talk to the old-timer?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I had a gay colleague once who would constantly try and f*ck up my interactions with women. I think he was just really insecure that I was more popular in the group than him and possibly also "jealous" that I'm straight, I don't know.

At one point I was chatting at the bar to this smoking hot chick that was a mutual friend and he "jokingly" slapped my arse. If he hadn't been a colleague I would have sent him over the nearest table then and there, it was ridiculous behaviour.

I said to him "I'm not your f*cking boyfriend, mate, he's over there." But still he'd managed to ruin the moment and f*ck up my frame in front of this girl.

Same chick actually about 2 months later, she leaned in and kissed my cheek after we danced together and right after this he literally tapped my shoulder and said loudly "I think we've been out late tonight, WORK TOMORROW, we should go. Bye everyone." Practically dragged me towards the exit with him like we were a f*cking couple or something. Again, such absurd behaviour I just stared at him in full WTF-are-you-doing mode.

In fact I can think of other situations the guy has done this too. Any time women start showing me attention he's there to be an undermining little c**t. I might start calling him Captain C*ckblock, lol.

 

[Mike32ct]

Lol funny story.
Did you end up seeing your date a second time?
Or was she not interested in you because she kept turning to talk to the old-timer?

The later. Game over lol.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Oh, and I also had some guy start trying to talk to this attractive girl I was chatting up at a party last year. We'd been talking for 20 minutes, she was flirting with me loads and this skinny little guy just walks in, starts "laughing" at my joke that he didn't even hear and then starts trying to put himself physically between me and her.

She wasn't even interested in him at all either!

Needless to say I did the "half-laugh" technique back to him after the first 20 seconds of his nonsense, gave him a big hearty smile. And then I put my hand on her shoulder, leaned in to "speak" with her and simultaneously stepped right in between him and the chick.

Combined it with leaning on this little dweeb slightly like a mighty glacier and the clown soon f*cked off back to talking to the curtains where he belonged.

 

[Serenity]

I had a gay colleague once who would constantly try and f*ck up my interactions with women. I think he was just really insecure that I was more popular in the group than him and possibly also "jealous" that I'm straight, I don't know.

At one point I was chatting at the bar to this smoking hot chick that was a mutual friend and he "jokingly" slapped my arse. If he hadn't been a colleague I would have sent him over the nearest table then and there, it was ridiculous behaviour.

I said to him "I'm not your f*cking boyfriend, mate, he's over there." But still he'd managed to ruin the moment and f*ck up my frame in front of this girl.

Same chick actually about 2 months later, she leaned in and kissed my cheek after we danced together and right after this he literally tapped my shoulder and said loudly "I think we've been out late tonight, WORK TOMORROW, we should go. Bye everyone." Practically dragged me towards the exit with him like we were a f*cking couple or something. Again, such absurd behaviour I just stared at him in full WTF-are-you-doing mode.

In fact I can think of other situations the guy has done this too. Any time women start showing me attention he's there to be an undermining little c**t. I might start calling him Captain C*ckblock, lol.

I would honestly be furious if I were you, colleague or not. That's way over the line.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I would honestly be furious if I were you, colleague or not. That's way over the line.

They were both those kind of absurd social situations that are very hard to react to because they're both unexpected and there's no easy way to retain your cool.

I could have got angry with the guy on the spot but that just makes me look weak. But if I sit there and do nothing, I'm getting clowned in front of the girl by a skinny gay guy and that's not exactly frame building material.

What doubly p*ssed me off is that he'd been lonely for ages and I helped him meet and get with his BF. And his repayment to me, after knowing me 3 years, was to just act like a total pr*ck every time I tried to hook up with a chick.

He's such an expert at c*ckblockery that he's even blocked me by TRYING TO HOOK ME UP with a chick. Because him saying to a chick "If you want sex, try Smooth." without my blessing is about as subtle and useful as slapping me on the arse in front of her lol.

Thinking about it properly now, I'd say he's c*ckblocked my attempts with at least 4 women. One of those people I now avoid socialising with.

 

[CBear]

1st time I went to a club this chick was staring at me for what felt like forever. As we were dancing, she "coincidently" started moving closer to me. Once her body was in contact with mine, some dude pulled her back lol.
Once I got up on stage shirtless and started dancing, I noticed her close to the front of the crowd. I pressured her to come up on stage with me. She did and we grinded on eachother like crazy while everyone else watched and got hype xD

Moral of the story, just don't give a fk

 

[ohrein]

Imagine this scenario.

You’re chatting with an attractive woman and you’re both enjoying the interaction. All of a sudden some douche cuts in and interrupts to get her attention. Which option would be the best on how to handle the new circumstances; Is it better to...

a) Walk away immediately from the interaction and do your own thing.

b) Stand there and watch the interaction between them until it concludes.

c) Tell the woman it was nice chatting, then politely excuse yourself.

d) other; elaborate

This is a tough one. Most women I know, especially my girlfriend, are way too polite to ask for space and to be left alone. It's the same reason women will give out their phone number to you even though they're not interested. Sometimes it is attention seeking but sometimes it's also just that evolutionary defense mechanism. Women are physically weaker and have evolved to avoid confrontation in those situations. I think that dynamic also plays into why women are far more polite at the start of a relationship but become more comfortable being hostile with a man once they feel safe around him.

