Women don't play hard to get when interested....

[oc16]

After reading Corey Wayne's book about how interested women Chase men and experiencing it first hand, its true I believe.

I've never experienced a woman "playing hard to get" and then me finally winning her over with persistence.

I'm not all saying a woman will approach you, ask for your number or ask you out, but when they are intereted, THEY WILL HELP YOU.

A woman that gives you short, sometimes one word responses via text, is not playing hard to get, she is NOT interested.

A woman that says "maybe" or "I'm kind of busy, maybe some other time" in response to asking her out is not playing hard to get, she is NOT interested.

An interested woman, will put herself in proximity to you, try and make eye contact and reach out and text you if she hasn't heard from you in a couple to a few days.

Woman that seem to avoid meeting your eyes or act like you don't exist, are not playing hard to get, they are NOT interested.

This seems to hold true online too. I've noticed the only women I seem to get anywhere with are the ones who initiated a wink, made me a favorite or wrote me first.

Women Chase men they are interested in, they don't play hard to get.

 

[kzar_kzar]

true but there are women who are literally on you till you ask them out.. umm..

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Depends a lot on her personal confidence level. I've found the easiest girls to date are the confident and outgoing ones because they know what they want and if they want you it's obvious and yes, they make it easy.

But there are a lot of girls who aren't confident or believe they have to be passive and they think that you have to chase them. They usually play "hard to get" even though they're interested, because they know no better.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I've asked a girl out who showed very little interest in me physically only one word texts and alot of times not responding. I ended up smashing a week later... not every thing is as cut and dry as alot of people on this forum say it is...

 

[MrWood]

A woman that gives you short, sometimes one word responses via text, is not playing hard to get, she is NOT interested.
A woman that says "maybe" or "I'm kind of busy, maybe some other time" in response to asking her out is not playing hard to get, she is NOT interested.

this +1

 

[btownbuck2012]

I agree with this about women who genuinely like you but remember women who don't genuinely like you will still date you and f*ck you if your game is tight. I would even go so far as to say true high interest is high compatibility.

 

[devilkingx2]

Truth be told, i knew a girl who liked to ignore a lot of my messages and respond with "lol" often

Took me by total surprise when it turned out that she had a thing for me, got jealous of other girls who talked to me (or that i mentioned), etc.

So she was so interested that she was outright possessive and catty to her own best friend (her best friend is an ex of mine that wanted me back) when the subject of me came up.

The lesson here is that women aren't always intelligent or logical, sometimes they're just as dumb as guys. This one primarily displayed affection via jealousy, the only way to find out she liked you was to hit on other girls in front of her or wait until she gets tired of waiting for you to ask her out and confronts you in a really confusing conversation that blindsides you lol

 

[logicallefty]

I agree with the OP. I will add that at the stages of initial texts, etc. with a woman there is a time window in there where when she starts throwing the one word texts, excuses, etc. you can do a pivot play. Ignore her a few days or up to a couple weeks and you might reel her back in the interested zone. This would be a pivot move off of her ego and emotions and the fact that you show her now that you can withdraw quickly and easily and aren’t going to jump into her orbit by responding to her effortless texts or continuing to make attempts to meet so that she can only turn you down. You only have one chance or maybe a couple to make this pivot play. If it doesn’t work after that then forget her. If it does work Then go for the lay quickly. Because her renewed interest might only be temporary. The whole reason you even got another chance might only be because her ego want it to end on her terms and not on yours. Strike while the iron is hot.

 

[skinnyguy]

This is more or less true. As I said before, I will no longer pursue women unless they are throwing themselves at me.

To me, time is money. I’ve spent tons of time texting half interested chicks only to have them ghost me

 

[wifehunter]

Corey is a closet orbiter.

I've had women tell me they are busy, only to be throwing themselives at me when they finally realize they've fukked up. Women make dumb decisions. Just because she's uninterested now, doesn't mean sh!t.

The 'hard to get' / 'not interested' line is a stock/default response from being chased by orbiters.

Once they realise I'm not orbiting them, they go nuts!

 

[nismo-4]

Corey is a closet orbiter.

I've had women tell me they are busy, only to be throwing themselives at me when they finally realize they've fukked up. Women make dumb decisions. Just because she's uninterested now, doesn't mean sh!t.

The 'hard to get' / 'not interested' line is a stock/default response from being chased by orbiters.

Once they realise I'm not orbiting them, they go nuts!

They must have some interest in you to go nuts. If you show you won't orbit a girl, she'll either label you as useless (if she only sees you as some beta role which you don't want anyway), or she'll come around. It's often the former, but at least you won't be the one she cries to when she gets railed by that muscled out personal trainer.

 

[wifehunter]

They must have some interest in you to go nuts. If you show you won't orbit a girl, she'll either label you as useless (if she only sees you as some beta role which you don't want anyway), or she'll come around. It's often the former, but at least you won't be the one she cries to when she gets railed by that muscled out personal trainer.

I do food delivery, and I work 7 days a week. I take time off only when needed. Making a good lasting impression goes a long way, and I continue to make improvements. I get plenty of practice too.

Girls lose their sh!t sometimes! Once you've nailed down attraction. Everything else falls into place.

When most chicks are garbage, and you're not looking to get laid, your IDGAF is another level.

