So its interesting... With regards to what Corey Wayne says, if the relationship ended in a DRASTIC/awful way such violence being involved or especially cheating, then its over between the two parties and he always suggests never going back. He pushes his "walk away and never look back and if she changes her mind she'll give you a call one day thus possibly giving you a second chance you might want to take" usually in the instance when the guy went beta/too needy and turned the girl off. So he says that in the event she ever comes back, its almost as if YOU have your second chance to prove her wrong and show her you're different (i.e. more alpha).
So you're saying you forget nothing and there is no rewind button, but what if YOU really did act wrong in the relationship in a beta way or lets say you just did something stupid in general to push her away and turn her off? However as time goes on and she remembers more of the good times as us human being tend to do, and she decides to reach out and give you another shot and you're currently single. You're going to turn it down no matter what?
That all being said I will say this. The more and more I read here and other areas of the internet, not to mention based on what I've seen in general in life, I actually don't think I can recall ONE instance of reading/seeing a couple that broke up only to get back together. When I say broke up of course I mean as in something bad caused the relationship to end and not something along the lines of someone moving to another state or another weird harmless circumstance. But I can't go against Corey's teachings completely just yet on this bc I still feel that if you as the guy f-cked things up, then you shouldn't exactly be pissed as being dumped and shouldn't necessarily instantly turn down a second chance with her
In my particular case being discussed, me and her only dated for a brief period of time before she went back to an ex she wasn't over. As nice as the 2 months were between us and as serious as things got in such a short span of time, I truly feel nothing I did in just those 2 months could have superseded feelings she had for this ex of 1.5 years that she JUST got dumped from prior to meeting me. It was a disaster waiting to happen and she is to blame. She then even came back to me and said she was "torn", but then I went kind of beta and pressured her into making a decision thus pushing her away IMO. It was really a tricky situation, but at the end of the day, I know I'm better off without someone that would put me through what she put me through.
Sorry, I never look back. Used too, but it's a lost cause (teens - 20's). One did hurt me bad, and the only "beta" thing I said was why and I really thought we'd be a good team. She then rescinded the breakup and just wanted to break for a week or two. I declined and walked away. Years ago when I was married, I was never beta. If anything, I was called distant and aloof. I learned a lot from those two in terms of relationships. TBH, my ex-wife didn't want the divorce, but I already made up my mind. I was getting nothing out of it. The other one I will admit, I fell hard, but still kept to once a week conversations, etc. Didn't help. She brought up exclusivity, and since I really was blinded, I agreed. Three weeks later, I found out she was dating other men. After that, no more giving women the benefit of the doubt. I do not hate them, but I do not trust anything they say.
I use them from what I need them for, and that is it. Never really had an issue with getting a woman, aside from the occasional slump. But since I cannot trust them, as soon as they cut off sex or communication, I just walk away. But just before, I do say, you will miss me when I am no longer in your life. From what I've been told by our mutual friends are some actually do. They tried to get through to me, but I have a zero tolerance of unfaithfulness, disloyalty, dishonesty and distrust. So, it's best, for me, and most men these days, to not form an emotional connection and just use them as a *** dumpster. After all, that is why they were created. Who am I to argue with the all mighty God. When it's all said and done, women are out of control. They've changed the rules, I just play them out.
In the end, they are all the same. The heavens only knows how many c0cks have been in them. They are also the cause of the ramped STD epidemic. In general, most are not forced to have sex. They are the gatekeepers, not men.
Much respect for CW, however, he's also been divorced twice. 99.9% of the stuff he states I agree. However, I just wouldn't be able to take a woman back. FYI, our marriage therapist even told her she was in the wrong and will be causing a potential divorce. She didn't agree, so we went to a few more and they all agreed. I do not blame her nor this other one. It's on me. I made the choice to enter into relations with them, so it is on me for poor choice selection. I have a thing for Italians with nice asses, a brain and big boobs. So, I just will not get attached. So, shoot me. Hehehe.
In your case, your b!tch is lying. She wants the attention not you. If you cannot see that, then we cannot help you. If you just want to use her for sex and form no attachment, then proceed at your own risk. However, the issues will come back 10 fold. If you can handle that rejection a second time and not go into a depression, roll the dice. However, it hurts when you've lost a woman you care about not once, but twice. It's very hard. Protect your heart.
