For whatever reason, that link wouldn't load on my phone. But i strongly agree with the sentiment.
One thing that I've found extremely useful in keeping frame is the realization that women can't get sex whenever they want.
When a woman has connected to me, and upon not taking on an exclusivity agreement, women find it extremely difficult to pull away and sleep with anyone else.
This is because a woman's game is based on disqualifying men from sex and intimacy (looking for reasons not to fvck). Whilst men qualify for it. This actually gives us hand in a relationship that a lot of guys don't capitalize on.
When a woman starts dating others, or bringing up orbiters, call their bluff. Nothing happens usually.
Women seem to exist in self-imposed scarcity, with loads of options that they don't really want and don't turn them on or excite them. Kind of like being a man surrounded by fat women wanting to take you out.
This post by
@deesade is another good example of the major divide on the forum......between one side of guys believing the LTR market is complete TRASH and one side believing that if you become some sort of TOP TIER guy then you can mitigate risks/nuisances to find Unicorns in the LTR market.
You see the guys who believe in the TOP TIER guy theory, believe that if they bring some sort of characteristic, quality, or value to the table......
the woman in particular will MORPH into some caricature of a traditional, non-liberated woman from 1943. These characteristics, qualities, etc., could include any or multiple of the following: having really great looks, really great social skills, really good internal/external game, being really GOOD in bed (like
@deesade just said), having a lot of power/social proof (like
@BeExcellent promotes), etc.
They believe that if a guy just IMPROVES himself within the particular area(s), then all of his LTR issues, challenges, etc. will vanish and the woman will morph back into a non-liberated woman that is somehow LOCKED into this pseudo "prison" where only the guy has the KEY to her freedom.
This is
bullshyt. Complete
bullshyt.
Women are liberated. Feminism happened. Gynocentrism is real. There is no going back to 1943. There's nothing you can do/say, there's no way you can fvck her, there's no amount of NET WORTH you can have, there's no amount of FAME/POPULARITY you can have, there's no amount of social power you can have, there's no amount of good looks you can have......to MORPH a woman of today's market BACK into a woman of the 1943 market.
Women do not need men anymore, every man is nothing but a form of convenience and entertainment for a woman today. She can leave you at any time, for any reason, or no reason. Every woman is a LEASE agreement today and the moment you guys realize that......the moment you will drop this notion that you have any control whatsoever over keeping a woman "in line".
But notwithstanding, this does not mean you don't continue to improve yourself. Improving yourself is going to give you the direct benefits from the activity (for example, working out makes you more healthy with more life energy/focus) but it will also benefit you "women wise" in the SHORT TERM DATING relationship market. Today, when it comes to women, your only focus should be on succeeding in the Short Term Dating market, as that's the ONLY thing you can control when it comes to women. You have no control, whatsoever, over her being an LTR partner......that is something that is completely and utterly dictated by the woman's own "traditional" (1943) personal values, morals, and character choices which are missing in 90% plus of women today due to the liberation/feminism/gynocentrism process.