The Duke
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Taken from another forum............
Getting off the dating site
Let me tell you what getting off the dating site has done for me.
I got off the dating site, like completely. I hide my profile, shut off my emails. No going there just to look or anything like that. Just left it.
Since then I have also not been dating. I don't have any exes that I still talk to. No male BFF's or friends. No FWB's, orbiters, no males to call on to help me move or even go to the movies with. No males whatsoever in my life. I point this out because I find that most women who say they are taking a break from dating still have men in their life.
At first it was fine. I hang out and talk to my girlfriends a lot and of course we talk about men, and I just felt like I was getting a break from the hassles of everything that comes with dating and I was happy to put it on the shelf.
It's been a year since my last relationship and a year since I've had sex even.
Now that I haven't talked to or had any males in my life for several months now, what I am noticing is the effect it's having on me. It's been a unexpected to say the least. What it's doing is making me feel starved. And making me super horny. Suddenly those guys who I might not have given the time of day a year ago, are starting to look like interesting prospects to make out with or possibly have sex with. And for no reason other than I'm love and sex starved. My imagination is going wild with men I would have never had thoughts about before.
Now I know what you're going to say: "Hey Pops, go out and get yourself some man beef today!". Well not so fast. I am intrigued by this unexpected effect and wonder what the possibilities are. I think I will hold off and suffer through this a few more months until I move to my new city in June, and then I'm going to unleash myself on the new menz. I think it'll make me appreciate them more and I'll have fun.
So my recommendation to anyone out there who is finding themselves being frustrated and/or picky: Get off the dating site completely and starve yourself of the opposite gender for a long while. You will begin to appreciate them more!
Getting off the dating site
Let me tell you what getting off the dating site has done for me.
I got off the dating site, like completely. I hide my profile, shut off my emails. No going there just to look or anything like that. Just left it.
Since then I have also not been dating. I don't have any exes that I still talk to. No male BFF's or friends. No FWB's, orbiters, no males to call on to help me move or even go to the movies with. No males whatsoever in my life. I point this out because I find that most women who say they are taking a break from dating still have men in their life.
At first it was fine. I hang out and talk to my girlfriends a lot and of course we talk about men, and I just felt like I was getting a break from the hassles of everything that comes with dating and I was happy to put it on the shelf.
It's been a year since my last relationship and a year since I've had sex even.
Now that I haven't talked to or had any males in my life for several months now, what I am noticing is the effect it's having on me. It's been a unexpected to say the least. What it's doing is making me feel starved. And making me super horny. Suddenly those guys who I might not have given the time of day a year ago, are starting to look like interesting prospects to make out with or possibly have sex with. And for no reason other than I'm love and sex starved. My imagination is going wild with men I would have never had thoughts about before.
Now I know what you're going to say: "Hey Pops, go out and get yourself some man beef today!". Well not so fast. I am intrigued by this unexpected effect and wonder what the possibilities are. I think I will hold off and suffer through this a few more months until I move to my new city in June, and then I'm going to unleash myself on the new menz. I think it'll make me appreciate them more and I'll have fun.
So my recommendation to anyone out there who is finding themselves being frustrated and/or picky: Get off the dating site completely and starve yourself of the opposite gender for a long while. You will begin to appreciate them more!