Arguments against Looks, MONEY and Status?

[RichardTheFrog]

That's a 9 @RichardTheFrog

Nobody posts pics because it's wierd to do so, but I doubt anybody on sosuave is fvcking something like that.

Okay.

And does she date movie stars? Who is her boyfriend? He might not be as impressive as we think.

Also, her looks would fade if you hang out with her for even an hour. Especially in a domestic situation.

And it's not like she's a million times hotter than these girls...

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[highSpeed]

I can’t think of exceptions. I think looks are the most important thing. Even if you lay women because of money, it’s just because they are trying to use you and it’s not necessarily due to attraction. Women you you lay cause you are hot are much better and more rewarding.

A guy with good looks will have the respect of all women and will always be treated seriously. James Franco was accused of sex assault and there were women saying “he can assault me any time!” Stark contrast to Harvey Weinstein who is much wealthier.

Looks aren't going to keep her interested long term. It may gain her interest in the moment but to keep laying these hot chicks, you've got to have the money and the power. That's the attraction and the lay generator long term.

 

[Macaframalama]

That's a 9 @RichardTheFrog

Nobody posts pics because it's wierd to do so, but I doubt anybody on sosuave is fvcking something like that.

I honestly think the pics of girls @RichardTheFrog posted are hotter. More my speed. Attractive is subjective, but what I find crazy, myself included, is why we would rate these chics 9's and 10's if all they're about is money and status. Looks sure, but it's just hard to respect anyone like that. I can honestly respect Richards approach more so. At least everything is on the up and up. I have no doubt Richard could slay the pick up game if he were to sort out a few issues either. Why do dudes rate these b!tches like this so highly? With the duck lips and the fake hair, fake tits, fake tan, make up a mile thick and probably a fake ass attitude to match.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I honestly think the pics of girls @RichardTheFrog posted are hotter. More my speed. Attractive is subjective, but what I find crazy, myself included, is why we would rate these chics 9's and 10's if all they're about is money and status. Looks sure, but it's just hard to respect anyone like that. I can honestly respect Richards approach more so. At least everything is on the up and up. I have no doubt Richard could slay the pick up game if he were to sort out a few issues either. Why do dudes rate these b!tches like this so highly? With the duck lips and the fake hair, fake tits, fake tan, make up a mile thick and probably a fake ass attitude to match.

Thanks.

What do you think my issues are? I think the fact that they want money is my issue. I can't fix that.

 

[user43770]

I honestly think the pics of girls @RichardTheFrog posted are hotter. More my speed. Attractive is subjective, but what I find crazy, myself included, is why we would rate these chics 9's and 10's if all they're about is money and status. Looks sure, but it's just hard to respect anyone like that. I can honestly respect Richards approach more so. At least everything is on the up and up. I have no doubt Richard could slay the pick up game if he were to sort out a few issues either. Why do dudes rate these b!tches like this so highly? With the duck lips and the fake hair, fake tits, fake tan, make up a mile thick and probably a fake ass attitude to match.

I did a quick google search. I was attempting to make a joke of the thread before Richard got involved.

 

[Macaframalama]

Thanks.

What do you think my issues are? I think the fact that they want money is my issue. I can't fix that.

I'm not an expert on human behavior bro. I read up on the subject for fun or entertainment though. I think you may be afraid of mass rejection, that the game entails. Rejection is a big part of it and if you can't learn to take it in stride, the ego can get beat up a little. I also think you may be jaded at the fact, that a significant portion of human beings today really are pieces of ****.

 

[Macaframalama]

I did a quick google search. I was attempting to make a joke of the thread before Richard got involved.

Urbanysts threads usually don't need any help. CTFU! But it got me thinking anyways.

 

[Urbanyst]

I dont know who these teenage bimbos are, that you and the peanut gallery here dub "top 5%," but i doubt they would interest me that much. I can get girls half my age, quite easily, but at some point i have to actually speak to them, and then the thrill quickly wears off.

The biggest problem on this web site is excuse-making. You are enabling the excuse-makers. It is easier to say my bank account is not big enough than it is to have the balls to go talk to a pretty girl. That is exactly the type of self-defeating mentality that would lead a guy to a how to get girls web site, where he is told that all women suck and it is pointless to even try. And that is self-improvement?

I just call it like I see it. There are more than enough blue pillers like @BeExcellent and others who will tell you ways you can "believe" your way to success and use voodoo positive thinking to guarantee a positive outcome. If that horse sh*t works for you, have at it and put me on ignore lol.

