Advice

[Dicc Blownoff]

Hey everyone, I need some advice on how to deal with females in the future. Let me first start off by saying, I'm somewhat attractive, have an athletic build, great job, and am 6'4''. Here's my issues:

1) Meet a girl, exchange numbers, blah blah. Literally the next day, I ask how their day is going, ect... Usually get a response similar to that of "It's going good, hows yours?" Here is where it starts to get strange for me because it's almost as if these women all talk and go the same route. They start taking longer and longer to reply and eventually I get into desperation mode and ask if they wanted to do something later on in the week. This is where the reply takes a few hours and is usually, "I have to go to (insert bs excuse here) or I just don't get a reply whatsoever and see them post stories on snapchat. What the hell?

2) Befriend a girl via mutual friends on SM and communicate with her until I get their number. Text for a few days or even weeks and eventually ask them if they wanted to do something later on in the week. Same story here, hours to respond/no response and posting stories on snapchat/says I don't hangout with guys who I don't know blah blah blah.
EDIT: These girls are all 8+'s

Any advice?

 

[IraLeo]

Upgrade your texting skills, or just call them. Be creative.

 

[Milano]

You dont waste time texting for days or weeks before asking them out. Unless you are a rich holywood celeb, how are you going to show her your life is exciting? You are probably just like most of the guys she is meeting except from your height. Still, if you are that well build and 6,4 there must be something else that drags you down as your body should be fine unless you mean athletic as in a marathon runner. I think often times people believe their SMV is higher than it really is because if it was higher they would attract prettier girls.

Asking a normal western slutty girl in her prime how her day is going is as boring as asking what time it is, it has zero value in her life and she has tens of messages that are more interesting to answer, also she can barely answer them all if she also has work and a life. If you had very high SMV and played your cards right, got her attention from the beginning and fuked her, you could send her stuff like "hows ur day" and boring stuff like that because now she sees u as a human being.

You have not earned the right to be treated like a human being Im afraid, cause attractive women only treat men of value like humans. You must convey that to her by being blunt and straight to the point, you are important and dont have time for bullsh1t.

When chatting with new girls you meet that are out of your social circle, or online dating for that matter, you only give her a few lines back and forth. Sometimes you can spike her feelings by entering an exciting subject but dont get obsessed about entertaining her, let it happen naturally. Sometimes we get hung up in the texting and how to tell a story ending up as clowns when she already has decided if you are good enough to fuk.

You must assume you are attractive and go for the kill (the meet up) as soon as possible.

 

[sazc]

She's not interested, just let it go I have a dude texting me now and I'm not interested so I'm not replying. I'm hoping he will let it go.

Definitely get some better texting skills. When you are not engaging or interesting in text, it's boring to talk to you. If it's boring to talk to you, why would I reply? Why would I agree to meet you.

Recently I mentioned to an online person "you are not much of a conversationalist, very are you?" The response I got was "I do better in person" which was supposed to be cute and suggestive but, honestly, very if you aren't interested in actually engaging me over text/messaging, why would our conversations be any different in person? Where is the motivation, when was the desire created, to meet you? That's when you get non responses, or delayed responses, when no desire or engagement it's being generated.

 

[The Duke]

She's not interested, just let it go I have a dude texting me now and I'm not interested so I'm not replying. I'm hoping he will let it go.

Definitely get some better texting skills. When you are not engaging or interesting in text, it's boring to talk to you. If it's boring to talk to you, why would I reply? Why would I agree to meet you.

Recently I mentioned to an online person "you are not much of a conversationalist, very are you?" The response I got was "I do better in person" which was supposed to be cute and suggestive but, honestly, very if you aren't interested in actually engaging me over text/messaging, why would our conversations be any different in person? Where is the motivation, when was the desire created, to meet you? That's when you get non responses, or delayed responses, when no desire or engagement it's being generated.

This is a great example of how critical/unforgiving women are and why they make stupid choices! They'll shoot this guy down because he isn't perfect over text, but they get tingles when Mr. Smooth Operator aka Bad Boy Casanova flips all the right switches. He's smooth because he has been there 100 times before. Practice makes perfect.

 

[dk1990S111]

This is a great example of how critical/unforgiving women are and why they make stupid choices! They'll shoot this guy down because he isn't perfect over text, but they get tingles when Mr. Smooth Operator aka Bad Boy Casanova flips all the right switches. He's smooth because he has been there 100 times before. Practice makes perfect.

Yup, my buddy just had a "break up" with his gf. He was pretty pissed about it all and got right on tinder and started hitting up old hook ups. I was sitting there watching tv as hes going down his list lol just amazing how he can hit up a girl that has a bf and have her just about there to come over and fvck just by saying the right things and pushing those buttons

 

[sazc]

This is a great example of how critical/unforgiving women are and why they make stupid choices! They'll shoot this guy down because he isn't perfect over text, but they get tingles when Mr. Smooth Operator aka Bad Boy Casanova flips all the right switches. He's smooth because he has been there 100 times before. Practice makes perfect.

Lol, bitter much? I knew someone would misconstrue what I was posting, lol. Buncha butthurt dudes.
What I actually said was be engaging. Same thing as @IraLeo or @LARaiders85 said, butcha didn't jump all over him, did you? Hmmmm wonder why?

Be ENGAGING. It means "engage". Learn texting skills. Be interesting, ask interesting questions.

Sorry buddy, you need to generate INTEREST if you want sometime to be interested. You don't stand out of you simply text " how is your day".

It also goes both ways. The female needs to attempt to generate interest as well in her texting. Dead fish texting means that sometime is going to lose interest. Period

 

[Dicc Blownoff]

So say I get a girls number, what do I say, how do I engage the next day?

