Don't compromise with women

[beforeimgone]

Compromise is defined as an agreement or a settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions







Women and men live in two different worlds. They also handle conflicts and other every day situations differently. From birth, most men are taught that they must work for any and everything. They're taught their parents morals and they're taught their parents values. Not to mention that some men go on to learn game in order to further improve themselves. On the other hand, women are showered with praise and treated as if they're gold just by being alive. For the most part, the life that most men are led to live results in a solid character that's grounded in reality. They aren't a reflection of the world, but a product of it. Most women's perception of themselves are based on the amount of attention they get. Their character is rarely taken into consideration. They aren't afforded the opportunity to improve their character, because in most cases it doesn't matter.





Since most women haven't taken the time to improve or strengthen their character, they're forever stuck in a weak place. Their self worth is based off of the amount of attention that they receive and must constantly be inflated in order to maintain that sense of being someone. To put it simply, most women have very little self worth. They are insecure.





Being insecure, you believe that you aren't worth much.





Say for instance you and your ltr get into an argument. For the sake of peace, you let her 'win.' (Also, never argue with a woman) After the argument, she's walking around with an air of superiority. You've inflated her ego and she feels as if she is better than you for the time being. Say for instance you and your ltr have different tastes for what you want to eat tonight. She is really adamant about chicken and you're deadset on beef. Eventually, you suggest eating both chicken and beef. She accepts, but still walks around with an air of superiority for a few days. What went wrong? You didn't help the situation. You didn't come to a mutual agreement between two healthy adults that were having a minor disagreement. You allowed a weak person to show that they're better than you.





You should never compromise with an insecure person because they don't care about the conversation at hand. They're deriving satisfaction from the fact that you're even talking to them. Anything in addition to the conversation (getting you to debate with them) is just icing on the insecure cake. That's why you should never argue with women and that's why you should never compromise, but how do you stop the endless attempts at goading you? Stonewall her.





Stonewalling is a delay or block (a request, process, or person) by refusing to answer questions or by giving evasive replies. If you say you want beef and she wants chicken, don't get angry. Stonewall her. Repeat 'beef' over and over until she stops talking. The effect will be hilarious and you will get the beef. If she is challenging your beliefs for no reason other than to goad you, stonewall her. Pick a phrase and say it over and over again until she shuts up. Eventually she will (sooner than you may think) and don't bother to hide your enjoyment.




This may seem a bit extreme, but when you're dealing with an insecure person, words don't matter. Having a strong person (alpha) speak to them brings them a huge amount of satisfaction regardless of what you may believe. Also, pay attention to the signs that she is legitimately trying to discuss something. This will be very rare so don't use this as an excuse to be a pvssy.


https://icecoldtruths.blogspot.com/2017/09/why-you-should-never-compromise-with.html

Stay Icy.

 

[TheGambino]

I like your posts playboy keep it going. Learnig everyday. Make sure You focus on yourself, education, money, investments, carreer. Way more important then game.

 

[wifehunter]

sh!ts too complicated.

 

[beforeimgone]

I like your posts playboy keep it going. Learnig everyday. Make sure You focus on yourself, education, money, investments, carreer. Way more important then game.

Thanks bra and yea, money is the primary focus. I just enjoy winning the game. I know you do too

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I think that this was a horrible example. I get what you're saying but make it more realistic. Who the hell argues and feels superior because they got to eat chicken instead of beef? Lololololololol

 

[TheGambino]

Thanks bra and yea, money is the primary focus. I just enjoy winning the game. I know you do too

You cant always win bro.. but yeah Im a winner

 

[marmel75]

Unless you plan to never have an LTR, at some point compromise is inevitable. Some things should definitely NOT be compromisable however and that is where a lot of guys get into trouble.

 

[Urbanyst]

Here's a simple attraction tool which is also amusing: next time a date or plate is giving you her impressions on life that offend your intelligence, simply challenge her a little by asking "why?". Or "how did you come to that conclusion?". Then allow the backwards rationalization to just hang out there unconvincingly, not making an effort to validate or save her on it.

One of the easiest ways to enrage a woman is to ask her "why?". Usually because the honest answer is pretty f*cked up.

"I want a large wedding" - Why?
"I want a guy with a good career" - Why?
"I don't like gender roles" - Why?
"Guys should pay for the first date" - Why?
"I want a large family" - Why?
"I deserve to be treated like a lady" - Why?

 

[Fruitbat]

One of the easiest ways to enrage a woman is to ask her "why?". Usually because the honest answer is pretty f*cked up.

"I want a large wedding" - Why?
"I want a guy with a good career" - Why?
"I don't like gender roles" - Why?
"Guys should pay for the first date" - Why?
"I want a large family" - Why?
"I deserve to be treated like a lady" - Why?

Not just women.

If you're trying to get anyone to consider anything this question is dynamite.

Understanding is the key to everything.

