Yes, see I believe the Moderating Team of Sosuave is just outdated. As I said in another thread, I believe we are in a transitional period in the dating market, we are moving from the traditional 2 parent family structure......to "something else that's not yet identified".
It's the Wild Wild West. Women have been doing the Wild Wild West since the 1970's and men are just starting to do it with the MGTOW Movement.
As a result, people like POOK's advice is outdated. When Pook was writing that material, it was literally during the very final days of the "traditional structure". Now that Social Media, Online Dating, and Texting are here........we are in a complete WILD WILD WEST with no rules, no structures, no commitment, just everybody do whatever they want.
This is why the LTR Market is in a Depression and the STR Market is BOOMING. People like yourself
@bigneil,
@Urbanyst,
@deesade, Da Dynamically, and Poon King (along with others) fundamentally KNOW that and preach this. But Sosuave's Moderating Team along with some of the people who kiss up to them, like some of the CHICKS on this board, are trying to PUSH us out of here. Notice everybody I just listed is or has been Banned other than
@Urbanyst and TRUST ME, they are working overtime to get him banned, just hasn't happened yet. I know
@sazc for example, has sent at least 7 messages to ban him by now.
They are trying to hold onto a dying market. The LTR market is dead. It's over. Marriage is dead, it's over. For our Generation, the best option until you DIE will be to spin plates. Of course you can do an LTR and/or get Married, but the chances of you being screwed are almost a certainty, it's not IF you will be screwed but WHEN and by how much.