Anyone is free to disagree with me. But to consistently attract HOT women in urban areas (where I live) it takes Looks, MONEY or Status to have a shot in 99.9% of cases if not 100% of cases. That's my reality and I haven't seen strong evidence to the contrary.

 

[Urbanyst]

You're isolated from reality then, in my opinion

Bro.. either explain how you are coming to these conclusions or go away lol.

These vague blanket statements are childish and trollish.

 

[FairShake]

I don't have looks or money and my status is limited to a few bars in Delaware County PA but I've banged dozens of 7s and maybe a few 7.99s just by making them laugh and not f-ing up.

 

[Urbanyst]

so basically your rehashing what i said in your words.

but it doesnt change the fact that social charisma is far, FAR more valuable.

eliot rodger had everything any guy like you claims about needing to get hot women. money looks and status. and he did what he did cause he was a SOCIAL RETARD which is cryptonite for attracting any women.

the only thing we agree on,is that having looks money and status definitely widens your selection pool. but thats it

the bum example is poor because you are going to the absolute extreme to try and prove your flimsy argument.

most guys ARE NOT hideous broke bums. so how the fvck does it make sense to draw that comparison? lmao youre an idiot

like i repeatedly say. MEN CARE ABOUT CONTENT WOMEN CARE ABOUT CONTEXT.

men care about HAVING that ferrari. that long bank statement, those six packs, that fancy job title

women care about CONTEXT.

"wow this guy is something else, he may be broke but with his talents and social skills i bet he could get anywhere in life" now compound this fact with MULTIPLE WOMEN feeling this way about him and youve got yourself A LADY SLAYER

youre argument is just another example of BINARY THINKING and dealing in ABSOLUTES that men that are incapable of abstract thinking are plagued by

try again though

Umm.. social power is a form of STATUS dude.

LOL.

 

[Urbanyst]

if your a fun guy in a club, you can get ONS.

I'm taking about being able to consistently f*ck HOT women.

Most of you guys are talking about getting action in general and random bouts of LUCK. Give me a break lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

I already did, why so complicated?

You did not.

Pure opinion does not count as an explanation for something you claim to be factual.

 

[BeExcellent]

I just call it like I see it. There are more than enough blue pillers like @BeExcellent and others who will tell you ways you can "believe" your way to success and use voodoo positive thinking to guarantee a positive outcome. If that horse sh*t works for you, have at it and put me on ignore lol.

Anyone is free to disagree with me. But to consistently attract HOT women in urban areas (where I live) it takes Looks, MONEY or Status to have a shot in 99.9% of cases if not 100% of cases. That's my reality and I haven't seen strong evidence to the contrary.

LMAO. I am anything but "blue pill." Nuanced? Yes. But Pollyanna blue pill? You gotta be kidding me. As a chick I have all the ingredients, looks/fitness, money, and status. Men primarily focus on looks/fitness, which should not surprise anyone. But I find that the money and status part of the equation becomes important as I get to know someone. Men like me more and more as they come to understand that not only am I physically appealing, but I have my act together, I am not looking for a free ride from them, and that I am intelligent, knowledgeable, and sophisticated. I am a good reflection on the man I am with. Therefore I am sought after, and by high value men in my preferred age range (40-55) who have looks/money/status themselves. These men don't often find a woman like me, so they tend to want to keep me around.

In order to manifest success you must first have belief, backed by relentless action.

I am going to shamelessly promote the "Success Starts Between Your Ears" thread over in the Wealth and Finance Forum.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/success-starts-between-your-ears.237089/

Read it. You'll find book recommendations as well as how I manifested belief into action and became successful. It's not voodoo at all. But to tell you the truth if people want to think it's voodoo, that's fine with me because it means people who think it's voodoo will never become my competition for material success. In other words, Cool. More opportunity for me.

As I say over in that thread, I'm a chick. If I can do it, surely you men can. Cheers.

 

[BeExcellent]

The only other thing I'll add is that Looks/Money/Status is the universal formula for attraction, but it isn't a complete catch all. You have to meet a woman's needs, whatever those happen to be. For some women that might be comfort or sex appeal, which is a little different than L/M/S, etc. If a woman has her own money, money may not be as high on her needs list as looks or status. She might want someone who has autonomy (freedom) from the 9 to 5 grind.

