Do Girls Really Care About You for You?

[bigneil]

We're constantly told "that girl only cares about money, but a nice girl will love you for YOU". However, I was thinking about some of my special talents, the things that define me, and to be honest, I don't think any woman ever really gave me any credit for them.

Examples:

1) I've been an organic chef since 1997. I can cook healthier and tastier meals than you would get at the finest 5 star restaurants. Things like organic, bone-in, grass fed beef stew, yeast-free pizza or homemade guacamole. Do you think any women ever said "Let's just stay home and you can cook?" No, because it secretly bothers women to think you are saving money. They prefer restaurants where they know you are spending more.

2) I'm an artist. I can draw women. I capture beautiful images of them. Women don't seem to even care about artists anymore.

3) I'm a musician. I can play the drums. Drummers have rhythm and are intrinsically the best dancers. But I never had a groupie.

4) I'm a naturopath, a healer, a real doctor (called a quack since 1913 when the AMA was bought out by Rockefeller trust). I can heal almost any illness with herbs. Most women frown upon it and ask their doctor, and tell me the benefits of vaccines. Oh, and they'll brag about their friend and say "She dates a DOCTOR!"

I was wondering what YOUR special talents are, and whether you ever found a woman who valued them more than money or lust. If anything, I feel that women are told never to appreciate a man's special talents, but to prove that she can do whatever he can.

 

[John Constantine]

1) I cook very good food as I studied cuisine by myself but they don't appreciate it
2) I'm always sacrificing myself for the relationship and they don't realize it
3) I'm an artist, I write music, I've been in a band and I wrote song for two of my ex's - They dont even see it as romantic and they just think I'm crazy
4) I'm complimenting them on their insecurities to make them feel better ( girlfriend ) - They dont appreciate it and say that I'm delusional and I'm their confidence booster to meet a ''better'' guy

Blue pill and hollywood romantical movie are ruining the view that we have about their natural behaviour and the way to get ( keep) them, sick and twisted emotional creature

Sorry for my english, I speak french as my first language

 

[sazc]

I'm of the opinion that trying to find a partner that appreciates all of your qualities and talents is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. We can wait for that one person, but we'ed probably be lonely for a while/long time. So what do we do? We date and hope the other person eventually finds value in who we are. I think anytime you are dating a person that is disrespectful of the things you take price in, that is not the person for you. Relationships should be supportive. Anything less and you need to move on.

 

[Red Legg]

1) I am fluent in three languages 2) I chase tornadoes in the spring and put my pics on FB 3) I prospect for Gold using a metal detector 4) I can sell ice to an Eskimo 5) I am very versed in history and theology 6) I have traveled extensively to over 70 countries 7) I retired at the age of 38.

 

[bigneil]

1) I am fluent in three languages 2) I chase tornadoes in the spring and put my pics on FB 3) I prospect for Gold using a metal detector 4) I can sell ice to an Eskimo 5) I am very versed in history and theology 6) I have traveled extensively to over 70 countries 7) I retired at the age of 38.

Do women worship you for these things as they should?

I guess the bottom line is how many dollars it brings us, and how good we look, but I have to feel that before Feminism women in our lives would have celebrated and cultivated our natural talents.

Help me retire by 48 please.

 

[bigneil]

I just remembered that back in 1980, age 10, the prettiest and smartest girl in my school, when (in our Project Enterprise class for smart kids, after a field trip to the beach in Gloucester, MA where I caught a baby squid) we were asked what our special talents were, and I didn't know what to answer, she reminded me that I could draw. Those were the days.

 

[Red Legg]

Do women worship you for these things as they should?

I guess the bottom line is how many dollars it brings us, and how good we look, but I have to feel that before Feminism women in our lives would have celebrated and cultivated our natural talents.

Help me retire by 48 please.

Ha....no they don't worship me,I think some find me interesting.I can't help you retire (I know nothing of investing) I retired through the military and am just having fun.

 

[bigneil]

Has Feminism made it such that women no longer celebrate their own man's special talents, but instead suppress them as if such talents would make her inferior, given the whole equality bullsh!t?

In other words, if she can't cook, draw or play the guitar like we can, she simply dismisses those talents of ours as worthless?

The reality is this: men are dysfunctional women (see our useless breasts for proof), but in exchange for milk we were blessed with things such as courage, honor and talent. The greatest works of art were created by men (to please women). But when women deny our natural talents, which are in proportion to their childbearing ability - in a secret attempt to make themselves superior, they shoot themselves in the foot. They discourage the next Michelangelo from sculpting her own form in an immortal statue, all to honor some fat chick with purple hair and a nose ring who licks molested women.

 

[exhausted]

Has Feminism made it such that women no longer celebrate their own man's special talents, but instead suppress them as if such talents would make her inferior, given the whole equality bullsh!t?

In other words, if she can't cook, draw or play the guitar like we can, she simply dismisses those talents of ours as worthless?

The reality is this: men are dysfunctional women (see our useless breasts for proof), but in exchange for milk we were blessed with things such as courage, honor and talent. The greatest works of art were created by men (to please women). But when women deny our natural talents, which are in proportion to their childbearing ability - in a secret attempt to make themselves superior, they shoot themselves in the foot. They discourage the next Michelangelo from sculpting her own form in an immortal statue, all to honor some fat chick with purple hair and a nose ring who licks molested women.

They absolutely do not care for men anymore. They do not take pride or fulfillment in being a great partner or taking care of men. They just want to take and control everything. Their happiness comes from what they get ALL the time.
When I told my ex I looked back and realized I've taken her out to eat 12 times and she's cooked for me once, she didn't even bat an eye or have a response.
These women are disgusting. Oh ya I also cooked for her kid b4 soccer games for her too. They are shiiiit.

