Agreed. You can increase attraction over time spent with a chick but you cannot create it initially. It is there or it is not.
I dont use "game". I use my fun, outgoing, spontaneous and DIRECT personality once there has been mutual attraction clearly established.
I am so direct with chicks that most betas would cringe if they heard me talking to a chick that was into me. Doesnt matter if its the first date, 5th date, etc.
If I WANT her, I GO AFTER HER by stating what I want and what my intentions are with her.. Period.
Last year I was out with a chick (first date) and we were totally vibing. Back and forth kino that intensified several drinks into the date. She asked me why I was single and I told her that I am hard to catch, but I can recognize something I want when I see it. She then asked me what I wanted with her and I looked her right in the eyes and said "I want to fvck you passionately and hard for the next few hours". Away we went.
Being direct in what your intentions are will FAR outweigh dancing around the subject of sleeping with a chick. I have never had one get offended, only had a few tell me that "we need more time around each other FIRST" (anti-sloot defense which is easy to overcome).
That being said, a woman will be drawn to your looks (initial attraction), addicted to your fun, outgoing personality and will melt like butter when you are direct in your close (when used properly and the right timing) and have already decided that you are outcome indifferent......you are going for what you want and will accept the outcome either way as it has no bearing to your value or self esteem if you dont pull it off.
Every girl that sat on my lap was a new opportunity to improve my conversation skills. I credit it to my success with first dates.
