Girl thinks she hurt me by breaking up with me?

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No I must change her mind. Maybe say something like "just wanted you to know you didn't hurt me. I just wanted to let you know what was going on with me at the time and that's why the relationship didn't work. Wish you the best."
 

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She just can't think this. Do you guys think I'll be making an idiot out of myself by telling her she didn't hurt me?
 

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Say that if it makes you feel better, then move on. Don't get drawn into a protracted exchange of words with her, you'll just leave it feeling s***.
 

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Why did she even say it in the first place?
Probably cared about you dude, didn't want you upset that you broke up. Most women are highly emotional creatures, and are sometimes over-sensitive to emotion.
 

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No I must change her mind. Maybe say something like "just wanted you to know you didn't hurt me. I just wanted to let you know what was going on with me at the time and that's why the relationship didn't work. Wish you the best."
no alpha would say that. actually thats omega. just block her and forget
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I strongly suggest you read DJ bible and re read it again until it gets stuck into your psyc
 
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I want her to know she didn't hurt me. I gave her ego a stroking. How do I undo this?
Next her. Get off phaggotry times. Go get more babes. Best way to get "even:" is to get under hotter/thinner/younger women on top form SMV. No better way to troll said woman. Mental masturbating and talking about feelers is just painting yourself as the beta cuck she fortunately finished.

No sweeter feel in this world then running into a train wreck from the past with a girl who just turned 18 around your arm. LULZ be had. Bishs be raging. Jimmies be rustled.
 

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I want her to know she didn't hurt me. I gave her ego a stroking. How do I undo this?
Who cares? Find something important to do in your life. Clearly that is sorely lacking if you time to come up with this...but I guess your username should have given it away.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Pay no attention. She's clearly looking for an emotional response from you. Point is, do not give one. Women get off on drama. Thus, do not give them any.
 

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Who cares? Find something important to do in your life. Clearly that is sorely lacking if you time to come up with this...but I guess your username should have given it away.
You have to understand that I'm mild aspergers and severely bipolar. My mental disorders ruin all of my relationships. It's very frustrating and that's why I vent on this forum. I do go to school and have career goals so I'm not a total loser
 

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Next her. Get off phaggotry times. Go get more babes. Best way to get "even:" is to get under hotter/thinner/younger women on top form SMV. No better way to troll said woman. Mental masturbating and talking about feelers is just painting yourself as the beta cuck she fortunately finished.

No sweeter feel in this world then running into a train wreck from the past with a girl who just turned 18 around your arm. LULZ be had. Bishs be raging. Jimmies be rustled.
beta cuck she fortuately finished? Wtf does that mean and I'm not beta cause I have depression anxiety self esteem issues. All of my mistakes stem from my mental problems. That's why they're so hard to learn from.
 

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No I must change her mind. Maybe say something like "just wanted you to know you didn't hurt me. I just wanted to let you know what was going on with me at the time and that's why the relationship didn't work. Wish you the best."
Da fuq?

You can't change a girls mind after she dumps you.

Move on. We all get that you fvcked up. Learn from it. Nothing that you actively do to try and change her mind will have any positive impact, only negative.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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