Anyway, I'm not sure what the best answer is in the case where it's a woman you don't really know. I would personally use a slightly altered version of b) and try to include the new person. If the new person is a weirdo then I'd probably ask the woman if she'd like to leave or come get a drink, giving her an out if she wants it (that's what I do with my girlfriend if she gets stuck with someone and looks uncomfortable). You don't have to actually leave, the goal is just to provide an exit. Even if you don't know the woman that well, she'll understand what you're doing and you'll score points if she's genuinely interested in you. If she declines you have your answer. If the new person is cool I just have fun with it and just see what happens. If it's a hostile dude, offer the exit and if it's declined you're definitely done.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Imagine this scenario.

You’re chatting with an attractive woman and you’re both enjoying the interaction. All of a sudden some douche cuts in and interrupts to get her attention. Which option would be the best on how to handle the new circumstances

As I said in that little anecdote, I find passive-aggressive confrontation usually works wonders. Most guys cut in because they think you look "nice" and they can muscle you out of the way. It's your job to prove them wrong.

For the record I'm not some macho man who walks round headbutting other guys at parties! If a guy's getting with a girl before I've even talked to her I leave them to it, it's only fair to do that. But if you're talking to a woman for a while in private and some idiot thinks he can just rudely block you, it's pretty much your right to tell him to f*ck off.

So let them wave their little d*cks around for 20 seconds and then give them a stare and a subtle put down based on what he's saying (double points if it makes her laugh at him).

Example:

Guy: "Hahaha so yahhh I'm like totally like getting a big promotion at the bank hahaha"
Me: "I guess we can all look forward to another big crash soon! Hope you're not going Gordon Gecko on us up there."
Guy: *Kind of confused* "Mm-y-yeah, well really banking is..."
(*I have now encouraged him to talk about his boring-as-s**t job)
Me: "Well, that's fascinating. Anyway Hotness, you were saying about Shakespeare?"
Hotness: "Yeah Shakespeare is pretty good. I like..."
Guy: *Awkwardly walks off*

Or you can go the physical route like I did and just separate the two of them cleverly. If he starts physically trying to muscle you out of the way, skip to the physical route immediately. It's best if you're bigger than him too, because you can just size up to him subtly and 9 times out of 10 he'll get the message. Immediately after doing that, get her talking to you again and get her off of whatever BS topic he got the conversation on.

If physically gently giving him the "F*ck off" message doesn't work, combine it with a verbal put down. It sounds a bit cruel maybe, but I've turned conversations almost entirely to ripping the p*ss out of the guy who's trying to block me, and they just deflate a lot of the time.

Again, bonus points if you whisper something to the girl once he leaves, like: "That guy was a tw*t, right?" 90% of the time they'll agree and tell you they thought he was a loser tryhard. Score.

I try to politely enter the conversation. The older (and now drunk) lady looks me in the eye and says, “You’re OLDER THAN HER (my date).”

<Yeah no shyte>

Then she turned her back and continued to talk to my date (ie her now adopted daughter of sorts) non-stop.

The older lady finally leaves with her (very bored and annoyed) date. My date finally leaves shortly after.

At this point, I REALLY needed a drink, maybe two lol.

Mike: Double rum and coke please.

Bartender Guy: It’s on the house. You deserve it. What was up with that bytch?

Mike: lol

What a b*tch. There are some spiteful people out there. Sounds like this old crone was jealous that you were dating a younger girl and decided to mess you up for giggles.

Either that or her "you're older than her" comment makes me think she had some weird old-fashioned grudge against older men dating younger women. Not even like you had much of an age gap though, wut.

I think you should have been less polite. I know it's easy to say as an outsider, but being firm in these situations works wonders. If you said "Hey, I'm sorry, we're here on a date, do you mind?" and then moved to another seat maybe you would have salvaged the date.

Much like the party blockers situation, you can turn it to your advantage too. Go to the toilet and send her a text that says something like "Want to move away from the creepy old bat?"

 

[ohrein]

I think you should have been less polite. I know it's easy to say as an outsider, but being firm in these situations works wonders. If you said "Hey, I'm sorry, we're here on a date, do you mind?" and then moved to another seat maybe you would have salvaged the date.

Very true. I don't think it's impolite to ask for her to leave at all. I have no hesitation in asking people to leave if I'm not interested in spending time with them. Although I have a soft spot for those guys who are inept socially and trying to make friends. I'm super gentle when I can be, I don't want to be cruel. But you can be firm without being rude, it's a good skill to develop.