What do hot girls and high SMV dudes do with their lives after 30?

[drakeisfire]

Do they all just get married and have kids?

Is there really a world out there these days where high value guys and hot girls in their 30s are just sleeping around, partying, hooking up, and messing around rather than settling into a safe and stable lifestyle?

 

[bigdave17]

1)Some stay single and party it up
2)Some settle down, have a nice family, stay attractive and have a great life
3)Many get fat and ugly, lose their quality of life, never have sex, etc...

 

[skinnyguy]

That world exists. It happens in places like LA. Imagine if you’re a celeb in your 30’s. You probably have a table at Drai’s every weekend.

Major cities and small towns are polar opposites.in small towns all the high SMV people are married with 3 kids by the age of 25. In big cities they just fvck around and live large because they have more options of things to do with their time.

Paris Hilton is older than me but she only just got engaged. She partied hard in her 30’s.

 

[drakeisfire]

Skinnyguy sometimes you give me hope.

 

[The Duke]

There is definitely an active 30's scene with partying and hooking up. Its a little more refined than the 20's scene but it still goes on. You see a lot of recently divorced in their 30's looking for a good time.

I'm in my early 40's now and its definitely slowed down. There are less people that want to party til 2am. They don't hang out in bars as much. They aren't as quick to hop in bed with somebody. There are definitely less attractive women in the 40's age group.

 

[bigdave17]

I'm in my early 40's now and its definitely slowed down. There are less people that want to party til 2am. They don't hang out in bars as much. They aren't as quick to hop in bed with somebody. There are definitely less attractive women in the 40's age group.

lol what?

My experience with women in their 30s and 40s is that they are very easy to sleep with and basically have no standards - even the most attractive ones in the group. Women in their 20s are 53850235258205825085302x harder to sleep with

maybe it's because I'm a 29 year old attractive male and in great shape. I'm considered a huge prize to women in their mid to late 30s but considered completely disposable to 26 year olds

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

lol what?

My experience with women in their 30s and 40s is that they are very easy to sleep with and basically have no standards - even the most attractive ones in the group. Women in their 20s are 53850235258205825085302x harder to sleep with

maybe it's because I'm a 29 year old attractive male and in great shape. I'm considered a huge prize to women in their mid to late 30s but considered completely disposable to 26 year olds

You strike me as someone who they would go to dinner with under a more romantic type setting rather than take them out to the woods for some dirty sex. Women in their 20s have time. Women in their 30s do not.

 

[bigdave17]

You strike me as someone who they would go to dinner with under a more romantic type setting rather than take them out to the woods for some dirty sex. Women in their 20s have time. Women in their 30s do not.

Bro, I don't ever get any dates. If a woman actually spends some time with me and gets to know me - whether it's in the woods or at a nice restaurant, they will all like me

People who spend time with me can see that I'm a great person, smart, very easy to get along with, ambitious, successful and driven. They all pretty much like me

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Bro, I don't ever get any dates. If a woman actually spends some time with me and gets to know me - whether it's in the woods or at a nice restaurant, they will all like me

People who spend time with me can see that I'm a great person, smart, very easy to get along with, ambitious, successful and driven. They all pretty much like me

Same here my dude. Problem is that you don’t probably have a way to express those qualities to them without making it look like you’re trying too hard. In other words, bad logistics. That’s my problem at least. It might be yours too.

 

[bigdave17]

hot girls after 30: reality and real life comes crashing down on them. Options begin to decline at a dramatic pace.. by 33 only horny, desperate, loser riff raff available. Generally, even the few men they are still willing to go out on dates with will still only be using them for sex.

guys w high smv value after 30: the fun begins.. freed from the shackles of feminist style brainwashing, older men - if u do things right like stay in shape and earn some money - will only increase in value and will be able to fvck all the hot young visa slvts in their early 20s.

30s has been by far the best time of my life: not the craziest stories, but definitely the hottest women.

I dunno about that

If I was a single 40 year old male with no kids and found an attractive 34 year old woman with no kids, I would date her. Women in their 30s usually have excellent personality and are great in bed in my opinion.

The 34 year old I slept with last year had a fantastic personality. I loved hanging out with her

 

[bigdave17]

They will all like you.. yet you never get any dates?

Sorry OP you’re delusional and don’t recognize the REAL problem here. And until you do, we cannot help you.

I've been out on dates with 12 women in my lifetime and maybe 9 of them have wanted to be with my long term

the few who didn't were all in my younger years when I was a f*cking idiot. If I had a chance again with those 3, I think at least 2 would want to be with me also. None of the recent ones were in my league or I would be in a LTR with one of them already - they were either too old, had kids, not cute enough, not in shape enough, etc...When I was 19, I was seeing a beautiful 17 year old who was exactly my type (greek, great body, smart, sweet). I fukked that up by being an idiot - I wish I had another chance with her, she would love the current version of me.

