Girl not wanting to meetup.

[Red Legg]

You are moving way to fast....one week???? on average once I start talking to a woman on OLD I do not fvck her for 10 days to 2 weeks later.Some women I have talked to on OLD or met in public I did not fvck till months later,you try to pursue her too fast she will just write you off as a needy b!tch.

 

[guru1000]

If a girl does now want to meet, I remove my time and attention entirely.

In the beginning stages, a girl only gets one chance with me. She either fully opens the door to my advances, or I close it entirely. The irony is the amount of women who have tried to backpedal and "make it up," once they see what I'm about.

 

[CMNILS87]

Dude cmon. You pushed too hard sexually over text. She may be an attention *****, but the game is up now. She knows what you want if she’s sending nudes. At least leave some plausible deniability. Never escalate over the phone with a girl you actually want to hang out with. 50/50 shot you blow them out

 

[Skyline]

Dude cmon. You pushed too hard sexually over text. She may be an attention *****, but the game is up now. She knows what you want if she’s sending nudes. At least leave some plausible deniability. Never escalate over the phone with a girl you actually want to hang out with. 50/50 shot you blow them out

I did not.

You can get lewd pictures of a girl without ever being sexual.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

eat three days worth of beans, oatmeal, milk, and coffee. Destroy a bathroom. Like, literally caution tape and flamethrower the toilet bowl. Then, proceed to take a pic of the aftermath. text said woman who ghosted you, "saw something that reminded me of you this morning."

Insert said pic!


inbox me said responses and I will rep you! Wait wut?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Dude cmon. You pushed too hard sexually over text. She may be an attention *****, but the game is up now. She knows what you want if she’s sending nudes. At least leave some plausible deniability. Never escalate over the phone with a girl you actually want to hang out with. 50/50 shot you blow them out

+ 1

School boy error. Be vague and ambiguous. Leave bread crumbs and let women come to the assumption. If you acquire nudes, gf revenge and my inbox will gladly intake them. I share.

Wait wut?

 

[Skyline]

+ 1

School boy error. Be vague and ambiguous. Leave bread crumbs and let women come to the assumption. If you acquire nudes, gf revenge and my inbox will gladly intake them. I share.

Wait wut?

I have lol.

I never reveal any of my true intentions. It's always subtle, the language they speak. I never asked her to send me nudes.

 

[Skyline]

Update:

Found out that she got out of a 2 year relationship with a guy who ended up cheating on her. This was about 3 months ago, I'm assuming he took her virginity as well. I didn't dive into details because I felt that it wasn't necessary.

We only really talk during nights. During the day, I either don't respond or don't care to go ghost and respond/message her.

She basically doesn't want to 'give herself up' like that again. It's gonna happen with me though. I honestly don't think going ghost will do me any good at this point. But posting pics of other girls might, I did tell her that I can't ensure her that I can wait.

And to the people saying that I shouldn't have brought up a relationship, I never actually did. She did. The conversation literally went in a circle- nothing changed except I gained information. I just frame everything in a certain way so she comes up with the idea.

She's definitely interested but I don't think that I should make her a top priority. It would benefit me if I didn't.

In all honesty, I feel as if the situation is under control and I should just be normal. I probably shouldn't push too hard or ask her to hang out though.

You might be wondering why I'm looking for a relationship. It's because I need the experience.

 

[Glassguy]

Update:

Found out that she got out of a 2 year relationship with a guy who ended up cheating on her. This was about 3 months ago, I'm assuming he took her virginity as well. I didn't dive into details because I felt that it wasn't necessary.

We only really talk during nights. During the day, I either don't respond or don't care to go ghost and respond/message her.

She basically doesn't want to 'give herself up' like that again. It's gonna happen with me though. I honestly don't think going ghost will do me any good at this point. But posting pics of other girls might, I did tell her that I can't ensure her that I can wait.

And to the people saying that I shouldn't have brought up a relationship, I never actually did. She did. The conversation literally went in a circle- nothing changed except I gained information. I just frame everything in a certain way so she comes up with the idea.

She's definitely interested but I don't think that I should make her a top priority. It would benefit me if I didn't.

In all honesty, I feel as if the situation is under control and I should just be normal. I probably shouldn't push too hard or ask her to hang out though.

You might be wondering why I'm looking for a relationship. It's because I need the experience.