I'm at the point where I don't have too think about it too much, but if I have time off, I get a little rusty. It's always best to stay in the game, always ready for anything.

It's about breaking down barriers, and making an impact. And, having fun, in the process.

 

[The Diver]

I agree with the OP. I will add that at the stages of initial texts, etc. with a woman there is a time window in there where when she starts throwing the one word texts, excuses, etc. you can do a pivot play. Ignore her a few days or up to a couple weeks and you might reel her back in the interested zone. This would be a pivot move off of her ego and emotions and the fact that you show her now that you can withdraw quickly and easily and aren’t going to jump into her orbit by responding to her effortless texts or continuing to make attempts to meet so that she can only turn you down. You only have one chance or maybe a couple to make this pivot play. If it doesn’t work after that then forget her. If it does work Then go for the lay quickly. Because her renewed interest might only be temporary. The whole reason you even got another chance might only be because her ego want it to end on her terms and not on yours. Strike while the iron is hot.

Jesus Christ guys,It's only a fu*cking Pu*ssy we are talking about here. So much mind boggling for a piece of pu*ssy?. She's not interested? fu*ck her, there always will be others. No chasing.
For a people who claim themself to be a DJ, with "indifference mindset" and "abundance mentality" ,I'm amazed how much efforts , plans, and strategic, so many of you putting out to reel in an uninterested girl.
In the end of the day It's only a fu*cking pu*ssy, not a gold nuggets.

 

[logicallefty]

Jesus Christ guys,It's only a fu*cking Pu*ssy we are talking about here. So much mind boggling for a piece of pu*ssy?. She's not interested? fu*ck her, there always will be others. No chasing.
For a people who claim themself to be a DJ, with "indifference mindset" and "abundance mentality" ,I'm amazed how much efforts , plans, and strategic, so many of you putting out to reel in an uninterested girl.
In the end of the day It's only a fu*cking pu*ssy, not a gold nuggets.

Ummm.. While we discuss far more topics here than just women, last I knew this was what we were primarily about on sosuave.com/sosuave.net:

"Since 1998, SoSuave has been offering only the best tips on how to meet, date and attract incredible women. " Reference: www.sosuave.com.

But what do I know, I just work here lol

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Just remember that some girls will NOT chase you. They will be responsive and warm when they hear from you...but you are the man so they don't take away your opportunity to display interest by initiating contact.

More often than not this is what high self esteem, traditionally minded, and better quality women do. They let the man do the reaching out...and then when the man reaches out, they are warm, encouraging, and responsive.

But guys will miss out on this better subset of women if guys expect these women to chase. They won't. They will assume YOU lack interest & they'll move on. They have options.

I never initiate contact until I'm months into a relationship...but if I like a man I'm very warm & responsive if/when he reaches out. I'd say with my BF now he reaches out about 85% of the time. That is phone calls, dates, texts, etc. And this is 7 months in. I do reach out once in a while now that we are dating...but very rarely. In the beginning he was the one reaching out 100% of the time.

So don't dismiss a chick who does reach out. Wrong benchmark. Rather see how she responds to you when you do reach out.

 

[The Diver]

"Since 1998, SoSuave has been offering only the best tips on how to meet, date and attract incredible women. " Reference: www.sosuave.com.

You missed my point. My post was only in regard to Uninterested girls. Can't see the benefit of chasing clearly Uninterested girl, instead of putting your effort in those who will be interested in you.
(of course I know what's this site is for)

 

[logicallefty]

@The Diver I do see your point and it's valid and rock solid. That's why I said "go for the lay quickly". Because if her interest level is low and you spark it back with a suave play, it's most likely just temporary interest that will go dry again from her once you show yours.. But why not get a lay out of it if you can? Kinda like day trading a bad stock. The company is a POS but if you can day trade and get 25% gains in 5 minutes, buy and sell fast. Why not?

 

[The Diver]

@The Diver I do see your point and it's valid and rock solid. That's why I said "go for the lay quickly". Because if her interest level is low and you spark it back with a suave play, it's most likely just temporary interest that will go dry again from her once you show yours.. But why not get a lay out of it if you can? Kinda like day trading a bad stock. The company is a POS but if you can day trade and get 25% gains in 5 minutes, buy and sell fast. Why not?

Haha , funny way to put it , but I gotcha now.

 

[IKO69]

I don't know who Corey Wayne is but you arrived at the right conclusion. Guys reported all these difficulties and uncertainties are because they are dealing with women who aren't sufficiently interested enough. Even when I was a AFC teenager I had women who would make it obvious they liked me.

 

[corrector]

This is more or less true. As I said before, I will no longer pursue women unless they are throwing themselves at me.

But suppose you don't like the ones that are throwing themselves on you? You are not going to be happy in the long run if you settle with a woman you are not attracted to in your right mind. You still have to aim high.

To me, time is money. I’ve spent tons of time texting half interested chicks only to have them ghost me

But at least as a man you were going after what you want. What about logicalefty's (i.e. the moderator's) advice about taking a break from such women and then coming back 2 weeks later?

Also remember a front-end rejection is better than a back-end rejection. You are only talking about texting. When you are in a real relationship you start spending money, real time, gas, etc... and your heart. All of that could be wiped-out if the lady goes at the end of the day. Please don't complain about time texting. This is not a real investment. Just don't put your whole mind into that. You need to be more detached.