it's almost impossible to screw up with a girl unless you never really had a shot.

[BeExcellent]

be wary that you're not screening for married men that need a little side action lol. I don't know about other guys, but when I don't have time to text a girl, it's because I'm texting a different girl

Every once in while I'll get a married man sniffing around. And sometimes, they won't disclose that they are married - they will try instead to play it cool. But those type guys want to escalate to sex quickly and are easily weeded out the same way as for the pump & dump dudes. Once I ran into such a man at an event with his wife (a lovely woman). I made a point to say hello, meet her, and have a little small talk with them as a couple. The guy never bothered me again after that.

 

[derby1]

but I would question ever saying this. "Lover" and "My" could feel like you were trying affix a label

I wouldnt never text slob on my nob but thats fair enough we both got laid, my point was she was never happy whatever i texted fumed at me hinting friends with benefits as she wanted more but then when i said i just treat my woman with courtesy she balked at that aswell, i should have put "TREAT MY WOMEN"..,.she would have had a meltdown.... WOMEN??

 

[Urbanyst]

1. Went impromptu to Las Vegas because a girlfriend was there for a business conference and had a double room. So myself and two other friends, went, had dinner at my very old friend's venue, and caught up with our mutual friend who was there on business. We missed the shooting by a week.

2. Went to a gallery opening for an artist friend of mine in Southern CA. The artist and the gallery owners are friends of mine. After the event about 20 of us went out for late dinner and drinks. Stayed at my friends home and hung out with their kids in the pool, which has a 180 degree view of the Pacific. Next evening hung out with their family.

Did movies a couple of times and dinner out a number of times, and attended my advanced salsa class several times, as well. I go to class and go dancing at least once a week when I am at my secondary residence. I've danced ballroom. Latin and country for many years. It's social, its fun and its great exercise so I do that with some frequency.

Later this month I've been invited to go see Kid Rock on a date. I've been invited to come to Maui if I choose to go (really I don't have time to do that in the near term.) It doesn't matter what I do or don't do. I answer because I'm happy to share. I'm happy to share because there ARE people who do well, have full lives and are enjoying the journey. Some of y'all need to get out and live your lives rather than dissing me for living mine.

Some of y'all ask questions with the specific intent of turning things around and twisting things. Think bigger and get over yourselves. When people PM me with personal problems here I try and give good advice and feedback. I don't BS and I don't sugarcoat and I'm proud of who I am and what I've acccomplished, failures, faults and all. If you don't believe what I say, if you think I am something other than what I represent, so what. Read my posts here. They are highly consistent. That's because they are the truth. Nobody could make this stuff up and keep it all straight for 2 years running.

But if y'all need to go poking around at me, go right ahead. Clearly its more entertaining that whatever else you have going on.

Cheers!

LOL.

You sound boring as sh*t. Movies? Salsa? How interesting. How basic.

I asked you what FUN things you did in the last month. That means FUN things you did with your body and mind. NOT "being seen" in cool places lol.

You went to f*cking Vegas and all you did was have dinner and talk business? You call that fun?

You are a very BORING, dry and stiff old woman. And you want a 1% man? In your dreams lol. My 80 year old grandmother is more fun than you. When is the last time you even had a good laugh?

Claire Underwood wannabe lol.

 

[devilkingx2]

You went to f*cking Vegas and all you did was have dinner and talk business? You call that fun?

I assumed she did what everyone else does at vegas but she didn't want to ruin her persona by saying that she had 5 Jägerbombs and did lines of coke off of magic mike's abs

you know, what happens in vegas stays in vegas

 

[Urbanyst]

I assumed she did what everyone else does at vegas but she didn't want to ruin her persona by saying that she had 5 Jägerbombs and did lines of coke off of magic mike's abs

you know, what happens in vegas stays in vegas

Its the flippin' INTERNET. Who cares about "persona"?

I'll tell you who cares: FRAUDS.

 

[BeExcellent]

LOL.