Men like @Bible_Belt do well with women because they are able to accurately identify and satisfy the needs of the women they encounter. Bible is an interesting guy in a way because he's obviously intelligent but has opted out of the rat race rather than be a slave to it. For certain women that has an appeal and an intrigue. Bible is also fit, has an appearance that has wide appeal, and is both masculine and overtly sexual, and those are things that appeal to women, particularly someone like his recent (current?) married lover who presumably did not need money and may not have needed status. He met whatever her other needs were and everybody's happy.

Personality/social calibration is also important, and that gets largely overlooked here compared to L/M/S. A total socially inept person who has L/M/S is going to struggle with women. Think engineers and Silicon Valley wonks. They might be rich, handsome, and have a plumb position in a company or be running their own start-up and driving a Tesla or a Maserati, but if they have no social acumen they are going to have trouble with women.

 

[Urbanyst]

Personality/social calibration is also important, and that gets largely overlooked here compared to L/M/S. A total socially inept person who has L/M/S is going to struggle with women. Think engineers and Silicon Valley wonks. They might be rich, handsome, and have a plumb position in a company or be running their own start-up, but if they have no social acumen they are going to have trouble with women.

There is no such thing as a high status socially inept person. Part of having status is social status. Hello! lol.

I guess we agree then. You need looks, MONEY and status to pay. Other qualities will up your numbers or make people stay with you longer. But if you don't have any of the big three you are screwed regardless of how much "game" you have. There is no way around it.

What? Lol

What?

LOL

 

[BeExcellent]

There is no such thing as a high status socially inept person.

There are too. I know a retired NBA player. He's completely socially awkward. He has trouble with women because of that awkwardness. He's probably a 7 in looks, trim, very tall (6'9") and is successful in healthcare sales now. Goes to NBA games regularly, etc. White guy.

I see lots of successful dorks who have looks/money/status. Many have no game, and therefore are either way too clingy or too awkward.

Your statement is laughable. Get into the millionaire echelons and what I'm saying will be shockingly obvious.

 

[Urbanyst]

There are too. I know a retired NBA player. He's completely socially awkward. He has trouble with women because of that awkwardness. He's probably a 7 in looks, trim, very tall (6'9") and is successful in healthcare sales now. Goes to NBA games regularly, etc. White guy.

I see lots of successful dorks who have looks/money/status. Many have no game, and therefore are either way too clingy or too awkward.

Your statement is laughable. Get into the millionaire echelons and what I'm saying will be shockingly obvious.

You're smarter than this BeExcellent.

His status obviously comes from LOOKS and MONEY.

When you don't have those two.. you need social status.. which this guy would not have without his looks and MONEY.

Looks, MONEY and status gets you the audition not the part. But if you don't have any of those you are dead in the water.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Personality/social calibration is also important, and that gets largely overlooked here compared to L/M/S. A total socially inept person who has L/M/S is going to struggle with women.

Did you read the Aziz Ansari date story? https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355

I don't think the guy is a rapist, but he is so bad with women that he comes off that way. I'm sure his date wanted to have sex with him, at least at first, but he even screwed that up. Everything he does in her story makes me cringe.

And thank you for the kind words.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

LMAO. I am anything but "blue pill." Nuanced? Yes. But Pollyanna blue pill? You gotta be kidding me. As a chick I have all the ingredients, looks/fitness, money, and status. Men primarily focus on looks/fitness, which should not surprise anyone. But I find that the money and status part of the equation becomes important as I get to know someone. Men like me more and more as they come to understand that not only am I physically appealing, but I have my act together, I am not looking for a free ride from them, and that I am intelligent, knowledgeable, and sophisticated. I am a good reflection on the man I am with. Therefore I am sought after, and by high value men in my preferred age range (40-55) who have looks/money/status themselves. These men don't often find a woman like me, so they tend to want to keep me around.

In order to manifest success you must first have belief, backed by relentless action.

I am going to shamelessly promote the "Success Starts Between Your Ears" thread over in the Wealth and Finance Forum.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/success-starts-between-your-ears.237089/

Read it. You'll find book recommendations as well as how I manifested belief into action and became successful. It's not voodoo at all. But to tell you the truth if people want to think it's voodoo, that's fine with me because it means people who think it's voodoo will never become my competition for material success. In other words, Cool. More opportunity for me.

As I say over in that thread, I'm a chick. If I can do it, surely you men can. Cheers.

HAHAHAHA.

She thinks she has looks. She's like a 4/10.

Status? What exactly is your "status?" The "coolest" girl on SoSuave.net?

Nobody should listen to her EVER.

She thinks men should be sent off to die in wars because she thinks they are disposable.