The only thing keeping my soul afloat is a couple I am working with as a physical therapist. The man crashed his crotch rocket and lost a leg and can't use one arm. He can't walk. Broke like 14 bones including his back, TBI as well and 2 strokes. They are 29 and his wife is fantastic. Her mom even came up for the entire summer leaving her husband to help out.

When I work with him on some excruciating exercises his wife has literally cried as he is moaning in pain. She literally cries as he hurts, she hurts.

I'm thinking this girl is one of the few left. Her mother is just as wonderful.

I have yet to find a woman like this and I have probably been thro 22 of them.

It's wonderful to see yet heart breaking when u can't find a woman like this for yourself.

Oh and she is probably a hb9 as well. No lie.

 

[Julian]

The only thing a woman appreciates its brutal honesty, domination,and being ****ed like an animal.

All that extra, that martha stewart stuff..is for the birds.

 

[zekko]

1) I've learned to be a pretty decent cook myself. I've had girlfriends rave about my cooking, including my current one, so I can't say they don't appreciate it.

2) I can't really draw, although it interests me. I just don't have the time.

3) I used to play in bands when I was younger. We had some girls who used to follow us around. Those were different times then, though. Musicians were held in higher esteem back in those days. I firmly believe that.

4) I'm not a doctor or a mystic, so can't relate to that.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Women love poetry. In a sense, seduction is poetry in motion.


That sense of being in the world,
But not of it is her essence,
A conundrum that makes a day
An infinity of presents.
And clamorous on occasions
For some affinity beyond
The push and pull of this poor earth,
Which seems a puddle or a pond.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I'm a naturopath, a healer, a real doctor (called a quack since 1913 when the AMA was bought out by Rockefeller trust). I can heal almost any illness with herbs. Most women frown upon it and ask their doctor, and tell me the benefits of vaccines. Oh, and they'll brag about their friend and say "She dates a DOCTOR!"

Naturopath interesting, the AMA are a bunch of quacks IMO

 

[Dash Riprock]

My talents? Here are a few:

1- Nationally recognized author and motivational speaker
2- Regular guest on local mid-major market FOX TV affiliate
3- Successful business owner with offices and operations in 5 cities and 4 states
4- Former singer in an 80's/90's metal and rock tribute band (Motley Crue, Dokken, Queensryche, Creed, STP, Skid Row to name a few)
5- Starting shortstop on men's softball team. Average age on team without me is around 24. I'm over 45.
6- Avid runner, hiker, biker, weightlifter, MMA. Better shape and physique than 95% of 25 year olds.
7- Trainer of Doberman Pinschers; AKA "Father of Dobermans" - you'll get it if you're a Game of Thrones fan.

 

[bigneil]

Excellent. Do women appreciate your talents?

My talents? Here are a few:

4- Former singer in an 80's/90's metal and rock tribute band (Motley Crue, Dokken, Queensryche, Creed, STP, Skid Row to name a few).

Whoa - flashback.

 

[switch7]

If a girl isn't that into you she isn't going to validate you on your talents. If a girl is into she will praise you on talents you don't even have.

Think about it, you are dating a girl and she has a PhD in biochemistry and has grade 8 piano but she's a hb7 and there is no chemistry. You might mention it once that she has achieved great things but let's face it, if the attraction isn't there then all her other attributes become void of value to you.

 

[bigneil]

If a girl isn't that into you she isn't going to validate you on your talents.

I'm referring to women who were into me, women I had relationships with, over 30 years of dating.

I feel it's extremely rare that a girl will brag to another girl that her man has certain talents. Even other men. It used to be that a woman would brag about her man's profession as if it were her own (and in a way it was). "My husband is a lawyer!". Now they think "Gender pay gap!" as they bartend. As some have noted, musicians used to be celebrated. Then we had karaoke. Now people are on their phones and they don't actually develop any skills.

My last girlfriend took singing lessons when she was 18. Last winter when we were dating I found a song by her online on soundcloud, and it literally made my heart sing. Hearing the voice of a woman you are already in love with has the effect of a Siren. She had forgot all about it. I got her to sing to me in person one night and it was a dream come true. Women don't know the power of learning to sing or play an instrument. Do women still swoon when men sing?

 

[Desdinova]

3) I'm a musician. I can play the drums. Drummers have rhythm and are intrinsically the best dancers. But I never had a groupie.

Band members get the groupies in this order:
#1 - Singer
#2 - Guitar Player
#3 - Bass Player
#4 - Drummer

In other words, the most prominent one gets the girls. If you were the singer and the drummer, that would probably change things.

I was wondering what YOUR special talents are, and whether you ever found a woman who valued them more than money or lust. If anything, I feel that women are told never to appreciate a man's special talents, but to prove that she can do whatever he can.

I can sing. I've been in bands, I've played out solo, and I've done karaoke. I'd be lying if I said I never got laid because I can sing.

 

[Meektrop]

They start out loving you for you. But after a while it's like why ain't you got etc etc like so and so that's just how it is... On another note of you are a natural healer inbox me is like to know more

 

[bigneil]

Band members get the groupies in this order:
#1 - Singer
#2 - Guitar Player
#3 - Bass Player
#4 - Drummer

Tommy Lee was Motley Crue's drummer... who did Vince Neil marry? Not Pamela Anderson and Heather Locklear.

The drum is the heartbeat of the song. The drummer is always (musically) Alpha in the band. Nobody knows he secretly relies on the Bass to stay in time.