 

[RangerMIke]

Here's a simple attraction tool which is also amusing: next time a date or plate is giving you her impressions on life that offend your intelligence, simply challenge her a little by asking "why?". Or "how did you come to that conclusion?". Then allow the backwards rationalization to just hang out there unconvincingly, not making an effort to validate or save her on it.

Yep... using the Socratic method is actually the ONLY way to argue with women, because in reality they argue with themselves. But you can not do this all the time otherwise you just come off as a douche. But just keep asking clarifying questions, soon if her position is stupid, she will talk herself out of it and then she is happy because she's just been talking and you have been listen, and all is right in the female mind.... then you fvck her.

 

[guru1000]

Not doing so leads to a bit of a frame crush. Leads to me qualifying her, and a good display of boundaries on my part.

Did somebody say boundaries

 

[Trump]

Since most women haven't taken the time to improve or strengthen their character, they're forever stuck in a weak place. Their self worth is based off of the amount of attention that they receive and must constantly be inflated in order to maintain that sense of being someone. To put it simply, most women have very little self worth. They are insecure.

What is with all this "attractive women are insecure?" I've seen them manipulate with extreme confidence, know exactly exactly what they are doing to get what they want and laugh at the same time while getting rich.

They know what they are doing better than you can imagine. We just don't want to believe it.

 

[BeExcellent]

I have to agree with you @Trump. Men who can't wrap their brains around that concept put themselves at an enormous disadvantage that at its core is rooted in a false belief system.

I have taken advantage of this belief system repeatedly in business. It's actually fun to be grossly underestimated as a beautiful woman...and the facial expressions are laugh out loud priceless when the gentlemen on the other side realize they've been out matched. All as a result of their own limiting belief system...which I see no reason to discourage

Remember this: the underestimated party always has more power than they get credit for. It's a delightful advantage to have in business and in life.

Smart women know they are not strong. Therefore they must be shrewd.

 

[beforeimgone]

What is with all this "attractive women are insecure?" I've seen them manipulate with extreme confidence, know exactly exactly what they are doing to get what they want and laugh at the same time while getting rich.

They know what they are doing better than you can imagine. We just don't want to believe it.

When I speak about men I mean high value men. When I speak about women I mean the hottest of the hot.

The average woman receives a lot of attention, but still has a very small grasp on reality. Which is why they're able to tell in some cases when they're about to be pumped and dumped.

The hottest women receive endless attention and constant validation from everyone including other women. Their hamster is out of control and sense of reality is forever warped. When a male comes along that finds her annoying and decides he doesn't want to deal with her, she flips her shvt. She becomes a wreck and in extreme cases she crashes into a temporary depression. If said male walks back into her life, she feels awesome. Her confidence is temporarily restored. Why Temporarily? Because her confidence is determined by how the world reacts to her.

Also, hot women treat betas and lesser men like crap while seemingly enjoying it because "they don't mind. Why else would they tolerate it?"

Women are insecure but the hottest women are the most insecure because meeting a strong male and losing him will shake them to their core. Simply because most people tolerate.

Hit on super hot women and put yourself in a position to ignore them if you want to see it for yourself

 

[guru1000]

Although what BE states is true, specifically the "machinations of vulnerability" in hot women, I find that 9s, 10s, and models to be the most insecure women in the world. And rightfully so. These women are entirely validated by the outside solely on their looks. One soft rejection, a neg from a high-value guy, a lack of interest--and their heads are spinning to Kingdom Come.

LTRs with these type of women are extremely difficult because of their insecurity, and their ensuing interpretation attributing everything to their looks.

A lack of attention = They look bad that day
A snide remark = They look bad that day
A rejection to sex = They look bad that day
No compliment = They look bad that day
A glance at a hot girl = They look bad that day
Lack of fawning= They look bad that day
etc.

These girls are LTR nightmares to be quite honest--which explains why I'm single Thank the lord.

Insecurity is not to be confused with lack of ego. These women have huge egos for sure (incited by constant outside validation), but concomitantly are extremely insecure.

 

[Trump]

The hottest women receive endless attention and constant validation from everyone including other women. Their hamster is out of control and sense of reality is forever warped.

Assumption. Who said her hamster is out of control and sense of reality is warped?

The hottest woman is a brilliant woman who uses her sexuality and sex to get what she wants. Look at Hollywood, the hottest woman takes off her clothes in a movie, man falls in love, she has sex with the man, she manipulates the man's emotions, and becomes a major star where the whole world wants a piece of her. All while she is getting rich and laughing behind scenes.

Her focus, determination, sense of reality, and will is better than anyone.

When a male comes along that finds her annoying and decides he doesn't want to deal with her, she flips her shvt. She becomes a wreck and in extreme cases she crashes into a temporary depression. If said male walks back into her life, she feels awesome. Her confidence is temporarily restored. Why Temporarily? Because her confidence is determined by how the world reacts to her.

Assumption. Who said the man doesn't want to deal with her?