You sound boring as sh*t. Movies? Salsa? How interesting. How basic.

I asked you what FUN things you did in the last month. That means FUN things you did with your body and mind. NOT "being seen" in cool places lol.

You went to f*cking Vegas and all you did was have dinner and talk business? You call that fun?

You are a very BORING, dry and stiff old woman. And you want a 1% man? In your dreams lol. My 80 year old grandmother is more fun than you. When is the last time you even had a good laugh?

Claire Underwood wannabe lol.

To quote PoonKing: Cry MORE!

I assumed she did what everyone else does at vegas but she didn't want to ruin her persona by saying that she had 5 Jägerbombs and did lines of coke off of magic mike's abs

you know, what happens in vegas stays in vegas

Vegas is funny to me. It's like Spring Break for adults 24/7/365. When you've been in the nightlife business you've seen it all. My old friend is still in the nightlife business and runs a 25M venue as GM. We people watch and enjoy one anothers company. It's always entertaining to observe people who suddenly feel they have carte blanche to get crazy or whatever the cliche happens to be.

One of my friends is booked to spend New Years in Vegas already. I can understand. He's recently divorced from a stodgy woman who never had sex with him and he wants to P-A-R-T-Y. I get it. I told him I would not really want to be there at all (and my buddy who runs the venue *hates* New Years in Vegas.) Why? It's full of idiot amateurs who never drink, never go out, get messed up to the point of sickness or passing out, want to fight, get arrested or whatever else and THAT is boring as well as stupid. I never go out New Years and I never go out on Valentine's Day and haven't for years and years (even while married). Why would you pay 4-6 times what things normally cost, pay an extra surcharge to get it everywhere, deal with crowds of stupid drunk idiots everywhere you go? Even if you can easily afford it as he can...Yawn. I'd rather go on a mundane Tuesday when its much more enjoyable, but then again I don't value the party lifestyle. I've seen it, catered to it as an establishment, I understand it but I'm over it. I *used* to be cool. And frankly I'm OK with that.

 

[Urbanyst]

To quote PoonKing: Cry MORE!

You're probably sleeping with Poon King right now while pretending to be this "high class" Claire Underwood stiff.

Saying "men text you way too much" and you "don't have the TIME to respond" while you write essays, novels and textbooks DAILY on SoSuave and pulverize the keyboard on your computer lol.

Always a pleasure BeExcellent. I love exposing fraud.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yet you're not "too busy" to write novel replies to men you aren't dating on SS. And daily no less.

Good one!

 

[Skyline]

A truly interested woman will move mountains to see you and put up with useless conversations via texting.

I agree that you can basically do anything while a woman is in that state.

 

[devilkingx2]

To quote PoonKing: Cry MORE!

She knoweth the scripture!

Why? It's full of idiot amateurs who never drink, never go out, get messed up to the point of sickness or passing out, want to fight, get arrested or whatever else and THAT is boring as well as stupid. I never go out New Years and I never go out on Valentine's Day and haven't for years and years (even while married). Why would you pay 4-6 times what things normally cost, pay an extra surcharge to get it everywhere, deal with crowds of stupid drunk idiots everywhere you go? Even if you can easily afford it as he can...Yawn. I'd rather go on a mundane Tuesday when its much more enjoyable, but then again I don't value the party lifestyle. I've seen it, catered to it as an establishment, I understand it but I'm over it. I *used* to be cool. And frankly I'm OK with that.

depends on how much you like people. loads of people don't like other people, thus the crowd that hates multiplayer games, social media, etc. but if you do like other people, then going out on the most popular nights is the most fun.

plus special events like costume parties for halloween and watching the ball drop on new years, you can't do stuff like that or see certain party themes every day

it could also be scheduling, everyone is free to get wasted on new year's, but most can't party hard on a tuesday

and also stuff like, only a seasoned alcoholic would be in a bar on a random weekday getting drunk, only depressed people and middle aged drunks will be there