Is this a trap? Immediate response appreciated

[JonnyD123]

As talked about in another post, my gf of a year broke up w/ me a little less than a week ago. She said she didn't wanna do it anymore and asked for all her stuff back. I didn't wine or plea or beg, I complied and left all of her belongings in her car while she was at work.

Went full NC, she just texted me tonight wanting to meet up. My first thought is to tell her she made her bed now lay in it, but I'd be lying if I said I didnt wanna see her again. What would your response/action be? Much appreciated.

 

[dustmuffin]

nc is the way to go

 

[resilient]

The first rule of NC is to stay NC.

Her hamster is spinning, don't entertain it.

 

[TheGambino]

How about snapchatting a girl? Is that the same attention giver as a text?

 

[marmel75]

"Meeting up with a friend...sorry."

=hamster overdrive turbo

 

[TheGambino]

Just NC and focus on new women. She broke up, her loss, move on.

 

[El Payaso]

No response.

Delete text and block. You deserve better than a woman who randomly breaks up with you and says "I don't want to do it anymore."

If she gets back with you, it's just out of comfort, because she didn't get the response she wanted and because her other option didn't fall through.

Nothing stopping her from breaking up with you again or even cheating on you as soon as another c0ck comes knocking.

 

[Billtx49]

Nothing stopping her from breaking up with you again or even cheating on you as soon as another c0ck comes knocking.

Bingo

 

[JonnyD123]

"Meeting up with a friend...sorry."

=hamster overdrive turbo

Ahhhh dammit hahaha. Wish I would've seen this sooner I would've said that. Following coach Corey Wayne he teaches not to ignore so all I said was I can't tonight, sorry. Didn't get a response but just found out she blocked me on IG/FB.

 

[Billtx49]

so all I said was I can't tonight, sorry.

Has the same effect on her. Both statements tell her you're busy living your life without her in it.
Your life didn't magically end when she decided to look for strange dik, did it?

 

[Glassguy]

Ahhhh dammit hahaha. Wish I would've seen this sooner I would've said that. Following coach Corey Wayne he teaches not to ignore so all I said was I can't tonight, sorry. Didn't get a response but just found out she blocked me on IG/FB.

Typical actions when a woman's emotions are raging from insecurity.

Make sure you don't show her that you've even noticed her blocking you. Just continue with life as usual. Don't give her the validation of knowing that you've even checked her fb or IG.

 

[JonnyD123]

Typical actions when a woman's emotions are raging from insecurity.

Make sure you don't show her that you've even noticed her blocking you. Just continue with life as usual. Don't give her the validation of knowing that you've even checked her fb or IG.

Done and done. I'm chilling man haha

 

[Urbanyst]

Never talk to her again unless for booty call.

 

[darksprezzatura]

When a woman overtly says it's not working out, take her word for it.

If you go back she'll bring up hell again soon and you will be miserable.

You are anyway going to do what you are going to do, just remember, this is only going to go south if you stay in touch.

 

[dude99]

As talked about in another post, my gf of a year broke up w/ me a little less than a week ago. She said she didn't wanna do it anymore and asked for all her stuff back. I didn't wine or plea or beg, I complied and left all of her belongings in her car while she was at work.

Went full NC, she just texted me tonight wanting to meet up. My first thought is to tell her she made her bed now lay in it, but I'd be lying if I said I didnt wanna see her again. What would your response/action be? Much appreciated.

Sounds like she was branch swinging to the next guy then the branch broke now she is looking backwards.


Don't give her anything more than "sorry can't meet up with you. I have a date at that time."

 

[lizardking82]

Dude, take this from me because my ex left in pretty much the same way: she said "I don't feel it anymore" in the same day she was jumping from joy when she saw me and hugged me and kissed and we had awesome sex just a couple of days before that.

When a woman tells you "I can't do this anymore", she's not your kinda woman. This is the kinda woman that will handle everything in her life like this, by leaving. It's their nature, most of them anyways. They just leave because it makes them feel like they do not have any responsability for whatever happened. Take it easy, boy, and DO NOT ANSWER. **** her, she made her bed, now let her lay in it. Emotionally unstable and immature, she's a disaster waiting to happen. Nothing more than a booty call and I would even avoid that since it will probably stir you up with emotions and might lead to wrong decisions in the future.

 

[wifehunter]

You dodged the bullet.

 

[JonnyD123]

Dude, take this from me because my ex left in pretty much the same way: she said "I don't feel it anymore" in the same day she was jumping from joy when she saw me and hugged me and kissed and we had awesome sex just a couple of days before that.

When a woman tells you "I can't do this anymore", she's not your kinda woman. This is the kinda woman that will handle everything in her life like this, by leaving. It's their nature, most of them anyways. They just leave because it makes them feel like they do not have any responsability for whatever happened. Take it easy, boy, and DO NOT ANSWER. **** her, she made her bed, now let her lay in it. Emotionally unstable and immature, she's a disaster waiting to happen. Nothing more than a booty call and I would even avoid that since it will probably stir you up with emotions and might lead to wrong decisions in the future.

Right on the money man, especially the whole leaving to avoid responsibility thing. She's very good at playing the victim and although I know she still has feelings for me, she's bailed in the past and I know things just aren't going to change.

 

[JonnyD123]

You dodged the bullet.

Tell me about it. We almost moved in together.

 

[RedScorpion]

I recommend this little guide by bradd80, for the post break-up situation - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/never-chase-your-ex.235024/page-3

Just scroll down a bit for his post. The first page is pretty good as well to read.