Billionaires move mountains to sleep with a young good looking daughter of a farmer. And then suddenly this high value man can do whatever he wants and the good looking girl will go crazy? Are you kidding? You guys are not living in the real world.

The high value man won't want anyone to talk to the beautiful woman because he is so in love with her.

Also, hot women treat betas and lesser men like crap while seemingly enjoying it because "they don't mind. Why else would they tolerate it?"

Of course they mind. But the sex usually supersedes any put downs.

Women are insecure but the hottest women are the most insecure because meeting a strong male and losing him will shake them to their core. Simply because most people tolerate.

I've seen the hottest actresses lose high high value men and not care.

Hit on super hot women and put yourself in a position to ignore them if you want to see it for yourself

I am pretty high value. I've hit on them. Then I've ignored them. They wrote me a thank you letter.

 

[beforeimgone]

Assumption. Who said her hamster is out of control and sense of reality is warped?

The hottest woman is a brilliant woman who uses her sexuality and sex to get what she wants. Look at Hollywood, the hottest woman takes off her clothes in a movie, man falls in love, she has sex with the man, she manipulates the man's emotions, and becomes a major star where the whole world wants a piece of her. All while she is getting rich and laughing behind scenes.

Her focus, determination, sense of reality, and will is better than anyone.

Brilliant woman? Are you trolling. I don't think you're actually looking for clarity

Assumption. Who said the man doesn't want to deal with her?

Billionaires move mountains to sleep with a young good looking daughter of a farmer. And then suddenly this high value man can do whatever he wants and the good looking girl will go crazy? Are you kidding? You guys are not living in the real world.

The high value man won't want anyone to talk to the beautiful woman because he is so in love with her.



Of course they mind. But the sex usually supersedes any put downs.

You assume that billionaires are high value. Sure they have a better chance but a pvssy is a pvssy no matter how much money he has. Oneitis doesn't play favorites.

Your skepticism shows that You live in a different reality than I do. Elevate yourself. That's what this post was meant to help you do.

I've seen the hottest actresses lose high high value men and not care.

I suspect that you don't understand what a high value male is.

I am pretty high value. I've hit on them. Then I've ignored them. They wrote me a thank you letter.

Troll confirmed

 

[BeExcellent]

I will agree that exceptionally beautiful people are often (but not always) neurotic. This was certainly and sadly true of the professional male model I dated prior to dating my ex husband.

To be honest I was stunned at his level of insecurity because I had been in LTRs before him with better looking men who were not at all insecure. So I found that surprising at the time.

However to paint ALL extremely hot women in this group is an error.

Basically what I'm hearing guru say for example, is that most really hot women are too one dimensional (bringing looks above all else) and too neurotic to be worth long term investment. That I can believe. Most. Not ALL.

Remember, you are going to become accustomed to her looks, no matter what she looks like. But her constant need for external validation is going to wear on you after a while because that need never goes away if a person is neurotic.

What I've learned is that a hot woman who is emotionally stable and internally validated is really quite rare. And extremely sought after. These are women whose value goes up as you get to know them because they have more than looks to bring to the table. They actually have grace, humility, appreciation and authenticity to offer. They have character.

There ARE beautiful women out there who have character. These are the women who men really covet. Don't have such limiting broad brush beliefs that you miss a woman like this. They don't grow on trees.

 

[beforeimgone]

I will agree that exceptionally beautiful people are often (but not always) neurotic. This was certainly and sadly true of the professional male model I dated prior to dating my ex husband.

To be honest I was stunned at his level of insecurity because I had been in LTRs before him with better looking men who were not at all insecure. So I found that surprising at the time.

However to paint ALL extremely hot women in this group is an error.

Basically what I'm hearing guru say for example, is that most really hot women are too one dimensional (bringing looks above all else) and too neurotic to be worth long term investment. That I can believe. Most. Not ALL.

Remember, you are going to become accustomed to her looks, no matter what she looks like. But her constant need for external validation is going to wear on you after a while because that need never goes away if a person is neurotic.

What I've learned is that a hot woman who is emotionally stable and internally validated is really quite rare. And extremely sought after. These are women whose value goes up as you get to know them because they have more than looks to bring to the table. They actually have grace, humility, appreciation and authenticity to offer. They have character.

There ARE beautiful women out there who have character. These are the women who men really covet. Don't have such limiting broad brush beliefs that you miss a woman like this. They don't grow on trees.

Why are you defending women so vehemently? Based off your response, you appear to think you're the type of woman that you're defending - a hot woman that's "internally validated."

If you're a hot woman let's see some pics. I could be wrong, maybe you're just trolling like trump.

 

[BeExcellent]

Why are you defending women so vehemently? Based off your response, you appear to think you're the type of woman that you're defending - a hot woman that's "internally validated."

If you're a hot woman let's see some pics. I could be wrong, maybe you're just trolling like trump.

I'm exactly the sort of chick I'm talking about, but I'm not the only one. My pic?

See avatar.