Bingo.
She baked and cooked?!???My ex-wife used reverse psychology for "attraction". She got insecure that if I got too ripped, she would lose attraction toward me. "I don't like big muscles on a guy". When I looked at a photo album of an ex that was ripped she had oneitis over the guy after he pumped and dumped her a few times. She went back to him every single time hoping he would be exclusive with her. Lol.
Funny, I was more motivated to exercise hard whenever she traveled for work (typically 2-4 weeks). I worked out like a disciplined ninja. It was funny to watch her reaction when she got back and I was in a little better shape. Meanwhile, she let herself go.
She actually tried to scoop off food from her plate onto mine often because I portion controlled to maintain weight. Oh, and not to mention baking sweets often and inviting friends over often for parties with drinks, big BBQ, and desserts.
You allowed it. That selfishness likely came out in many other ways that you could've discern in a few months.
She did some things the first year after that it was like she could not pull it off anymore.
I did it too. For a bit I compomised on the cooking. But it taught me that traditional feminine roles is important. They should do it because they value their man.
I have no problem grilling all the time or cooking if im home early and She's late, but it came to the point where all she wanted wss to be taken out to dinner constantly and never give in return.
I don't mind cooking some too. But some of em are so lazy they'll never cook for you. It's not acceptable.
Makes sense right? It's the gender equivalent of her losing a sh!t ton of weight, toned to the 9s, yoga master, pilates ninja, and Zumba queen. Although on a woman's body, her looks are magnified 100x as thirsty guys will come out of the woodwork and hit on her left and right.
Yeah.. if it's one thing I miss about the marriage were those active years she cooked and baked spontaneous recipes. I had five top recipes that she would make frequently because she knew I liked them.
Why did she stop all that?
She was never fitness-minded, though, she did train for half-marathons for a year or two while we were married.
When are these girls ever going to figure out that in tough times you come together and lean on each other and not beat the s*** out of your husband or companion like a punching bag?
Because they don't have to learn. Look, it's a reality, guys will always have to try harder to get a female than a female has to try to find a guy. You want to get laid tonight? Dress up, pull some game, show up in a great vehicle, maybe buy some drinks, be charming, look good having worked out like a fiend for months, essentially do all of the right stuff if you hope to go home with a reasonably hot chick. She wants to get laid tonight? Show up in a slutty dress, smile at anyone she's interested in, the rest of the night takes care of itself. Free drinks, free meals, rides to anywhere in the town she wants and if at some point when you're finally ready to do the plowing, she decides she wants to call it off? Well, tough sh*t for you, it's her prerogative.
Not me, I get it pretty much whenever I want it...my wife knows better, a few years ago she found a multitude of text messages in my phone from other women and knows I can get it...
What are you, 15? Guess what, she can go and get it too, so what's your point? and if you didn't sign a pre-nup, she's entitled to half of your sh*t dummy.
Living proof that the game NEVER ends...
And decreased estrogen. Body fat is like an ORGAN that converts testosterone to estrogen. Body fat is estrogenic.
It's a good idea mrgoodstuff but it's not reality simply. Women are programmed to get ahold of your resources but once they've gotten that, you're done. And with the legal system acting as the enforcer now, you've got no choice. Fruitbat, not the brightest guy in the world is right, here in the good old US, the judge can more or less do what they want. They don't like the pre-nup she signed, they don't think it's fair? Well they will throw it out. I would hope most of the time they don't but again, here in the good old US, you don't have the same rights as a criminal defendant in the family courts.
