Height doesn’t matter

[skinnyguy]

I see tons of short guys every day absolutely tearing it up with hot women. If anything, there are more short guys with hot women than tall guys.

I have now also fully accept that race doesn’t matter (took me a while lol).

 

[The Accountant]

Height doesn't matter. But relative height does. Some 98% of couples are where the man is taller than the woman. Ask any woman that's been with a shorter man how it was. Chances are they'll bring up issues of seeing him as a leader, dominant, etc.

 

[TheProspect]

Height matters.

99% of the time, your average 5'6 female is going to prefer a 6'4 guy over a 5'4, all else being equal. The same way your average 5'10 male would generally prefer a 5'4 female over a 6'4 female, all else being equal.

Women like to feel small and feminine, whereas guys like to feel dominant and masculine. It's just how we're wired.

That being said, your height is not an excuse for not getting laid. It is not an excuse for failing to find a girl worth her salt. It is not an excuse for lack of success in any aspect of your life. Does it factor in how a girl perceives you? Yes. Is it a deal breaker? For some girls, yes. But guess what, any girl who filters you out solely because of your height is doing you a favor. Just like if you are bald or are going bald and a girl filters you out because you don't have a full head of hair, she is doing you a favor. Just remember that.

I'm 5'9.5 and the girl I am currently seeing was in two previously long-term relationships where both guys were 6'4. Height isn't always a deal breaker, but it does influence the perceptions and decisions of others. No sense being ignorant of it just because it makes you feel better.

Your height matters... But your reaction to your height (how you carry and perceive yourself) matters more than the actual number on the tape measure.

 

[Spaz]

In most cases it does.

However smaller guys make up for it by being extremely cunning.

It does level the playing field out to some extent.

 

[zekko]

Of course height matters. Just like being good looking matters. It's not a deal breaker, though. As TheProspect said, it's not an excuse for failure. I'm 5'10" and I do all right, but if I could add a few inches I would.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Short guys are killing it, bald dudes are killing it, yet all I hear is whining on here

 

[djthiago1]

Asthetics ALWAYS matters.
But, height doesn't matter for every single woman alive, some are content with a guy that's just a teeny bit taller, others prefer shorter men, others like men in wheelchairs, others like murderers, there's someone for everyone.

 

[soulforge]

Some girls will rule you out, simply because of your height.. As long as you are taller than the chick you are trying to date, then you have a good chance!

I'm only 5ft7 but I am muscular, big build.. So chicks look past the height often, and focus more on the size of my arms and chest etc.

If you are short, then hitting the gym, gaining size and muscle will certainly help.

 

[MatureDJ]

At 5' 5" & 190# - and with the physique of powerlifter (in my earlier days, although I'm not fat) - I can just feel the way that attractive women that I talk to (or try to talk to) are categorically not interested that is the same way that I feel when fat chicks try to talk to me. Folks here who are 5' 10" saying that being them "short" is surmountable are speaking from a totally different frame of reference.

 

[Spaz]

At 5' 5" & 190# - and with the physique of powerlifter (in my earlier days, although I'm not fat) - I can just feel the way that attractive women that I talk to (or try to talk to) are categorically not interested that is the same way that I feel when fat chicks try to talk to me. Folks here who are 5' 10" saying that being them "short" is surmountable are speaking from a totally different frame of reference.

Care to enlightened us as 2 how you went abt seducing women?

Personally, I find those who r below average in height rather skillful in their verbal skills.

 

[The Duke]

Some of you that don't think height matters need to put on some elevator shoes and approach women then come back and let us know the results.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I like tall girls with long legs. Don't care if they're taller than me. I also like shorter girls...or "fun size", as I prefer to describe them.

Women are the same - general preference for taller men, but really it doesn't matter if you work out and dress well.

If a girl won't talk to me because I'm 6'0" and she's 6'1" in heels they're not worth my time anyway - just shows they're shallow. You can just sit back and laugh as she dates a whole load of thick, obnoxious 6'10" guys in a row purely because they're tall and they all treat her like s***!

 

[TheGambino]

Im short and I fvck dimes once a while

 

[derby1]

6'2...240lb Bald

Ploughing the fields my fellow DJ's.............. Ploughing the fields i am

 

[Trainwreck]

Yes it does

 

[soulforge]

I like tall girls with long legs. Don't care if they're taller than me. I also like shorter girls...or "fun size", as I prefer to describe them.

Women are the same - general preference for taller men, but really it doesn't matter if you work out and dress well.

If a girl won't talk to me because I'm 6'0" and she's 6'1" in heels they're not worth my time anyway - just shows they're shallow. You can just sit back and laugh as she dates a whole load of thick, obnoxious 6'10" guys in a row purely because they're tall and they all treat her like s***!

If a girl wants to date a dude over me, because he is taller, I give zero fuks..

Yeh he might be taller, but chances are he will have a average to skinny frame..

Weak little arms, flat chest, small little shoulders.. Where as I am built like a fuking beast!

My frame shows strength, power, dedication, even intimidating.

Where as he is.. Well just a little tall

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

If a girl wants to date a dude over me, because he is taller, I give zero fuks..

Yeh he might be taller, but chances are he will have a average to skinny frame..

Weak little arms, flat chest, small little shoulders.. Where as I am built like a fuking beast!

My frame shows strength, power, dedication, even intimidating.

Where as he is.. Well just a little tall

Hahaha exactly mate!

Obviously physique isn't everything (some girls like the skinny vibe or beer gut for reasons I don't get) but I do find it weird when a girl will date an obese 6'7" guy over a fit and mean 5'11" guy that would hand the tall guy his ass.

This is reminding me I need to get in the gym, I'm stuffing my face with chocolate as I type this.

 

[fanatic22]

Being tall is cool (I’m 6’3”) but getting jacked is really what made a gigantic difference for me. Lanky tall guys are not getting many looks. Even now though I’m rejected by 50%+ girls right out the gate, so dating is still a numbers game. Plus, even though it gets you a foot in the door, I messed up nearly every interaction with girls and rarely got laid because I was behaving like an AFC.

 

[soulforge]

Hahaha exactly mate!

Obviously physique isn't everything (some girls like the skinny vibe or beer gut for reasons I don't get) but I do find it weird when a girl will date an obese 6'7" guy over a fit and mean 5'11" guy that would hand the tall guy his ass.

This is reminding me I need to get in the gym, I'm stuffing my face with chocolate as I type this.

You have to make the best of what you have right?... For example we cannot do anything with our height, pretty much stuck with it.

However you can have beastly biceps, a serious chest, braod shoulders, you can look like a man who eats Iron for breakfast..

Always aim to improve, and make the best of what you have..

Now put that damn chocolate down, and get yours ass in the gym!!

 

[PeasantPlayer]

5'10 is not short lol