If a woman agrees to go out on a date with you, she is attracted to you and is in the market. You're already past the absolute hardest part of the process. If you f*ck that up, you are a social retard/your life is a trainwreck/etc...

My "presentation" on dates is excellent - I pick them up in my car (a $70,000 luxury sedan), dress super nice, take them somewhere nice, etc... My life story is very interesting also - I was born in a different country, have lived in 3 different countries, etc... I can make myself come across as a little bit of everything - smart but still fun, masculine but still sensitive, responsible but still love to party, etc...

 

[djthiago1]

I've been out on dates with 12 women in my lifetime and maybe 9 of them have wanted to be with my long term

the few who didn't were all in my younger years when I was a f*cking idiot. If I had a chance again with those 3, I think at least 2 would want to be with me also. None of the recent ones were in my league or I would be in a LTR with one of them already - they were either too old, had kids, not cute enough, not in shape enough, etc...When I was 19, I was seeing a beautiful 17 year old who was exactly my type (greek, great body, smart, sweet). I fukked that up by being an idiot - I wish I had another chance with her, she would love the current version of me.

If a woman agrees to go out on a date with you, she is attracted to you and is in the market. You're already past the absolute hardest part of the process. If you f*ck that up, you are a social retard/your life is a trainwreck/etc...

My "presentation" on dates is excellent - I pick them up in my car (a $70,000 luxury sedan), dress super nice, take them somewhere nice, etc... My life story is very interesting also - I was born in a different country, have lived in 3 different countries, etc... I can make myself come across as a little bit of everything - smart but still fun, masculine but still sensitive, responsible but still love to party, etc...

Been out on 12 dates? Younger years?

What's going on here?

 

[bigdave17]

Been out on 12 dates? Younger years?

What's going on here?

what part of that did you not understand? I've been on dates with 12 women in my life

the 3 who did not want to be with me was all in my younger years (when I was 19-23) and I screwed that up by acting like an imbecile

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I bet you vibe is one of locking down and qualifying for an LTR. This is 2018 most ladies will think that's wierd and it will put you at lowest consideration for sex.

 

[zekko]

I'm in my early 40's now and its definitely slowed down. There are less people that want to party til 2am. They don't hang out in bars as much. They aren't as quick to hop in bed with somebody. There are definitely less attractive women in the 40's age group.

There are a lot of reasons for this. As you get older, you tend to lose energy, so if you're devoting time to career, family, exercise, etc, you don't have a lot left over to spend on partying. Also, I've noticed that a lot of people who partied when they are younger kind of "grew out of it", got sick of it after awhile. While some other types who started late are almost like reliving their childhood and don't know when to turn it off.

Besides which, believe it or not, you can get tired of almost any kind of lifestyle.

That said, I know several older couples who are swingers, older couples who have open marriages, and plenty of people who just plain prefer to stay single. So yeah, if you're looking for it, it's definitely out there. Just not as common as it is at younger ages.

 

[djthiago1]

what part of that did you not understand? I've been on dates with 12 women in my life

the 3 who did not want to be with me was all in my younger years (when I was 19-23) and I screwed that up by acting like an imbecile

That makes no sense. I'm 23 and i've been on dates with dozens of women, and i'm super shy and introverted mind you. How or why have you been on so few?

 

[bigdave17]

That makes no sense. I'm 23 and i've been on dates with dozens of women, and i'm super shy and introverted mind you. How or why have you been on so few?

Dating is insanely hard. I don't know how you've been on any dates

I'm very extroverted, have a huge social circle, go out 3 times a week, etc... If I was shy and introverted like you, I would still be a virgin by now

 

[R.U.G.]

I know many women into their 40's which are still attractive and still playing hop scotch with different ****s. Then again, this is a metro area with 20 million people. I usually date 29 - 37 as well. Usually lasts a few months, then on to the next. It's a merry-go-round for both sexes in the city.

 

[djthiago1]

Dating is insanely hard. I don't know how you've been on any dates

I'm very extroverted, have a huge social circle, go out 3 times a week, etc... If I was shy and introverted like you, I would still be a virgin by now

I just get numbers and ask them out, during the date i try to be light and funny, no heavy stuff, and the result is 8 times out of 10 they wanna go out again.
And i'm not super hot, not shred, nor tall (5'8).

I mostly follow Doc Love's System, i wouldn't have half the success i have if i was "myself", i tend to get heavy, and talk too much negative stuff especially about my past.
It comes with being introverted.

 

[R.U.G.]

1)Some stay single and party it up
2)Some settle down, have a nice family, stay attractive and have a great life
3)Many get fat and ugly, lose their quality of life, never have sex, etc...

Most, are # 3. They stay hot til they land the beta. Then start to transform into a hog beast after the kids are born. Hence, no marriage no kids if you are smart. It rare hot women stay fit and in shape after they pop out the liabilities. They know they got the cuck trapped.