 

[The Duke]

Lol, bitter much? I knew someone would misconstrue what I was posting, lol. Buncha butthurt dudes.
What I actually said was be engaging. Same thing as @IraLeo or @LARaiders85 said, butcha didn't jump all over him, did you? Hmmmm wonder why?

Be ENGAGING. It means "engage". Learn texting skills. Be interesting, ask interesting questions.

Sorry buddy, you need to generate INTEREST if you want sometime to be interested. You don't stand out of you simply text " how is your day".

It also goes both ways. The female needs to attempt to generate interest as well in her texting. Dead fish texting means that sometime is going to lose interest. Period

You are very predictable. I'm not bitter, but I'm just highly experienced. And yeah this guy needs to improve his text game most likely. But there is another side that you have never experienced which I wanted to point out. Butthurt much? Truth hurts? You aren't any different than the rest, but you sure think you are.

I've honed my text game over the years. I'm pretty good at it. In fact, I once was texting a girl that I met on a dating site. 5hrs after our first correspondence, I had said all the right things, led that that girl down the path I wanted her to go down and she was sending me all sorts of naughty pics. Went to her house at midnight and fuhked her brains out. I could do the same thing to the majority of the females out there.

 

[The Duke]

So say I get a girls number, what do I say, how do I engage the next day?

Post some actual text correspondence and we can go from there.

 

[IraLeo]

HAH! Yo, i learned that sometimes texting kills the mood. Just call them, usually they don't pick it up. But they know you called them. Wait a week and call or usually i never do.

"LEARN TO BE PATIENT, young grasshopper" Tune into Frank Ocean and let all slip pass. If she wants you she will come, if not, spin the plates.

When i don't care about a certain girl / or i don't think about her at all, she appears out of nowhere... Usually they want me more. Since then i stopped pursuing a lot of chicks, i give them the hint "i'm interested" but after a while i retreat, because i have a life!

If you still have uncertainty or doubts, mate you probably didnt read DJ BIBLE, Book of Pook, Rational Male or any other previous moderators post.

Be Calm, Keep your head high, and learn more, oh and spin the plates, lastly never catch a feeling.

 

[IraLeo]

So say I get a girls number, what do I say, how do I engage the next day?

Be creative.

If i get a girls number and i never sent a text nor gave my number to her then, i pretend that i'm calling in for escort service.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Girls make the game impossible. They require you to do things they could not do themselves.

Have you ever had a girl approach you at a bar? You know what they say? Boring ****. They ask what you do for work, etc.

I hate to keep using this MGTOW stuff as an excuse, but I think the "impossible hypergamy standard" has some validity. They way overvalue themselves and know they can get away with it and that they don't even have to show respect to guys they don't consider worthy.

They literally think their **** doesn't stink even if they have an IQ of 4.

However, if you were extremely physically attractive to them, it would be a different story. Or if they valued you for any other reason.

 

[cola]

More assertive/creative. You are boring.
Boring is one of those things girls have little sympathy for.

"This is 6'4 guy. You're coming with me to get Tacos Thursday. Non negotiable."

"Hey LatinaThunderKitty, lets dance the night away Friday."..

 

[sph21]

Hey everyone, I need some advice on how to deal with females in the future. Let me first start off by saying, I'm somewhat attractive, have an athletic build, great job, and am 6'4''. Here's my issues:

1) Meet a girl, exchange numbers, blah blah. Literally the next day, I ask how their day is going, ect... Usually get a response similar to that of "It's going good, hows yours?" Here is where it starts to get strange for me because it's almost as if these women all talk and go the same route. They start taking longer and longer to reply and eventually I get into desperation mode and ask if they wanted to do something later on in the week. This is where the reply takes a few hours and is usually, "I have to go to (insert bs excuse here) or I just don't get a reply whatsoever and see them post stories on snapchat. What the hell?

2) Befriend a girl via mutual friends on SM and communicate with her until I get their number. Text for a few days or even weeks and eventually ask them if they wanted to do something later on in the week. Same story here, hours to respond/no response and posting stories on snapchat/says I don't hangout with guys who I don't know blah blah blah.
EDIT: These girls are all 8+'s

Any advice?

First of all, you gave her the impression that you just want to be her friend by asking questions just as a friend does. Be bold and just ask her out instead of wasting your time trying to be her friend first. I'm not good at text game, so I text only when it really matters. It creates scarcity and she'll think that I have so much going on in my life and she's so lucky when I have the time to text/ contact her.

It really doesn't matter how great your job is, or how attractive your body is, but if or when you meet a girl, you started acting like a nice guy, she will run as fast as she could. Nice guy traits are a big no to girls. Pretty girls are used to getting regular text/ message from nice guys. It's easier for her to make some bs excuses in hope that they will understand the message. Only a desperate girl will accept a nice guy thus the saying "nice guy finish last".

Here's some key points to remember next time:

1. Don't text her exactly like how her female friend text her. Women text each other hours & hours mostly talking about nothing important.
2. Your goal when meeting women from the first time must not to be her friend. Hint it that you want to have a romantic relationship early on but don't say it directly. Show it through your actions or indirect words. If finally that beautiful girl doesn't want to be your girlfriend, just be her friend and maybe you'll meet her friend that's attractive.
3. Girls only care about how you make them feel inside. They will leave any man if he can't make her feel "special" in her heart. Nice guys and DonJuans/ Alphas have 2 different definitions of how to make her feel special inside.
   
4. If you understand the basics, attraction is a natural process. What you do after she's attracted to you will determine whether she will want you as a boyfriend or just as a regular friend.
   
5. Be unique. If you just want to be like any other dudes out there, then you'll become just like them. Everyone is unique in his own way. You just have to find your own uniqueness/ styles.
6. You already have a good start by fixing your financial problem/ or having a good body. The next step would be to learn how to be a DJ by reading DJBible