Just say:

"I find you attractive and interesting. I am not in a rush for anything serious but I am also not looking for a pen pal. Hit me up when you're free to meet up and grab (Coffee/dinner/drinks/etc). If you're not interested in doing that, I wish you the best".

That's really all you need to say. Dont be surprised if she tries to suck you back into endless conversations. Stand your ground and hold frame. Reinforce what you told her.

Her: Hey how are you?
You: Great. Nice to hear from you.
Her: Yeah I have been (blah blah blah.....endless texting material).
You: Yeah that's great. Hey I am super busy right now and have to run. Lets continue the talk over (drinks/dinner) this Thursday evening. How does 8pm work?

She either gives you a yes or no. After a couple of invites out, I would scratch her off the list and ghost. At best give her one word answers and never initiate conversation with her.

You have to sort of give them the ultimatum in a nice way. You are walking if things dont progress, and honestly dude, meeting up for a drink isnt that big of a deal. If she is going to show you that pvssy and send you pics but wont meet up, you should have little patience with her and be quick to move on to another chick.

 

[The Duke]

When girls act this way its always these 2 things:

1. She only wants you for attention/validation/compliments/etc and doesn't care if your needs get met.

2. There is somebody else in the picture.

If that girl is sending you nudes, she better be down to fuhk right away. If she isn't then you withdraw all attention. Stop spending time on women that don't provide fair return on your investment. This helps drive up the price of pu$$y, increasing female entitlement just like social media and dating sites do.

 

[Skyline]

Just say:

"I find you attractive and interesting. I am not in a rush for anything serious but I am also not looking for a pen pal. Hit me up when you're free to meet up and grab (Coffee/dinner/drinks/etc). If you're not interested in doing that, I wish you the best".

That's really all you need to say. Dont be surprised if she tries to suck you back into endless conversations. Stand your ground and hold frame. Reinforce what you told her.

Her: Hey how are you?
You: Great. Nice to hear from you.
Her: Yeah I have been (blah blah blah.....endless texting material).
You: Yeah that's great. Hey I am super busy right now and have to run. Lets continue the talk over (drinks/dinner) this Thursday evening. How does 8pm work?

She either gives you a yes or no. After a couple of invites out, I would scratch her off the list and ghost. At best give her one word answers and never initiate conversation with her.

You have to sort of give them the ultimatum in a nice way. You are walking if things dont progress, and honestly dude, meeting up for a drink isnt that big of a deal. If she is going to show you that pvssy and send you pics but wont meet up, you should have little patience with her and be quick to move on to another chick.

I can't figure out how to do ultimatums correctly yet. They either come out real blunt or transition from subtle to blunt. I agreed and amplified when she brought up not wanting anything serious.

You're definitely right about the meeting up thing. I feel as if she's fighting herself to do it and I'm kind of reinforcing her not to meet up by giving her attention. I did manage to tell her that I wouldn't wait for her.

I don't think it's worth scratching her off my list because this really isn't that difficult. I enjoy talking to her and it's really me that's expecting more. The thought is already in her head so there isn't much I can do anyways.

I think it's a good idea to gradually decrease response times/measaging. There's only so much I can do. It should not be difficult to organize a simple meet up- I agree with that. Asking her to meetup would be a bad idea at this point however. Letting her think by giving her space might be the best option.

 

[Glassguy]

I don't think it's worth scratching her off my list because this really isn't that difficult. I enjoy talking to her and it's really me that's expecting more. The thought is already in her head so there isn't much I can do anyways.

I think it's a good idea to gradually decrease response times/measaging. There's only so much I can do. It should not be difficult to organize a simple meet up- I agree with that. Asking her to meetup would be a bad idea at this point however. Letting her think by giving her space might be the best option.

You're wrong unless you just want to be an orbiter. Walking away IS your best option and if she is interested, she WILL meet up. If she is not, it will fizzle out very fast at that point.

If you want someone to talk to, find a guy buddy and talk to him. This is where you are severely lacking in making this chick CHOOSE to go out with you. Why wouldnt she keep you as an orbiter if you are being this available?

Women LOVE challenges. You should drop her that exact line I gave you to use the next time she wants to "chat".

Sorry bro, I dont have time for just "chatting". That's what my friends are for. Not chicks who I havent even went out with yet.

Think about that for a minute and use my line and then follow what I just told you to do.